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Topic: I need advice please
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purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 331
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 22, 2003 10:37 PM
 
I am a virgo girl, and in june I had my heart shattered by my leo guy (we dated for 8 months), and I had not heard from him at all until the other day. I know he moved to a different state recently. On nov 18th, He sent me an email saying that he missed me, he feels bad about hurting me, and we should have talked things through, looks forward to hearing from me, and will write again soon... so I sent him an e-card back saying "I miss you too, it would be nice to talk to you on the phone again, my # is...". I know he received the e-card because I got a confirmation from the e-card website, but I haven't heard from him at all. I am wondering if I said something wrong that scared him or something, because I really wanted to hear from him, also he said he would write again soon, and it has been a few days...I know people get busy, but I hope he is not playing head games. Any advice would be appreciated. Do you think maybe he is thinking about what to say before he writes or something?
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SunShyne
Moderator Posts: 449
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Registered: May 2003
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posted November 23, 2003 01:59 AM
Hi Purple,  I think he feels badly about how he ended it and he needed to apologise for that. Maybe he'll call, maybe he won't - the trick is to not expect him to. From experience, most of the pain attached to a situation lies in not being able to accept that it really is over. Once you accept it, the pain doesn't stick around much longer. The truth is, I have no idea what to say to you really - I just felt your pain and clicked on 'reply'. I just want to reach out to you and let you know that it WILL get better no matter how today feels - if you've heard that a million times it's because it's true. Keep your chin up and smiiile!  I hope you have a beautiful, sunshiny Sunday.  
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 23, 2003 06:55 PM
Purplezen I am REALLY feeling for you right now! It is SUCH a pain in the you-know-what when someone says they are going to call/email and they DON'T!Here's my advice... Between two or more people there are always telepathic messages being given and taken. You may or may not be aware of them consciously, but you are very much aware of them subconsciously. Right now you are sending out desperate/sad/uncertain messages to your leo mate. He's picking up on these and thinking - do i really want to call her? Change your tune a bit. I know it will be hard, but try and think Positive! He WILL call! Try and picture him calling you. Send him telepathic messages saying 'its OK to Call', 'I am a happy person' or even indiference (i.e. Don't focus so much of your attention on whether or not he calls). I hope this helps a bit
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Nebel
(P.s. I hope he calls ------------------
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purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 331
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 23, 2003 08:14 PM
thanks guys I feel better already. I am thinking positive.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted November 24, 2003 01:45 PM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 331
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 24, 2003 01:55 PM
update: I got an email from the leo today, and he said he will call me soon, and the reason that he hasn't called is because he feels uneasy about talking to me for some reason. I am not going to email back right away...probably tomorrow. I will let him sweat a little IP: Logged |
SunShyne
Moderator Posts: 449
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Registered: May 2003
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posted November 25, 2003 06:44 AM
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