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TheEvolution
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posted March 02, 2007 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
can someone tell me how to channelize sexual energies and bring it under ones voluntary control?

any particular exercise or yogic posture?

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GeminiLover75
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posted March 02, 2007 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Depends on what you mean by that. If you have too much sexual energy then I would suggest that the sacral chakra is over-active.

There's also a book that's to do with Taoism and sex, which is about controlling sexual energies. I think it's mostly aimed at men. I can find out the name of it if you would like.

The other thing is to look at the placement of Mars in your natal chart, to see which area you could most effectively channel the Mars energy into.

Doing any kind of physical exercise can also help to burn off that excess energy.

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lotusheartone
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posted March 02, 2007 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotusheartone     Edit/Delete Message
Oh MY gosh, I am laughing so hard...
GeminiLover..excellent answers..

If you allow Sex to rule you..you will
be lost...

Our Souls do not have sex...

it is of this material plane only...

Seek sweet sacred bliss

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TheEvolution
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posted March 02, 2007 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
***edited***

mars is in 1st house in libra at 9 degrees 21 minutes and the ascendant line is in virgo.

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Johnny
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posted March 02, 2007 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
Haha, Lotus, so maybe that's one of the reasons we came here in the first place?

Material plane ftw!

Obviously, there's nothing wrong with sex. Don't try to stifle nature; you'll only cause problems.


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TheEvolution
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posted March 03, 2007 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
this is cool. yesterday i went to the beach and decided not to have any cigarettes. then, after some food i meditated on my breath. i felt so fresh that even today i feel my sexual urges incontrol, which usual is not the case.

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themysteryclub
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posted March 03, 2007 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
This is a good question! Sometimes I have trouble keeping my sexual energy from foggig up my spiritual mirror. I do not have sex and will not have sex until I feel that my spirit is completely united with my love and the circumstances are appropriate for physical union. But I have a tremendous amount of sexual energy and I understand difficulties in trying to control it... I have mars, venus, sun, and moon in the eigth house with mars and venus squaring my pluto. Maybe that is why, for a female, I have such a strong sexuality.

I have channelled my energy into dancing and writing ... but I have found that the best way to deal with such a powerful energy is to 'alchemically' evolve it into LOVING energy. I mean by this to use all of that energy to love (life, yourself, people, God, whatever...) rather than to have sex. In this way you are always 'making love' to life.

I hope this helps and make sense. A good question indeed, that I think many struggle to answer.

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BlueTopaz124
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posted March 03, 2007 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message
Try either googling Kundalini or finding some books on this topic.

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posted March 04, 2007 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueRoamer     Edit/Delete Message
Sounds like its kundalini which you are addressing, the serpent energy coiled at the base of the spine.

Most practiones warn against channeling this energy unless you are under the guidance of an acccomplished yogi.

You could try a meditation where you imagine your sexual energy, centered in your 2nd shakra, spreading throughout your body, through the chakra system, instead of resting simply in the 2nd chakra. Try experimenting with how frequently you masturbate, watch how it affects your energy level, thoughts, and level of irritability.

You can channel the sex drive, but you will still always have sexual urges, no amount of meditation or prayer will make them go away, just ask a few infamous catholic priests LOL. (KIDDING)

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GeminiLover75
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posted March 04, 2007 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
I read somewhere that it can be dangerous to practice kundalini yoga/meditation unless you're very experienced and/or working under guidance. "The union of the snake is on the riiiiiiise..." lol. (No really, that song is about a kundalini experience)...

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posted March 04, 2007 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Oh I should add, from what I know about psychoanalysis... repressing the sexual urges will eventually cause problems, so don't "control" them or they will rear their head, perhaps in some less healthy way than before... so do make sure you channel the energy somewhere else. It is Mars we are talking about here, Mars is energy, and energy must go somewhere or it builds up and explodes. So if you are determined to do this, do make sure you channel the energy even if that just means going to the gym to work it off...

