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Topic: My mother again
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DaniPepper87 Moderator Posts: 6005 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted January 24, 2017 01:31 PM
Since daddy passed away, my mom is entering in a dangerous situation of depression. I asked many times for her to go to a doctor, but she refuses to go. She felt down last saturday while I was at the temple, and like my grandma, she didn't asked for help of the neighbors. Now she's crying that her life is a $%$#, and that I was responsable for many worng things that happened. I really wanted to leave home, but I fear to be chased and they say I'm leaving an unable persom behind. Things aren't that easy for me too, but I see things different: if there's something we need to fix, go on and fix... she prefers to cry and this is draining me a lot.... I really don't know what to do! IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer Moderator Posts: 2186 From: Sound Registered: Aug 2011
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posted January 24, 2017 01:43 PM
Hey Dani, I'm sorry to hear of your difficult situation.If you think your mother is depressed, would you consider perhaps getting some literature on depression and maybe sitting down with your mum and reading it with her? Other option would be to leave it lying around the house. Perhaps if she learns more about what's happening in her mind and that it is a legitimate condition that responds to therapy, she might consider a doctor. Are there any support groups for carers in your area? (maybe ask the doctor or inquire at a local mental health centre, or even start one?) You might find some peer support helpful in the meantime. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 70434 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 24, 2017 04:07 PM
Does she have strong cancer in her chart, Dani?
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Love&Light Knowflake Posts: 1616 From: India Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 26, 2017 02:38 PM
Dani, I think she needs people to be around her. Is it possible for your family members and friends to be around intermittently. Like someone or the other could just come, be around, talk etc. That helps in depression. You could be there for her too. Like talking to her, making her get involved in doing things that can distract her mind. Is she fond of praying or chanting? That helps a lot too. Helps to draw the energy within. I hope this helps. The key is in keeping her mind occupied and making her feel loved and taken care of. Is that feasible? This alongwith her taking a dip within will help her a lot. Also, you alongwith others can send her positive vibes and pray for her? I don't know whether you believe in it but it works. Take care. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 74825 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2017 02:14 PM
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