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Bluemoon
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posted July 25, 2005 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
He has Parkinsons. He has been very ill for a long time. Yesterday, he fell and was taken to the hostpital. He can home but not he is Paralized. Just waiting for the end. They will take him back to the hospital today. They don't expect him to come back home. I suppose he will have to be put in a nursing home. I am so sad.

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Saturn's Child
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posted July 25, 2005 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saturn's Child     Edit/Delete Message
So Sorry to hear about your Father in law.
I am sending love to him and the rest of your family.

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SunShyne
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posted July 25, 2005 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunShyne     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Bluemoon,

Peace to your father-in-law and strength to you and your family.

SunShyne

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Sheaa Olein
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posted July 25, 2005 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Bluemoon ~ I sympathise with you at this sad time for you and the family

I know you must be feeling awful, I wish strength for you, your family and your father-in-law to get through this together, and above all love. I wish you well, as always hon

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sue g
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posted July 25, 2005 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry to hear this Bluemoon

Will send love and healing rom Ireland, hope all turns out well

Love


Sue xx

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Bluemoon
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posted July 26, 2005 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for your support. It really means alot. I am going to got the hospital today to see him for myself. I will update later.

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trillian
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posted July 26, 2005 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message

Blessings to you and your family.

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Angeldust
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posted July 26, 2005 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Angeldust     Edit/Delete Message

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noreenz
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posted July 27, 2005 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for noreenz     Edit/Delete Message

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Bluemoon
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posted July 28, 2005 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
I saw him yesterday. He can barely move his legs,(at least he can move them some). He is very weak, but is eating well and trying. He is being transfered to a rehab facillity today.

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sue g
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posted July 28, 2005 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
God bless him - will keep sending on the light xx

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Bluemoon
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posted July 28, 2005 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Soogie

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Bluemoon
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posted August 27, 2005 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
He is a bit better, now we face the difficult choice of where to take him. His wife is 83 and not in great health. That is my fun job this weekend, looking for a good affordable nursing home. :frown:

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PixieDust
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posted August 29, 2005 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieDust     Edit/Delete Message

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Bluemoon
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posted September 12, 2005 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
I saw him yesterday. He looks like a skeleton. I am sick about the whole thing. My daughter and I brought him some strawberries and pie and he managed to Scarf it all down. I took him out side for a while. It was a beautiful day. At first he said "Oh no, they wont let me outside" I said " oh yes they will!!!!" We looked at the fowers and watched the birds. It was nice. We were there about 2 hours and he was walking around by the time we left. I just really hate that place. I was ready to put him in the car and bring him to my house.

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sue g
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posted September 12, 2005 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
You are a darling Blue - he must love you ......I do too

Sue G xxx

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ScotScorp
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posted September 12, 2005 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScotScorp     Edit/Delete Message

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Bluemoon
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posted September 12, 2005 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Sweet Soogie for being such a bright spot. Love you much, Woman!!!!!!

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iAmThat
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posted September 12, 2005 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi BlueMoon,
Must be tough for you and your Dad. Pray harder and and ask your dad also to pray if he can. I believe that each one carries his own hell on his head

Didn't mean to offend you. But I got to say what I feel.

Peace.

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sue g
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posted September 13, 2005 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
IAT

It isnt Blue's dad, its her father-in-law.........and your comment was maybe a tad bit inappropriate at this time.....

xxx

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sue g
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posted September 13, 2005 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
.....oh and just a little tip......I am learning as I get older......that we dont HAVE to always say what we feel......no a part of maturing is knowing when to speak out and when not to....sometimes life requires that we stand back....

Hope this helps......love your honesty......but not everyone is ready for it xxx

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Bluemoon
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posted September 13, 2005 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluemoon     Edit/Delete Message

I am going back today. it is at least 3 hours there and back. I have several things to do there and so I will bring him food. THe man needs some meat on his bones.

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sue g
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posted September 13, 2005 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Blue, you are indeed an

love to you and your family xx

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iAmThat
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posted September 13, 2005 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Sue,

Thanks for pointing out. I felt the relationship between them to be more daughter-father like hence Dad. In some culture, this is true.

OK, about why I said what I said? Its this: The good things was said in the initial threads and I was only playing the devils advocate. Just as you were when you pointed me out

I feel we must each make known what our heart feels and try to analyse the worst case, and be prepared as well. My connotation wasn't meant to offend. Yes you are correct about when to say things. Sorry BM, if this came a little soon.

I just wanted to pass the message to BlueMoon that pray strongly thats all. A man/woman comes alone and leaves alone.

All this newage 'Sending light etc' I am not sure, if it works at all. I can imagine it having an effect amongst a blood family. May be it works amongst cyber friends on a direct personal level. But praying for someone thru someone, I am not sure how it works. Yes we may argue that we are all connected.

Even we hear about love amongst us and neigbor. We tend to forget the intimate love we can experience with our creator. No other love is required. Never mind. Before this discussion becomes too Ambivalent.

BTW, I am being a little vocal these days than standing back. The time is arriving, for dramatic changes. I could feel it.
No I am not scared. I am not scared of Death. Never mind. My antenna needs to be fixed hehehe...


Hi.
BlueMoon, This has nothing to do with you or your father in law. Anything that happens, happens for a reason. For the work of God to be displayed. Think..think , think...

Last but not least, No offence. I too wish the best.

Not sending light, but imagining your Father In Law/Dad is happy at the moment and has gained 10 pounds.


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iAmThat
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posted September 13, 2005 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iAmThat     Edit/Delete Message
BM,
I forgot to add. I had been to a nursing home many times too to visit a sick friend.
Don't think I do not understand what you are going thru. Its very depressing there and very smelly.

More later...Have to attend a call.

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