posted March 02, 2007 01:34 AM         

There's also a book that's to do with Taoism and sex, which is about controlling sexual energies. I think it's mostly aimed at men. I can find out the name of it if you would like.

The other thing is to look at the placement of Mars in your natal chart, to see which area you could most effectively channel the Mars energy into.

posted March 02, 2007 01:43 AM         

If you allow Sex to rule you..you will
be lost...

Our Souls do not have sex...

it is of this material plane only...

posted March 02, 2007 07:32 PM         

Material plane ftw!

Obviously, there's nothing wrong with sex. Don't try to stifle nature; you'll only cause problems.

posted March 03, 2007 07:39 PM         

I have channelled my energy into dancing and writing ... but I have found that the best way to deal with such a powerful energy is to 'alchemically' evolve it into LOVING energy. I mean by this to use all of that energy to love (life, yourself, people, God, whatever...) rather than to have sex. In this way you are always 'making love' to life.

posted March 04, 2007 12:01 AM         

Most practiones warn against channeling this energy unless you are under the guidance of an acccomplished yogi.

You could try a meditation where you imagine your sexual energy, centered in your 2nd shakra, spreading throughout your body, through the chakra system, instead of resting simply in the 2nd chakra. Try experimenting with how frequently you masturbate, watch how it affects your energy level, thoughts, and level of irritability.

posted March 07, 2007 04:09 AM         

like i used to have at 17, i dont have strong desperate sexual thoughts anymore.

i have had sex a couple of times and the 'urge' is well under control. infact, sometimes i have problems getting erection as i feel sex with my current partner is boring!!!

actually what i was talking about is this. since some time now i'm at home doing nothing. and when this strange energy to do something comes in me i channelize it in masturbation. but then i dont feel very good. i feel tired. i thought this energy is sexual energy.

there is nothing sort of this kundalini thing happening. i dont feel any energy below my spine.

its just this cuddling feeling that comes in me wanting to fall into love and doing some foreplay. this raw energy that brings a smile on my face and suddenly fires up my senses. note that i dont get any erection when this happens. but somehow, by design, i masturbate whenever this happens.

this feeling is a kind of when u have had a nice time spent with a beautiful girl. usually i get this feeling when i see beautful girls on tv or on internet. there is no erection but in my mind i start contemplating love making (the romantic way, not the horny way).

posted March 09, 2007 02:59 PM         

can sexual desire and 'romantic' desire/energy be entwined? My boyfriend and I both don't have sex, but we cuddle and engage in 'foreplay' quite a lot (though, of course, the foreplay never goes anywhere beyond that..)We 'make love' to eachother without ever having intercourse.

But when we are engaged in physically 'loving eachother' there is a strong sexual arousal on both of our behalves. Now, I am incredibly turned off by 'lustful' energies. I actually cannot engage in physical intimacy of any sort with my love unless I feel completely connected to him spiritually and emotionally. I know that he feels the same way. He has had experiences in the past where sex and physical itimacy preceded true love or care for the person he was with. He is repulsed by these past experiences and has no desire to travel that path again. But the mere act of two or three kisses has often led to an erection for him (sorry if this is graphic or distastful to anyone). Neither of us becomes embarrassed by the erection. Once we fell asleep on my couch and spent the entire night together. It was a completely innocent experience, yet he and I both were aroused the entire night! Perhaps instances like this are our bodies response to the deep love and commitment we feel for eachother...

Again I would like to stress that he approached me on a few occasions and expressed that he was not ready to have sex until the timing is right, which could possibly be years for us...much to my relief because I feel EXACTLY the same way.

i suppose what I am trying to say is that it seems with us that the act of pure love and sexual desire are closely connected

posted March 12, 2007 12:17 PM         

now, at a sight of a good looking female my mind within seconds strats contemplating having erotic sex with her whereas the fact is i feel terribly nervous even talking to one (even if they were to approach me)

posted March 24, 2007 07:05 PM         

I believe that it is the MIND which channels sexual desire. The body gives us the impulse we feel; the hormones; the chemical reaction to another persons pheromones or the sight of a sexually desirable person....but what we do with this energy has everything to do with the MIND. We are the artists; the creators. It is quite a journey of self-discovery to actually EXPLORE our imaginations and desires. If you have a weired fetish you're not entirely happy about, ask yourself what it is about your own psychology that perhaps moulded your desires into such thought forms, once you have done that then it is possible to change it into something more deep and intimate. But I also believe that it is nothing to be ashamed of. Sex can be a mixture which is both raw and carnal as well as loving. Why not combine these two elements? In fact, I recommend it. You'll soon find your kundalini energy rising very frequently!

In my opinion, the only rule that need apply is that we must always treat ourselves and others with respect, and never to do anything that would hurt anyone emotionally, including ourselves....