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Topic: I WNAT TO BE NORMAL AND HAVE A BABY!
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BIG_midget
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Easton, ME USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted November 30, 2004 04:29 PM
 
I am 18 years old and two weeks ago, I was told that I have gone through premature menopause. They are currently talking to infertility clinics to see if I can still get pregnant. If I do though, it will have to be SOON. Any suggestions on how to deal or what to do? It would be greatly appreciated. IP: Logged |
neostar
Knowflake Posts: 134
From: Vic. Australia
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted November 30, 2004 05:33 PM
Expect a Miracle Angel!..  Just know you will! Sending my love & light to you,
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miss_apples
Knowflake Posts: 293
From: white bear lake, MN, USA
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 01, 2004 02:38 AM
The stress you must be through. Visulization can work wonders if you believe. Try meditating and imagine a white light entering your womb and ovaries making them fertile again. I personally heavily believe in Angels so if you do also, specifically ask your angels to help you heal and imagine that white light as being your angel. Archangel Raphael is the Archangel for healing so you could ask him for help also. IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
Moderator Posts: 4182
From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted December 01, 2004 04:36 AM
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Yin
Knowflake Posts: 755
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Registered: May 2004
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posted December 01, 2004 01:46 PM
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Gia
Moderator Posts: 891
From: California
Registered: May 2004
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posted December 01, 2004 10:38 PM
I would suggest you get a second opinion. It is often the case that in young people this can be reversed naturally. Gia IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
Moderator Posts: 4182
From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted December 02, 2004 10:06 AM
Gia, what you said reminded me of a situation I had when I was 18. I was told that my uterus was thinning and that it would be next to impossible for me to carry a child to term. Most likely any pregnancy would only last a few months.When I was 21 my oldest daughter was born, and 22 with the youngest (16 months apart... I know...  ). That old wives tale about not getting pregnant while you're nursing is NOT true. Not that I really believed it. We used the pull and pray method two times after our oldest was born. The rest of the time we used condoms. 10,000 live sperm in pre-ejaculation... My youngest daughter is living proof of that fact  Since they were so close, with nursing and being pregnant, I didn't have a period for over two years. Those were the days  IP: Logged |
miss_apples
Knowflake Posts: 293
From: white bear lake, MN, USA
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 02, 2004 04:47 PM
Before my Grandmother died she was involved in a drug study at University of Minnesota. They were trying to see if their medication would help with women with heart disease. Anyways the drug that they gave her made her menstrate again. I dont know if it reversed her menopause completly though......I agree that you should get a second opinion though. I once has an impetigo sore by my eye and the doctor tried telling me it was just a sty. On the other hand I had another idiot doctor, my son was 2 months old, throwing up all his food, and the doctor didnt think it was that serious. My son ended up spending 3 weeks in the hospital. And LS...my son is living proof that the pill isnt 100% effective...lol.
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ghanima81
Knowflake Posts: 496
From: MAINE! :)
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted December 02, 2004 05:12 PM
BIG_midget,Yes, a second opinion is the smartest thing you could do at this point. Also consider that medicine is changing and growing every day, so even if you do have problems with your reproductive system now, it could be fixed in future. Trust me on this, I was told when I was 19 that I probably could not carry a child past 3 months, and have had several surgeries and issues with my uterus since then. But I still don't give up hope that someday I could have a child of my own. Don't feel that ''now is your only chance'', you may not be ready now... and even though it seems like a curse, it may be a good thing, as when you are ready for children, you will know you are really ready, and will have to take more serious measures than many other people to have a child of your own. This may not sound terribly encouraging, as I don't have a happy ''yes, i was told that and i have 2 healthy children now'' story, but... I won't give up hope that I will someday  Gotta look at the positive, and make sure you see more than one doctor, you need the peace of mind.
Love and light,
Ghani
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NeoKitty
Knowflake Posts: 151
From: Heaven
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 13, 2004 08:01 PM
How are you BIG_midget?
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BIG_midget
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Easton, ME USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 14, 2004 10:01 AM
I've gotten a second opinion and it came out the same. Now I need to see a fertility specialist and find a research group that specializes in premature menopause.IP: Logged |
NeoKitty
Knowflake Posts: 151
From: Heaven
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 14, 2004 06:28 PM
Sending positive thoughts your way for strength and optimism. IP: Logged |
26taurus
Moderator Posts: 3789
From: the stars
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted December 14, 2004 06:57 PM
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BIG_midget
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Easton, ME USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 16, 2004 08:43 AM
if you all hear anything about research groups, please let me know. it would be greatly appreciatedIP: Logged |
Saffron
Knowflake Posts: 177
From:
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 21, 2004 12:15 AM
hi Big ~i hope everything works out for you.....don't give up hope! a baby is the most precious thing you could hope to do.....giving another soul life! i have one, kind of a miracle, and i would be so very blessed to have another. sending healing light to you... love from Saffron
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