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Topic: sexual dysfunction :(
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dorkus_malorkus
Knowflake Posts: 735
From: west siiiiide!!!!!!!!!
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted September 09, 2005 05:14 PM
 
I have a sexual dysfunction i've come to realize. i'm kind of stuck though because partly it is my depression (i am supposed to be taking meds) but if i take these pills, they will also cause sexual dysfunction. maybe part of it is that i'm not really in love with my partner although he likes to think he is in love with me. i've stuck it out (we've been together 2 wks) to see if i will have feelings for him because it takes me a while to get to know someone and he was the one that rushed me into this. i've also been questioning my sexuality. is it strange for a 19 yr old female to be afraid of commitment? because he says he can see himself with me although i'm quite sure he's saying this because he thinks it's what i want to hear. he doesn't understand that i have problems "getting into it" i think i need someone with the compassion and the maturity to understand such a thing, not just a boy. IP: Logged |
Bluemoon
Knowflake Posts: 2040
From: Stafford, VA USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 09, 2005 05:21 PM
DM, it is not at all unusal to feel that way. My son has been side steppen' for quite a while now. You are young. Take the time to figure out who you are.  IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 2322
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted September 09, 2005 05:39 PM
I agree with Bluemoon, you are very young, I only begun to know myself in my 30s and didnt find the right lover until I was 29, 30.....he was 18, but when I was your age I wouldnt have gone with a younger one. In fact the man that made the biggest impression on me was 42 when I was 21!!!I agree, maybe you need an older partner, more experienced to show you kindness and compassion instead of a boy who rushes in.......there is nothing wrong with you......its just finding the right person.... Love and luck
Sue xx
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