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TheEvolution
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posted March 07, 2007 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
well ok let me first make some things clear.

like i used to have at 17, i dont have strong desperate sexual thoughts anymore.

i have had sex a couple of times and the 'urge' is well under control. infact, sometimes i have problems getting erection as i feel sex with my current partner is boring!!!

actually what i was talking about is this. since some time now i'm at home doing nothing. and when this strange energy to do something comes in me i channelize it in masturbation. but then i dont feel very good. i feel tired. i thought this energy is sexual energy.

there is nothing sort of this kundalini thing happening. i dont feel any energy below my spine.

its just this cuddling feeling that comes in me wanting to fall into love and doing some foreplay. this raw energy that brings a smile on my face and suddenly fires up my senses. note that i dont get any erection when this happens. but somehow, by design, i masturbate whenever this happens.

this feeling is a kind of when u have had a nice time spent with a beautiful girl. usually i get this feeling when i see beautful girls on tv or on internet. there is no erection but in my mind i start contemplating love making (the romantic way, not the horny way).

oh boy! whats wrong with me???

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GeminiLover75
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posted March 07, 2007 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Are you in love with your girlfriend?

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TheEvolution
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posted March 09, 2007 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
she is not my girl friend. and i am not in love with her. i dont have a girl friend.

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GeminiLover75
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posted March 09, 2007 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Oh sorry I must have misunderstood.

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themysteryclub
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posted March 09, 2007 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
what you say is interesting, and it makes me wonder somethings...

can sexual desire and 'romantic' desire/energy be entwined? My boyfriend and I both don't have sex, but we cuddle and engage in 'foreplay' quite a lot (though, of course, the foreplay never goes anywhere beyond that..)We 'make love' to eachother without ever having intercourse.

But when we are engaged in physically 'loving eachother' there is a strong sexual arousal on both of our behalves. Now, I am incredibly turned off by 'lustful' energies. I actually cannot engage in physical intimacy of any sort with my love unless I feel completely connected to him spiritually and emotionally. I know that he feels the same way. He has had experiences in the past where sex and physical itimacy preceded true love or care for the person he was with. He is repulsed by these past experiences and has no desire to travel that path again. But the mere act of two or three kisses has often led to an erection for him (sorry if this is graphic or distastful to anyone). Neither of us becomes embarrassed by the erection. Once we fell asleep on my couch and spent the entire night together. It was a completely innocent experience, yet he and I both were aroused the entire night! Perhaps instances like this are our bodies response to the deep love and commitment we feel for eachother...

Again I would like to stress that he approached me on a few occasions and expressed that he was not ready to have sex until the timing is right, which could possibly be years for us...much to my relief because I feel EXACTLY the same way.

i suppose what I am trying to say is that it seems with us that the act of pure love and sexual desire are closely connected

It is curious to me what your thoughts about this are, TheEvolution...

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TheEvolution
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posted March 12, 2007 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheEvolution     Edit/Delete Message
my thoughts are very much like yours. i would love to have some sharing and caring without actually having sex. infact i think thats what my mind wants when i get these energies. but just because of some stupid articles in read 5/6 years back i connected true love making with sex and felt unless it ends up in sex its not worth. i regret not chossing to be wise and rational.

now, at a sight of a good looking female my mind within seconds strats contemplating having erotic sex with her whereas the fact is i feel terribly nervous even talking to one (even if they were to approach me)

good that i made this thread. it has been an enlightning experience.

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themysteryclub
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posted March 12, 2007 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
I hope that you find the peace and fufillment you are looking for ... I feel like that is an ongoing quest for us all..

TMC

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ListensToTrees
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posted March 24, 2007 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
The nature and psychology of sexual desire is a truely fascinating subject! It mystifies us all!

I believe that it is the MIND which channels sexual desire. The body gives us the impulse we feel; the hormones; the chemical reaction to another persons pheromones or the sight of a sexually desirable person....but what we do with this energy has everything to do with the MIND. We are the artists; the creators. It is quite a journey of self-discovery to actually EXPLORE our imaginations and desires. If you have a weired fetish you're not entirely happy about, ask yourself what it is about your own psychology that perhaps moulded your desires into such thought forms, once you have done that then it is possible to change it into something more deep and intimate. But I also believe that it is nothing to be ashamed of. Sex can be a mixture which is both raw and carnal as well as loving. Why not combine these two elements? In fact, I recommend it. You'll soon find your kundalini energy rising very frequently!

In my opinion, the only rule that need apply is that we must always treat ourselves and others with respect, and never to do anything that would hurt anyone emotionally, including ourselves....

love & light

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posted April 02, 2007 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
I have read that once we have explored sexual energy to the full, we will reach a stage, in our spiritual evolution, where we will go beyond all that, sexual energy, to something higher(?)

Mysteries, mysteries.....

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