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Topic: comfort/sleep in synastry...hypnos? or something else?
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eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 01:14 AM
Might seem like a silly question but what aspects would you look for (or just think) that would make you feel so comfortable with someone they would put you to sleep?My boyfriend teases me about how much I fall asleep when we're cuddling up. Usually to a show movie. It seems like he will always have to research something cause I slept through it This might not be unusual for a lot of people but it is for me. Ive always had a difficult time falling asleep in past relationships to the point of sleep deprivation. And im not the type to fall asleep to movies, I never do this whileim alone. And im usually not tired either. Sorry for the long explanation. My hypnos 28° (8th house) conjunct his vesta 28° and his MC 29° gemini his hypnos squares my venus by 2° and conjunct my groom by 1° Neither scream what I described unless im missing something? His Amor in retro conjunct my IC both 3° pisces Then there's his Kaali 29° scorp my reiki 2° sag his psyche 4° sag my aura 5° sag Not sure if these suggest any of that like the Hypno's is often described. IP: Logged |
Newrise Knowflake Posts: 694 From: Los angeles Registered: Jul 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 04:10 AM
That's so sweet! IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan unregistered
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posted February 11, 2014 06:41 AM
OMG I thought I was the only one who experienced this LOL!!!Its very strange, just thinking about them makes me feel so euphoric and in bliss and comfy/cozy that I get realllyyy sleepy and sort of in a "drunk/love high" state lol. He's like my sleeping pill I am ready to doze off everytime I sense him. I get a feeling like our souls are "intermingling" and merging in a way, even though were not in physical proximity or together, but it feels very comforting and soothing... I think this may be because the soul takes over and the physical body sort of "shuts down", but idk those are just my thoughts. It feels very spiritual overall. We have: my Moon (12th house ruler) conjunct his IC–ruler 2° my Mars (IC co-ruler) conjunct his IC-ruler 3° my Sun trine his Neptune 1° my Moon opposite his Neptune 0° my Mars opposite his Neptune 0° his Moon trine my Neptune 1° his Mars trine my Neptune 2° his Venus square my Neptune 4° my Alma conjunct his IC 2° my Hypnos conjunct his SN 0° my Soma conjunct his Mercury 0° my Psyche trine his Mercury 0° my Selene (Moon Goddess, has to do with dreams, astral travel) conjunct his Venus 0° my Endymion (Selene's beloved) sextile his Selene 0° my Aura conjunct his Neptune 0° my Venus–Kaali conjunct his True BML 0° his Hypnos conjunct my Asc 3° his Hypnos square my NN 0° his Pallas trine my Asc 0° his Soma square my Sun 1° his Soma square my Saturn 1° his Alma square my Moon 1° his Alma square my Mars 0° his Endymion conjunct my NN 0° his Spirit conjunct my Pluto 3° his Spirit conjunct my NN 4° his Selene conjunct my Pluto 0° Psyche conjunct Psyche 0° (square his Eros 2°, opp my Sun/Moon mp 1°) Vesta opposite Vesta 1° (conjunct his Uranus 1°) Link conjunct Link 0° (conjunct his Uranus 1°) Union conjunct Union 0° (conjunct my Mercury 0°) IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 08:27 PM
Thank you newrise!! Wow Lavender!!!! That is some impressive synastry, I'm almost jealous. How are you not asleep 24/7? Lol Moon conjunct ICE sounds so dreamy! Is doesnt seem like people may much attention to the Nadir, when to me it seems like one of the most important angles. Selene huh? I'll have to look her up and endymion Thanks for the suggestion IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73349 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 11, 2014 08:31 PM
To me, the SN is the comfort point of the chart. You feel super familiar with someone when planets touch here. It would be the same with asteroids. See if your hynos touches here or what else does. I would be interested to know ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 08:53 PM
My Selene is 21° r Virgo while my SN is 23° His Endymion is 20° Cancer. My endymion is conjunct my hypnos his selene is 0° sag IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 11, 2014 10:26 PM
The closest asteroids he has to my SN (that I know of) would be Dark moon lilith and apophis at 21° Virgo and yurlov at 22° Virgo. They all fall between his venus/mars conjunction and antivertex/ascendant conjunction but not close enough to conjunct either side. I recently discover he has utopia conjunct my sun though. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 12:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: To me, the SN is the comfort point of the chart. You feel super familiar with someone when planets touch here. It would be the same with asteroids. See if your hynos touches here or what else does. I would be interested to know
I was thinking that exact same thing Ami, it has to be an aspect with the SN!!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73349 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 12, 2014 07:35 AM
LOL Gabby ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 11:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: LOL Gabby
I had this with a guy who's Sun was on my SN and his AC was on my DC....he felt like home to me! I slept like a baby with him and we loved to cuddle n watch movies and yes I'd always fall asleep and he would have to tell me how the movie ended the next morning! Lol IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan unregistered
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posted February 12, 2014 02:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces: Thank you newrise!! Wow Lavender!!!! That is some impressive synastry, I'm almost jealous. How are you not asleep 24/7? Lol Moon conjunct ICE sounds so dreamy! Is doesnt seem like people may much attention to the Nadir, when to me it seems like one of the most important angles. Selene huh? I'll have to look her up and endymion Thanks for the suggestion
Thanks, eyes_like_pisces Well 24/7 he is on my mind lol, so in a way a part of me is usually in a daze But you don't have to be jealous lol, were not even together. And yes, I agree that the angles are extremely important! The IC is the lowest part of your chart, therefor its relative to the soul; its your most deepest and private self. Its a Lunar house as well, so it has the symbolism of the Moon. That's why it feels so intimate and deep.
