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Kekerina
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posted July 15, 2019 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm gonna share a part of my story because i need to get out this from me...

i'm gonna egin to the moment i felt in love for the first time, i had 19 by the time and i meet this guys i got crazy about him, i was tsuying at the time and became so obsessed with him that i lost all my classes, he liked that, i was always with him i move to this house at 1 month of relationship! my father cut me the money ):, we had a 4 years relationship and he meet a girl and about 15 days he dump me, i cry a lot, i was with no money and almost in the street, i started to work and meet my actual patner, we had a good relationship and had a baby boy of 4 months old..but he cheated on me...last night i just ended the relationship and can't stop crying...i just don't know what to do..

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Randall
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posted July 16, 2019 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Ayelet
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posted July 16, 2019 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you still love him? Do you think he loves you, even though he cheated? Or maybe you're disillusioned with him?
It is very hard to be hurt like that, and for the second time. Perhaps see what you feel. Obviously you feel betrayed right now. But see whether besides the hurt there is genuine mutual love. It could be you're confused right now and cannot feel anything besides being deeply hurt. Maybe give yourself time to heal and know in your heart whether he is worth loving or not. In either case, your baby is with you right now... And whatever happens to your relationship, I see the baby as a blessing.

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Kekerina
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posted July 17, 2019 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes the baby is the best thing that ever happened in my life..and yes i still love him,our relationship has been these days trought a lot of fights...now he insist that doen'st want to finish the relationship, he says it was a mistake and was confused but he still want to be with me, i'm just sad, but triying to not fall into sadness, because when i do that i just get so sad,i don't take showers, and cry a lot and isolated my self but i have now to get over even i get sad, life is still moving

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Kekerina
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posted July 17, 2019 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes the baby is the best thing that ever happened in my life..and yes i still love him,our relationship has been these days trought a lot of fights...now he insist that doen'st want to finish the relationship, he says it was a mistake and was confused but he still want to be with me, i'm just sad, but triying to not fall into sadness, because when i do that i just get so sad,i don't take showers, and cry a lot and isolated my self but i have now to get over even i get sad, life is still moving

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Ayelet
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posted July 18, 2019 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, you're right. Life is moving. Take your time. I don't know neither of you, but it seems to me he could be telling the truth. If he didn't love you he would have left by now, he wouldn't try so hard to keep the relationship. Perhaps you could go to counseling together?

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Randall
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posted July 19, 2019 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Congrats on the baby.

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Kekerina
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posted July 24, 2019 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks Randall, yes Ayelet we are trying to fix things, we are making an effort on it, and he agree to go on counselling, im feeling better these days

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Ayelet
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posted July 25, 2019 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm glad to hear that. Good luck!

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Randall
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posted July 26, 2019 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kekerina:
thanks Randall, yes Ayelet we are trying to fix things, we are making an effort on it, and he agree to go on counselling, im feeling better these days

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Kekerina
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posted August 04, 2019 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me again, still trying to fix these things, theses days we visist his family and they meet the baby, sadly his ex is a cousin and she is writting to him, ALSO i read some text where she tells him that his mother said to her that she is the love of his life..and he just reply saying to her that he really loved her and im being jealous on her so he just make her ego bigger...i feel like a joke, this just feels like a joke, i talk to him and said that if he still wants to be with her we should end the relationship, im fine with that but not fine to be with someone who doesn't fully love me....is so hard to me this, he says that theres nothing between he and her...i don't believe, i asked him to stop talking to her...why he doesnt do that?????????????.. i preffer to be alone rather than miserable, he says that i should stop thinking about, he still wants to move on and be with me...im just broken in small pieces living a life pretending to be okay

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Ayelet
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posted August 04, 2019 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ayelet     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Her being his cousin doesn't make it easier to separate between them entirely... I get why you're so upset. If he loves you, he should make his love known, both to you and others. In addition, I guess it hurt you that his mom was "taking the side" of the cousin. Even if he wanted to please his cousin and nothing more, he shouldn't have made so on your expense. Did you go to counseling yet? If so, how did it go?
I think you should listen to yourself, maybe picture in your mind's eye your life with and without your partner, and try to get a gut feeling: which feels right? I wish you to get through this and feel whole with yourself.

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Randall
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posted August 27, 2019 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Update?

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Randall
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posted September 16, 2019 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Kekerina
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posted November 06, 2019 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey here is an update, we are going to terapy but is a process and takes time, he says ye regrets it and we are actually living in his family house, istmdiffi ult but we are triying to get better and mive out and have our own house, doing our best, im better right now and triying to do my own projects and be an independant person!

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posted November 06, 2019 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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