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future_uncertain
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posted April 21, 2005 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Okay... I have a weird female problem that has been going on for over a month. I guess the easiest thing to do would be to start from the beginning. I don't have insurance right now, so I want to be as informed as possible before I spring for a dr's appt. I've been google searching, but I'm not getting any answers.

For starters I'm 28. Last month my period was nearly a week late, which is unusual because, while my cycles vary a bit in length, they never run over 28 days. I assumed I was pregnant without even taking a test. I was extremely emotional-- clingy and crying over really small things (like my boyfriend playing cards with my family at Easter instead of sitting on the couch with me... not something I would normally even notice!) Anyway, when I was about a week late, I went ahead and took a test and it was negative. I started my period a few hours later.

It lasted for a day and a half, then started again a day later for about two and a half more days. All in all, with the exception of the pause in the middle, it was normal.

Prior to this I was experiencing breast tenderness and slight nausea, both of which cleared up after my period. A week later the soreness returned and has been here ever since. Also, I have gained ten pounds in the last month... five pounds in the last three days. I haven't been eating any more than usual, but within a few hours of eating I am ravenous. I'm also experiencing frequent urination. My weight generally doesn't fluctuate much, so the weight gain is strange. Some of these symptoms could be pregnancy symptoms, but when I was pregnant with my son I was extremely tired and quite sick. I'm not experiencing either of these things. I've also noticed some tenderness and sometimes pain around my ovaries.

I've looked into endometriosis (my mother had a hysterectomy at 29 because of this), perimenopause, and pregnancy. None of these things seem to fit. I'm not late yet this month, but I'll be watching for that.

Anyone have any ideas? I feel like I've spilled a lot of personal information, but I am really stumped. Especially the weight gain thing. I have been at the same weight for almost ten years, except when I was pregnant. I'm not under any unusual amounts of stress. My eating/sleeping habits haven't changed. I have no idea what is going on. I would appreciate any input you guys could give me.

Thanks a bunch!

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Saturn's Child
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posted April 21, 2005 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saturn's Child     Edit/Delete Message
Hi..I would like to know that you are going to go to a doctor to get checked out. The rapid weight gain, tenderness in areas and frequent urinating could be symptoms of something serious. I sure don't mean to frighten you, but, better safe than sorry.
Also to consider is birth control method, change in eating habits, etc.
Where I live there is a women's clinic that bases fees on income. Anything like that available to you?
Meantime, Iam sending light & love to you.

Blessings

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geminstone
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posted April 22, 2005 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminstone     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Future,

Have you looked up anything about ectopic pregnancies? I'm not entirely sure on that spelling but, you might google that...? Just a thought but, you are probably not going to be throwing away any money by seeing your OBGYN. Chances are, if it strikes you as odd, it is. My Dad's girlfriend had to have a hysterectomy, she was 23 if I remember right. She had been diagnosed with uterine cancer. I believe it was the day before her scheduled surgery, she paid a visit because of severe discomfort and she was having some bleeding that was not normal..... long to short of it, they discovered that she had an ectopic pregnancy that was to the point of rupture. Basically, she was told that she was real lucky, because had she waited until her scheduled visit, it would have been a very different outcome.... I'm not a Doctor but, I too, know what it is to have to make a decision based on the fact that I am not insured and, if you think it odd, you're most likely right. The Dr.'s know the Biology but, only you know the experience. If it were me, I would go and, like I said, I pay for it out of pocket, as well so, I understand your hesitation. I wish you Wellness Future(L)

~ geminstone

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angel_of_hope
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posted April 22, 2005 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel_of_hope     Edit/Delete Message
I had the same symptoms going on with me. I really thought those home preggers tests were lying to me and went in for a test and ended up doing a ultra sound ... long story short I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome ... which is caused by a hormone imbalance, which would cause all those symptoms. Especially the weight gain around the mid section. Not all people will experience the same symptoms, if any at all. hence "syndrome" ....
You may want to search that a lil as well!

Love and white light to you!

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future_uncertain
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posted April 22, 2005 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you very much, ladies. Today I felt extremely dizzy all day, and no matter how much I ate I still felt hungry. I really don't think I could be pregnant, but you never know.

Angel_of_Hope, this is new news to me. I'll check into it!

Thanks again so much for your replies. I'll let you know what I find out.

