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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted December 12, 2002 08:18 PM
 
Hiya  Tricky question comming up! I was thinking again this morning after a conversation with a friend of mine - an Aquarian - you know it can be dangerous Anyway - she mentioned that she has never been able to climax during lovemaking with her partner/s. Many female friends of mine have mentioned this to me during the years and i was beginning to wonder... -What is the reason the body (of females) reaches climax - from a spiritual point of view... does Linda have any ideas on this??
-What is the reason (If any) for some womens inability to climax - is it a spiritual reason, something to do with their planetary positions or a physical reason?
-Is there anyone who can offer some advice on affirmations/healing techniques/colour therapies etc that i can offer my friend? Thanks so much for your help - and understanding with such a difficult question LOL, Nebel
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theFajita
Knowflake Posts: 2007
From: Boca Raton, FL USA
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 13, 2002 10:34 PM
I think the time of the month related to period and hormones can definetely make a difference. Usually right before and during menstruation is when sensation is increased and hormone levels change and I think climax is easier. I also think drinking alot of water before hand, or at least not peeing it out, helps because a little pressure on the bladder I think effects the blood flow somehow, that is why all aphrodisiacs or most of them, stimulate the bladder or make you have to pee. I also think being comfortable and not embarrassed is important. Resentment is not good. And being turned on is good some people find a lot of touching or watching videos can be fun! I don't know too much about colors but I do know that red is stimulating and blue is cooling so I would think red colors an candles or light would be good- hey I just realized the red light district, LOL And being self concious (sp?) is just no good! And some time mind altering chemicals that might even enhance feelings may delay orgasm. ------------------
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 15, 2002 12:15 AM
Can I answer?  If it's more than a temporary problem, I would suggest it's a mental block (inability to let go). ------------------
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RubyRedRam
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posted December 15, 2002 07:37 AM
I also know a lady whom has never had an orgasm while doing ANYTHING with the opposite sex. She is about 35ish and I have always gone to her for advice in love etc. She seemed to me like the most sexually liberated person I knew!! and then she dropped that bombshell. She told me most of her friends are in the same boat, they enjoy sex but are artists at faking it. Personally, I would never deprive myself of the pleasure. Although I dont have one every time, I couldnt fake it now (although I admitt I have done so in the past). What I learnt from that was if you dont communicate to your partner whats happening or not happening, then how can it change? ...but some women actually never expect an orgasm with sex.... I say, trust, communication, experimentation and gentle honesty will get you through every time.  IP: Logged |
Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted December 26, 2002 02:49 AM
Thanks guys Randall - any tips on removing mental blocks?? LOL
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Oxychick
Moderator Posts: 2486
From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted December 26, 2002 09:20 PM
I agree with Randall.But I have to add that often times, women are brought up repressed, feeling ahsamed of their sexuality. Most women don't truly believe that they are sexual beings and deserve pleasure...in that department. Patience (this from an Aquarian...what am I saying??) is a virtue and that combined with a sincere caring can help the woman through her problems, if she's willing to work on it. Soemtimes there are bigger issues-issues that stem from actual experiences. That's harder to deal with... ------------------
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