posted April 17, 2006 08:10 AM         

Any thought on how to protect yourself of someone sucking your energy? A friend and I have noticed that being close to someone both know makes us feel miserable and helpless, depressed… while he appears to revive… As if he was draining us…

Not that we specially talk about any depressing topics. But last time I got back home sinking, very anxious and with such a heavy weigh on my chest that breathing was difficult. I was so tired, so sad, as if I was being strangled…

Any kind of talisman or charm I can wear when I go near him?

Thanks!!!

posted April 17, 2006 11:59 PM         

What would help is if you strengthen your own aura, before you meet with him. See, he is getting through the gaps in your aura and that is why he's able to suck your energy.

The best way to strengthen your aura is to do a white-light meditation. Imagine standing in a shard of white light that comes from above. A bit like being in a spotlight. Let it encircle you completely. That means, under your feet too, because you want to be cocooned in this light with no holes. Feel it pour in through your top chakra and let its warmth penetrate every corner of your body (from the inside out).

A good place to do white-lighting is under the shower, because you can visualise the water falling as the white light.

Everytime he reaches out to you, it creates a cord between his body and yours. So, it would also benefit you to visualise cutting those cords, before and after you meet.

Hope this helps.

posted April 19, 2006 05:42 AM         

well, you do the white-lighting visualisation before you meet him, or every day if you can. You don't need to do it during the time you are with him.

The more you do the visualisation, the stronger your aura will be. Which is why I suggested the shower technique. Cos it's an easy time to remember and usually something you do once a day.

Good luck with it,