posted January 05, 2017 02:17 PM              

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I've only ever had threesomes while I was single with two best friends.. never while I've been in a relationship or with a couple.. has anyone here done it? I don't know how to feel about it. My lover and I are monogamous. I just get hit on all the time. I sometimes feel guilty about it because I'm the only one that gets the attention and I wonder if my lover would enjoy some of that attention as well? The attention is flattering and I know at some point every monogamous couple even fantasizes or thinks about being with someone else.. i just don't know how I would feel about doing that with my lover and how i would feel face to face with both of us going down on some other person... is that something that all couples at some point eventually find themselves discussing or considering? The person I'm with my intentions are to be with for life and lots of things happen in life.. is it something everyone thinks about or discusses at some point? I don't ever want to be unfaithful... temptation is always there. I always tell my partner. And in the back of my head I wonder if the same courtesy would be extended to me and I do think about how I would feel if it was ever brought up in conversation and would I want to or be able to go through with it and how would it affect our relationship..

Has anyone been there and how did it play out for you/them? Just looking for insight...

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posted January 05, 2017 02:51 PM            

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Close sesame.

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