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lalalinda
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posted April 22, 2005 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
your health should be priorty number one.
Go to the Dr.

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Gia
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posted April 23, 2005 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gia     Edit/Delete Message
Go and have your thyroid tested please.

Gia

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trillian
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posted April 23, 2005 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
Ditto Gia on the thyroid.

Here's a link to an interactive thyroid checker.
http://thyroid.about.com/blquickthyroidfacts.htm

Under 'select a condition,' select hypothyroidism (underactive thyroid). You'll see a list of possible symptoms. Most people don't have all the symptoms, but often have more than one.

Please have it checked.
You can also monitor your basal body temperature, which can also indicate hypothyroidism if you are consistently having a low body temperature. Search on the same website for the simple details on how to do this.

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future_uncertain
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posted April 25, 2005 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Whoa! I ran through the checklist and lots of these symptoms sound familiar. Looks like a thyroid test is in order. Thank all of you so much for your advice and personal accounts.

Just another thing to love about LindaLand!

It means so much to me when I see people reaching out here to help others. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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angel_of_hope
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posted May 09, 2005 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel_of_hope     Edit/Delete Message
FU ( - i just realized abbreviating your name prolly isnt a good idea)- how are you feeling? any better? did you go and have any tests done?

i was just thinking about you and your unknown condition!

ang-

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
http://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial_s&hl=en&q=candida&btnG=Google+Search

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
i also dont mean to frighten but eating and then feeling hungry right away brings to mind two conditions, one i have posted a link to above. its called "candida" and its a nasty but easily treatable type of yeast. the other is worms... both are easily treatable, but potentially nasty.

eating raw garlic cloves kills worms, and there are other dietary measures you can take to rid the body of the candida yeast. plenty of diligent research should lead you in the right direction.

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
also have you done a pap-smear recently? a fun-fact that somehow got left out of my high-school health class is that 75% of sex-age americans have some form of Human Papiloma Virus (Genital Warts).

you can get a pap-smear for free usually at a public health facility.

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
this web-site... http://www.candida-society.org.uk/
provides a good description of candida and symptoms, but it downplays the ease with which this can be treated, so i would reccomend looking for other sources of info too. if i find a good one i will post it.

in fact, although this site provides a good description i would go so far as to say it is downright dis-honest in its evaluation of possible treatments. i feel that they make money from this and exagerrate the need for their services.

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
this site (excellent) http://www.candidapage.com/candiet.txt

was taken from this site... which is also good. http://www.panix.com/~candida/

i reccomend looking under "sites by individuals". they arent selling anything and desire to share, not profit.

KEYWORD: GARLIC!!!!GARLIC!!!!GARLIC!!!!

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beebuddy
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posted May 10, 2005 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
hm... do i seem obsessive yet?lol

anyway, after looking at your pictures on the other website thingy, i get the feeling that there might be an endocrine issue (such as thyroid). however, i have a strong feeling that your condition can be eliminated through strictly dietary measures.

LOTS of cruceferous veggies (preferably organic), including cabbage, colliflour, broccoli, brussel sprouts etc...

ABSOLUTELY NO processed foods, like white bread, pasta, ALL sugers including fruit juice and honey and ESPECIALLY high fructose corn syrup.

MORE fresh (organic only) milk, dairy and eggs.

ABSOLUTELY NEVER EVER EVER EVER ANY hydrogenated oils!!! sooooo bad for you.

FOR A FEW MONTHS eat lots of pungent foods like onions, garlic, asparagus, curry, basically anything that STINKS!

SUPPLEMENTS (IF ANY): VIT. C (with rosehips) 1000-2000 mg a day. Digestive enzyme supplement. Probiotic supplement. (coral calcium maybe, depending on how you like the feel of it).

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future_uncertain
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posted October 18, 2005 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Goodness Sake, beebuddy... thank you so much for your replies. I am terribly sorry I missed them the first time.

I went digging for this thread because I'm still experiencing the same symptoms. I went to the dr. last month and told her everything and you know what? She didn't aske me one single question! She only said, "It sucks getting older, doesn't it?"

After I continued asking questions she decided to appease me by ordering a thyroid test, which came back OK.

I got a call from the office last week and my pap came back with moderate dysplasia, so I'll go in for a biopsy next week. They've already checked it for cancer, so at least it's not that.

