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Topic: VERY CONCERNED about my sister again.
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GeminiLover75
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posted February 17, 2007 01:56 AM
 
Ok she is now having disturbing physical symptoms again. Strange headache with a pumping at the back of her head, quivering heart, shaky legs. But she WILL NOT GO to a doctor and my mother can't make her go to a doctor either. My words are falling on deaf ears.I think she is in a very worrying physical state. And I am helpless to do anything about it. Transiting Mars just crossed opposite her sun (I interpet this as potential heart troubles - I notice that I myself am susceptible to things like palpitations and weird circulatory stuff when Mars goes opposite my sun) and it is now passing through her sixth house. Can someone pleeeeeeeease send her some healing? IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 17, 2007 02:23 AM
The thing is that when I see her progressed chart (and especially in relation to her natal chart), I'm so excited for her - I see every potential for her achieving her dream of being famous (major progressed Leo stellium in the upper part of her chart and progressed Pluto in the first house, giving her a lot of personal power. Exciting stuff for a generally cuddly home-loving little Cancerian!). She is slowly getting there, making step-by-step progress as a professional actor and maybe setting up a drama school for kids later this year. Her chart shows me that all of this can really happen. But her health seems to show such dangerous signs, I fear that it could ruin everything.  (Natally she has a T-square to Saturn in Virgo, first house).
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Gemini Nymph
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posted February 17, 2007 11:39 AM
Sounds like she either having severe cluster headaches or she's having some sort of cardiovascular event, like an aneurysm or something heart related. That's a fancy way of saying she really needs to seek medical help. Untreated cardiovasular problems is the #1 fatal health problem for women, and this includes women in thier mid to late 20's and up! I think you need to get tough with her - start asking her about what funeral arrangements she wants if she insists on not taking care of herself. That sounds mean and harsh, but it's the stark reality I think she need to be confronted with. She sounds like she's at risk and if she happens to die because of her own stubbornness, at least she can let her family be prepared for her untimely death. I hope she will get help, but regardless I'll keep her in ym prayers.  IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 17, 2007 04:36 PM
I know, I just think it is completely unfair! Thanks for your advice. I'll tell her that she is being selfish and that Mum will have to organise her funeral. Being a Cancerian she will hate to hear that... IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 17, 2007 04:50 PM
GeminiLover75, sorry for not responding to your post, I read this forum everyday, and say prayers for all. ...tell her to go to the doctor, she needs to do this... why is she so reluctant? IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 17, 2007 05:29 PM
She is stubborn... with OCD and anorexia (it started between the ages of 12 and 14, and she is now 27)... the last time she went to the doctor he said her weight was dangerously low, and she was expected to start having those weight-gaining dietary supplment drinks and see him again in a month, but she won't do it and has not been back to see him - and what I feel about it, is that if she goes back to the doctor she fears he will make her eat foods that she is scared of or put her in hospital or something. I just talked to my Mum about it and I'm sorry but I can't stand how wishy-washy she is about it. I told her that if she doesn't tell my sister exactly what to do and get her to the doctor, I would tell her myself tonight but I'll tell her in a way that she won't like. I said I'm going to tell her the only thing she'll be famous for is for being the dead local TV presenter. Sadly, I believe my sister is one of these young women who is unconsciously self-destructive unless there is a man in their life to make them feel better. She hasn't been right since a devastating breakup over two years ago. (Esoterically speaking, I suspect her heart chakra was badly damaged by it). Normally I would strongly disagree that a woman must have a man in their lives to be able to function, but in her case having the love of a man would certainly be a quick fix to this situation! She was in therapy for a long time and was doing well, but her therapist left town for good last year. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 17, 2007 05:41 PM
I don't want to scare you or your mom..
but her heart is weak...if she does not go..she will become weaker it's simple, if she wants to live
she will go
ASAP before she does anymore damage to herSelf gosh, you have my email right?
lotusheart10@yahoo.com *edit *it's .ca P.S. if I were in your shoes..
and you know your sister does not want to die and still refuses to go Call 911
ambulance her there. ...
