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colorful butterfly
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posted April 15, 2017 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Confident people : Open minded, gives complements, willing to learn from others, takes responsibility for thoughts , feelings, actions, results. Operates on principles, admits mistakes, not afraid to show flaws, positive thinker , risk taker, never talks negatively about others, abundance mindset giver, likes spending time with people, accepts others differences( tolerant) , can laugh at themselves, makes decisions quickly, keeps learning and growing

Insecure people: close minded, seeks validation, know it all, makes excuses for everything, do what feels good, blames others, comes off as a flake because they hide flaws, negative thinker, stays in comfort zone, gossips, scarcity mindset thinker, dislikes people, judgmental, worry about what others will think, can't make decisions , stays stuck in old ways and bad habits

Hoping this will help anyone needing something to help them out of a rut, to become determined and healthy way of being . Please void if you do not agree, it is just meant to be positive inspiration to others for change if they want to do so.

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posted April 15, 2017 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.

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posted April 16, 2017 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
May we try to be in the first group.

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posted April 17, 2017 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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May we try to be in the first group.

Defiantly!!!

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posted April 18, 2017 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think a lot of people are in both groups.

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posted April 26, 2017 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I think a lot of people are in both groups.

Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.

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posted April 26, 2017 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Yea, but they have nothing to do with you. It is usually something going on with them, something their dealing with on the inside and their projecting it back out. Took me a long time to understand this and not to take stuff in or personal that people say or do. While also just working on being the best me possible.

Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you.

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posted April 27, 2017 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I think a lot of people are in both groups.

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Ami Anne
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posted May 07, 2017 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great thread, Cb

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posted May 09, 2017 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Depending on the day, I still take it personally. This is something I worked out years ago - sometimes I could just let it go, other times it hurt too much to do that. There are some who will keep pushing, when they realize that you aren't reacting in the way they hoped. They seem to need a bad reaction out of you.

Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.

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posted May 09, 2017 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Great thread, Cb


Thanks Ami!!!

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posted May 09, 2017 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 09, 2017 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Yea, I still have moments where things are not so easy to handle the way I would like to , people seem to want to get at you for whatever reason . Usually I can ignore a lot as I learned some people just have something mental going on upstairs and they need those things because their lacking in some way but there are times where someone can punch just right , then I end up snapping their head off like Cancers do. I try to shut down first but sometimes it isn't always possible.

That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people.

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posted May 09, 2017 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
That isn't exactly what I was thinking of ("something mental going on"), although it is easier to not take things so personally, when you realize that not one thing you do, is going to be right when it comes to certain people.

Jupiter conjunct mercury in Leo ( something mental going on) , probably a little theatrical there. I agree sometimes nothing you do can make someone else happy, they have to decide to be that on the inside first .

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