I asked if the dysplasia could be related to my other symptoms and they said no.

Frustrating!!!!

When I go in for the biopsy I'll be seeing a different dr. I intend to share my symptoms with him to see what he thinks.

In the meantime, if anyone has any ideas, let me know.

Thanks!

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geminstone
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posted October 18, 2005 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminstone     Edit/Delete Message
GAW!! Future.... your Dr. sounds far too concerned Are you sure that 'appeasing' you actually did include a test? I am with you, voice all these concerns.... maybe the 2nd opinion will show a Dr. who listens and, cares! Keep pushing Future, if you know your body is not right, keep pushing... don't forget your internal self, sometimes things ignored or left unattended too long, manifest through your physical self too. You are in my thoughts and, I'm pushing too!!

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trillian
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posted October 18, 2005 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
Future, beebuddy has given you excellent advice. Doctors can sometimes help with a diagnosis, but I think healing begins with one's self.

You said the doctors said your thyroid test was "okay." Can you please find out exactly what your TSH was? There is a huge variable from Doctor to Doctor. However, anything over 3.0 is considered underactive. While anything under 0.3 is considered overactive. BUT, in many doctor offices, they are still using old readings that sometimes go as high as 8.0 before they begin treatment.

It should be simple for you to call and find out.

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The less I seek my source for some definitive, the closer I am to fine. -Indigo Girls

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future_uncertain
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posted October 19, 2005 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
geminstone~ I go for my appointment next Wednesday. I've done some research and I'm wondering if maybe I don't have some uterine fibroids? I'm going to see if he'll do an ultrasound, at least for my piece of mind.

Trillian~ Thanks for the tip on the thyroid test. I will certainly ask for the score when I go back in. And what you've said describes my problem with a large part of the medical field in general-- opinions vary, and it seems too many dr's are more focused on numbers and statistics than they are on their patients.

Not all, of course, but I have yet to find a dr that I really trust around here.

Have either of you read Christiane Northrup? I have a book by her called "Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom." She's amazing!

Thanks again! I will let you know how things go on Wednesday.

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future_uncertain
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posted October 19, 2005 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Beebuddy, I've been checking out your links, and you might be on to something.

I've posted another thread on my hives and your links kind of tie both sets of my symptoms together.

I'd like to try the diets... but I eat so much sugar and starches (I know... I'm bad! But they taste so GOOD!) I love cruciferous veggies, though. I'm not a fan of onion at all, but I can try some different things with garlic (besides pasta.)

What else would you recommend eating? I've always wanted to cut back my sugar and white flour anyway, but if I did, I'd have not idea what to eat!

Thanks a bunch to all of you! As soon as I kill this pan of Rice Krispie Treats I'm going to start hunting up some good recipes.

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beebuddy
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posted October 19, 2005 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
Sugar and white flour can be very detrimental to the body. Sugar in small doses (for flavor) is ok but try the raw kind. I find that oats are tasty like white flour and they are much better for you. Google an "oat cakes" recipe.

Post more later when I get some ideas.

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future_uncertain
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posted October 19, 2005 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Trillian... I couldn't wait until next week to find out my TSH. I just called and they said it was 0.51. This would then be overactive, right? I just want to make sure I was reading your information correctly.

I never would have thought to ask for this info if you hadn't mentioned it!

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future_uncertain
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posted October 19, 2005 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, beebuddy. I didn't see your post before I wrote Trillian.

I have a bag of unbleached white flour by Hodgson Mill. Would this be okay or still no?

I'll be looking forward to any new info you come up with!

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beebuddy
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posted October 19, 2005 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beebuddy     Edit/Delete Message
Future,

It's not that it's bad, it's a matter of proportions. For now you should probably cut it out completely until you purify the system and feel better.

"Extreme" is the key word. Eat nothing but veggies, dairy, eggs and oats for a month and try the vitamin C and coral calcium. Drink LOTS of water and try eating raw garlic cloves once a week. Also, veggies should be the biggest part of the diet. It won't be a fun month not eating any goodies but it's best to purify HARDCORE first. Then after the body is purified it's like hitting the "reset" button and there will be much more awareness of the body and it's needs. Then just eat what makes you feel good, sugar and white flour probably won't make you feel as good as oat cakes etc...

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