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lotusheartone
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posted February 17, 2007 06:02 PM
I sent you an email..I have to run some errands..I just feel that this shouldn't be put off any longer, your sister needs to confront this..and overcome it... she is harming her Health
without our Health
it is hard to do anything else she needds to truly LOve herSelf
and care enough to fix these problems and you and your Mom are the greatest
support system Sending you LOts of LOve and Light... I'll check here and my emails when I return.. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 17, 2007 06:10 PM
Lotus I called my Mum right away and told her what you said, and also what you said in your email. My sister is at work right now so I don't want to upset her while she's at work and then she has to get in the car and drive, so I don't want her driving while upset. I told my Mum that you have abilities, that you always somehow know what is really going on, and that what you say is to be believed. I think it shook her up, but that is a good thing. Thank you. 
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aquaspryt69
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posted February 17, 2007 06:17 PM
Much love, light and prayers to your sister, GL75.  IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 17, 2007 07:29 PM
GeminiLover75, I just sent you an email,
I am astounded she is at work!when I meditated she appeared weak
and frail...
and the source was her heart. ... I will fell better, after she goes to the doctor, and you will, too! Sending you and your MOM..lots of LOve and Strength..to get through to her
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GeminiLover75
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posted February 18, 2007 12:14 AM
Ok we have done much talking, although I still feel like my words aren't REALLY getting through. She says she'll go to the doctor this week. I said she should go first thing tomorrow, but she won't and my mother won't make her either. I will just keep trying to get her to see someone sooner rather than later.Thanks so much for all the support and help!
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Peri
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posted February 19, 2007 03:08 PM
love and strength to her  IP: Logged |
Bluemoon
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posted February 19, 2007 03:16 PM
I do know how you Feel, Gemlover. My niece is anirexic also. She has been in and out of treatment. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 21, 2007 06:34 AM
Thank you...I'm FREAKING OUT because she still hasn't been to the doctor! This is urgent and she is not taking it seriously!!!!!! She doesn't listen to reason... can anyone send her some healing to at least have the emotional strength/caring for herself to seek treatment NOW and get well? IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 21, 2007 07:46 AM
Just sent you an email, you are getting through to her...everyOne join in and send LOve and Light, please...and lots of Strength IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 21, 2007 03:18 PM
Thank you Lotus, you are an amazing person! IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 21, 2007 03:27 PM
and you are too! when two hearts are open and talk
both become teachers to one another
an equal exchange...with and through
GOD... I am delighted to converse with you. ... IP: Logged |
eatbooks
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posted February 22, 2007 03:12 AM
I dont know if its a good idea to go to the doctor during a retrograde, I think she should make an appointment afterwards, that way she can conjure up more courage to go. I will pray for her.IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 22, 2007 04:45 AM
Thanks eatbooks! IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
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posted February 22, 2007 01:16 PM
please tell her not to put it off til March, it's a tough month..with 2 eclipses. ...IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 22, 2007 05:03 PM
Thanks Lotus... I actually think that if she doesn't seek medical attention soon, she will be forced to on or around the 3rd of March.
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Bluemoon
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posted February 22, 2007 05:07 PM
Let her be stong and know the right thing to do. Bless her and cover her with healing light The best to you and yours, Gem IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted February 22, 2007 10:19 PM
Thank you... I have been surrounding her with golden light... and gave her a large rose quartz as a gift today. I was drawn to it in the shop and I knew it was her crystal. When I gave it to her and she held it in her right hand, she tingled from her little finger, up her arm, and to her heart!!! She was absolutely delighted at the tingling sensation, and she is very taken with the crystal itself! She's never had a crystal experience before. I hope that this crystal will be an aid to getting her where she needs to go, and in the meantime I'll keep doing my best.IP: Logged |
Bluemoon
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posted February 23, 2007 09:09 AM
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