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Topic: My Father-in-Law is Fadeing Fast
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 25, 2005 09:52 AM
He has Parkinsons. He has been very ill for a long time. Yesterday, he fell and was taken to the hostpital. He can home but not he is Paralized. Just waiting for the end. They will take him back to the hospital today. They don't expect him to come back home. I suppose he will have to be put in a nursing home. I am so sad.IP: Logged |
Saturn's Child Knowflake Posts: 800 From: Just left of center Registered: May 2004
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posted July 25, 2005 09:55 AM
So Sorry to hear about your Father in law. I am sending love to him and the rest of your family. IP: Logged |
SunShyne Moderator Posts: 552 From: Registered: May 2003
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posted July 25, 2005 10:15 AM
Dear Bluemoon, Peace to your father-in-law and strength to you and your family. SunShyne IP: Logged |
Sheaa Olein Moderator Posts: 2392 From: Laaandon Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 25, 2005 10:24 AM
Bluemoon ~ I sympathise with you at this sad time for you and the family I know you must be feeling awful, I wish strength for you, your family and your father-in-law to get through this together, and above all love. I wish you well, as always hon IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted July 25, 2005 12:00 PM
Sorry to hear this BluemoonWill send love and healing rom Ireland, hope all turns out well Love Sue xx
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 26, 2005 08:53 AM
Thanks for your support. It really means alot. I am going to got the hospital today to see him for myself. I will update later. IP: Logged |
trillian Moderator Posts: 3600 From: The Boundless Registered: Mar 2003
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posted July 26, 2005 09:02 AM
Blessings to you and your family. IP: Logged |
Angeldust Knowflake Posts: 103 From: ANDALUCIA Registered: Jun 2004
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posted July 26, 2005 09:02 AM
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noreenz Knowflake Posts: 713 From: Registered: Feb 2004
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posted July 27, 2005 07:13 PM
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 28, 2005 07:18 AM
I saw him yesterday. He can barely move his legs,(at least he can move them some). He is very weak, but is eating well and trying. He is being transfered to a rehab facillity today. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted July 28, 2005 07:42 AM
God bless him - will keep sending on the light xx IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 28, 2005 01:18 PM
Thanks, SoogieIP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 27, 2005 08:35 PM
He is a bit better, now we face the difficult choice of where to take him. His wife is 83 and not in great health. That is my fun job this weekend, looking for a good affordable nursing home. :frown:IP: Logged |
PixieDust Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Alaska Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 29, 2005 03:06 PM
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 12, 2005 09:03 AM
I saw him yesterday. He looks like a skeleton. I am sick about the whole thing. My daughter and I brought him some strawberries and pie and he managed to Scarf it all down. I took him out side for a while. It was a beautiful day. At first he said "Oh no, they wont let me outside" I said " oh yes they will!!!!" We looked at the fowers and watched the birds. It was nice. We were there about 2 hours and he was walking around by the time we left. I just really hate that place. I was ready to put him in the car and bring him to my house. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 10:02 AM
You are a darling Blue - he must love you ......I do too Sue G xxx IP: Logged |
ScotScorp Knowflake Posts: 447 From: Saint Louis, Missouri Registered: Aug 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 12:31 PM
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 12, 2005 12:32 PM
Thanks Sweet Soogie for being such a bright spot. Love you much, Woman!!!!!! IP: Logged |
iAmThat Knowflake Posts: 912 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 09:34 PM
Hi BlueMoon, Must be tough for you and your Dad. Pray harder and and ask your dad also to pray if he can. I believe that each one carries his own hell on his head Didn't mean to offend you. But I got to say what I feel.Peace.
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 13, 2005 04:43 AM
IATIt isnt Blue's dad, its her father-in-law.........and your comment was maybe a tad bit inappropriate at this time..... xxx IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 13, 2005 04:45 AM
.....oh and just a little tip......I am learning as I get older......that we dont HAVE to always say what we feel......no a part of maturing is knowing when to speak out and when not to....sometimes life requires that we stand back....Hope this helps......love your honesty......but not everyone is ready for it xxx IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 2144 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 13, 2005 08:47 AM
I am going back today. it is at least 3 hours there and back. I have several things to do there and so I will bring him food. THe man needs some meat on his bones. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 2613 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 13, 2005 12:17 PM
Blue, you are indeed an love to you and your family xx IP: Logged |
iAmThat Knowflake Posts: 912 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 13, 2005 09:10 PM
Hi Sue, Thanks for pointing out. I felt the relationship between them to be more daughter-father like hence Dad. In some culture, this is true. OK, about why I said what I said? Its this: The good things was said in the initial threads and I was only playing the devils advocate. Just as you were when you pointed me out I feel we must each make known what our heart feels and try to analyse the worst case, and be prepared as well. My connotation wasn't meant to offend. Yes you are correct about when to say things. Sorry BM, if this came a little soon. I just wanted to pass the message to BlueMoon that pray strongly thats all. A man/woman comes alone and leaves alone. All this newage 'Sending light etc' I am not sure, if it works at all. I can imagine it having an effect amongst a blood family. May be it works amongst cyber friends on a direct personal level. But praying for someone thru someone, I am not sure how it works. Yes we may argue that we are all connected. Even we hear about love amongst us and neigbor. We tend to forget the intimate love we can experience with our creator. No other love is required. Never mind. Before this discussion becomes too Ambivalent. BTW, I am being a little vocal these days than standing back. The time is arriving, for dramatic changes. I could feel it. No I am not scared. I am not scared of Death. Never mind. My antenna needs to be fixed hehehe... Hi. BlueMoon, This has nothing to do with you or your father in law. Anything that happens, happens for a reason. For the work of God to be displayed. Think..think , think...
Last but not least, No offence. I too wish the best. Not sending light, but imagining your Father In Law/Dad is happy at the moment and has gained 10 pounds.
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iAmThat Knowflake Posts: 912 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 13, 2005 09:38 PM
BM, I forgot to add. I had been to a nursing home many times too to visit a sick friend. Don't think I do not understand what you are going thru. Its very depressing there and very smelly. More later...Have to attend a call. IP: Logged |