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posted February 12, 2014 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I had this with a guy who's Sun was on my SN and his AC was on my DC....he felt like home to me! I slept like a baby with him and we loved to cuddle n watch movies and yes I'd always fall asleep and he would have to tell me how the movie ended the next morning! Lol
Awww that is so sweet IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan: Awww that is so sweet
Thank you!! IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 04:47 PM
@eyes.... I found an interesting aspect between me n the guy that put me to sleep....lolMy Soma aqua@5.03(involves 2 energies uniting) His Somnium aqua@5.11(dream) Inconjunct my Hypnos virgo@4.44 Opposed his Mars pisces@4.22 My Somnium scorp@1.13 My Kaali scorp@2.15 Trine his Kaali aqua@29.56 His Soma gemini@14.12 His Hypnos gemini@15.06 My Psyche gemini@15.21 Inconjunct his Psyche scorpio@14.56 IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan unregistered
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posted February 12, 2014 05:00 PM
Oh I never heard of Somnium before. I have a feeling it will be prominent for us, well atleast on my end lol. my Somnium opposite his Vertex 3° my Somnium conjunct his Hypnos 0° my Somnium conjunct his Aeternitas 2° my Somnium conjunct his Eureka 1° his Somnium conjunct my Pluto 0° his Somnium conjunct my Alma 2° his Somnium conjunct my Devine 1° his Somnium conjunct my Freia 1°
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 12, 2014 07:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan: Oh I never heard of Somnium before. I have a feeling it will be prominent for us, well atleast on my end lol. my Somnium opposite his Vertex 3° my Somnium conjunct his Hypnos 0° my Somnium conjunct his Aeternitas 2° my Somnium conjunct his Eureka 1° his Somnium conjunct my Pluto 0° his Somnium conjunct my Alma 2° his Somnium conjunct my Devine 1° his Somnium conjunct my Freia 1°
Awe, you are part of each other's dreams!! IP: Logged |
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posted February 12, 2014 09:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Awe, you are part of each other's dreams!!
He does come in my dreams often, yes. IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 12, 2014 11:10 PM
Wow I didn't realize we do have good somnium contacts they each trine each others by about 3°. My Somnium 27° retro cancer conjunct his 0° Leo hypnos, square his mercury by 3° and sun/pluto by 2°. His Somnium 24° pisces conjunct my NN by 1° my Angel by 2° my PoF by 4° and trine my psyche by 1° IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 12, 2014 11:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan: Thanks, eyes_like_pisces Well 24/7 he is on my mind lol, so in a way a part of me is usually in a daze But you don't have to be jealous lol, were not even together. And yes, I agree that the angles are extremely important! The IC is the lowest part of your chart, therefor its relative to the soul; its your most deepest and private self. Its a Lunar house as well, so it has the symbolism of the Moon. That's why it feels so intimate and deep.
Thank you Lavender for sharing I hope you figure out your situation soon <3 IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 12, 2014 11:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I had this with a guy who's Sun was on my SN and his AC was on my DC....he felt like home to me! I slept like a baby with him and we loved to cuddle n watch movies and yes I'd always fall asleep and he would have to tell me how the movie ended the next morning! Lol
Definitely sounds like a fated encounter. Are you two still in contact? Just curious.
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 12:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces: Definitely sounds like a fated encounter. Are you two still in contact? Just curious.
He still tries...... He lied to me and told me he was divorced when he was barely separated! I think he was still with her until a month or so after we met and he ended up liking me and so I guess he left her....he told me they were divorced, but then she called me 2months after we had been dating! We broke up! He never went back to her but I was done after that! I couldn't get a straight story from him about what really happened....apparently he is a liar! That's all I know for sure! IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 13, 2014 12:08 AM
Wow, I just tried asteroid REM, 3739 His REM is libra@10.25 My AC libra@8.43 His DC libra@9.46He brings REM to the way I'm seen!!! IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan unregistered
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posted February 13, 2014 04:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces: Thank you Lavender for sharing I hope you figure out your situation soon <3
Thank you <3 =) IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 448 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 19, 2014 01:57 AM
Wow Gabby!Perhaps you were meant to teach him a life lession about faithfulness and honesty. Good for you for keeping it in the past and moving on! IP: Logged |
8ofHearts Knowflake Posts: 164 From: CA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted October 14, 2019 01:31 AM
I love this. I would guess a combination of IC/Moon contacts, south node and/or 12th house. I had a lover who's Moon/Venus/South node all fell into my 12th house. He had sleep problems but would always get so relaxed and drowsy hanging in bed with me. I also LOVED sleeping with him. I believe his asteroid reiki also conjuncted one of my planets.mmmmI just started dating this guy this weekend. He also confessed to crazy sleep problems & waking up at the same time every night. My Moon and Venus are conjunct his south node. We didn't hook up but that night, we both went home drowsy and he said he slept like a baby, all through the night without waking up and many hours later then he usually does. I also don't typically remember my dreams but I dreamed about him all night. South Node baby!!! It's dreamy. ) IP: Logged |