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Topic: ON MEDICATION ,NEED SUGGESTION ADVICE LIGHT ETC.THANKS.
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naeem
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: india
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted September 29, 2007 01:57 AM
 
Hello,greetings to all.
hi this is a 32 year old guy with an abused past who has just started thereapy on anti depreessants.im unemployed due to my ilness but have now started medication 4 years of battling paranoia and delusions due to ilness.i was reluctant first and gave in to the flow.im seekign direction goals in my life.i had posted many years ago in this website about solution for male sexual abuse victims.i could not locate or find any resources for help so i was in isolation for years enduring in pain.i would like to wake up and greet and meet the world on the positive side and spread some genuine happiness i need strenght and lots of power to go on my journey sharing my insights with all and would appreciate any feed back from any of you .i would like ways to earn money with my condition.any help persoanlly will be greatly apprecated.we are all sharing the love in many ways .i would like my way also to be clear and pure.with much love and bliss to all.naeem.
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lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 2637
From: nevada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted September 29, 2007 02:13 AM
Hello and Welcome naeem  This might not make sense to you right now but I'm going to try. We can't do anything about our past except learn. We certainly can't live there. Whoever did this to you was terribly wrong and they will have to answer for this sooner or later. Forgive them and cut them out of your life forever. Through forgiveness you can heal. Then let it go, forget it if you can and never look back.
Take stock in your life, decide what will make you happy and make it your goal.
Be thankful for all of your blessings and count them often. Sending you compassion and love.
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BlueRoamer
Knowflake Posts: 3007
From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted September 29, 2007 03:50 AM
That was really sweet Lala.  Naeem it sounds like it's probably a good thing you are on medication, how long have you had symptoms of depression? There should be support groups for abuse/sexual abuse victims in your area, I suggest you seek out such a group. I can tell you are in a lot of pain and suffering, there are people who have compassion for you.  IP: Logged |
yourfriendinspirit
Knowflake Posts: 718
From: California, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted September 29, 2007 05:17 AM
Hello Naeem and  .
We look forward to getting to know you! 
LaLa's advice is very sound! I have noticed that resources seem slim for male sexual abuse victims. This is really sad. It's not due to lack of need I'm certain. But rather, lack of men speaking out about this. So first and formost let me say, "I commend you!" For anyone to talk about this it takes great strength and courage. This is the beginning of healing. Women are often blessed to have a sort of instant support group amongst other women. I hope that you are able to find this as well. There are many loving people at this site. But given the extremity of this issue I suggest you combine real-time people too. People you have access to on a regular basis. A spiritual counselor can be an awesome choice for helping you to heal and move forward.
I'm glad you found this site! There are so many areas to explore and learn from. Again, I look forward to getting to know you. ------------------
Sendin' love your way,
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Astralmuse
Knowflake Posts: 14
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Registered: Sep 2007
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posted September 29, 2007 08:13 AM
Hi, naeem. As far as earning money, would you be able to write magazine articles? A lot of magazine work is done online these days, and interviews can be conducted over the phone or via e-mail if you need sources. Another idea would be if you managed a group dealing with abuse victims. Sometimes here in the USA, the group manager earns a small amount of money for their work if the group is sponsored by a national association or a hospital/clinic. If you are a technical person, a lot of website programming can be done online-only. I've been seeing a lot of advertisements searching for a website programmer to help new online businesses. quote:
i would like to wake up and greet and meet the world on the positive side and spread some genuine happiness
To me, that indicates you are already amazingly far along in the recovery process - probably much further than you realize. Be sure to give yourself a lot of credit!IP: Logged |
naeem
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: india
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted October 02, 2007 02:24 AM
THANK YOU !
ill give more details and other inputs later.
peace light love harmony bliss to all.IP: Logged |
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