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Unconquerable
Newflake

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From: Vulcan
Registered: Oct 2010

posted December 21, 2010 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unconquerable     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm having one of those Virgo guilt spells. I made a small mistake. I told myself that I should learn the lesson this mistake of mine has taught me and move on. But this feeling of guilt and embarrasment is just not going, I don't know why, I'm shocked myself. And it's killing me. I'm super stressed right now. I want to let go of this feeling of severe guilt. I have'nt felt so bad in a long time and I'm really furious that it had to happen during this part of the year.
Please tell me any way by which I can be my normal, happy s-elf again.
How do you guys deal with guilt or stress? I would really like to know. It will really help me.

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Aquarius Rising, Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon

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coconutcancermoon
Newflake

Posts: 18
From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 21, 2010 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry about your guilt and stress, I'm not an astro expert, but I do have a Cancer moon also and I experience these moments also. I handle it by at first talking about it, to a close friend, relative, yourself or your Source, accepting that it was a mistake, see it as something positive (lesson learned, duly noted, wont be doing that EVER again) and forgive yourself, close your eyes, take a deep breath and allow the abundance of love to enter you, whenever it comes to your mind think "it's the past with a lesson learned" and pray.

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coconutcancermoon
Newflake

Posts: 18
From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 21, 2010 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I pressed enter by mistake, sorry, just wanted to say that you will be fine, life is all about mistakes, I could write a whole encyclopedia of my f*ck ups but, you know what? I wouldn't be who I am today if it weren't for those disasters

Much love to you <3

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Unconquerable
Newflake

Posts: 23
From: Vulcan
Registered: Oct 2010

posted December 22, 2010 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unconquerable     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for your advice and love Coconutcancermoon. I can feel the love you sent me and I want to send back an ocean of love to you!
U changed my sad smilie into a smiling one!

I know we cancer moon's sometimes take things too seriously and imagine some things up also, we turn pessimistic quickly, being a cancer moon you can also relate to it.
I've now stopped thinking about it. I'm moving on now. Today is a new day and I dont wanna spoil it by getting stuck in the past and thinking about things I should've done. You are right, we would'nt be what we are today if it was'nt for the mistakes we've made. I've learnt my lesson
and I think it will make me a better person.

Once again, thanks for your help!

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Unconquerable
Newflake

Posts: 23
From: Vulcan
Registered: Oct 2010

posted December 22, 2010 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unconquerable     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Coco!
What does the coconut in your name mean?
My Aqua rising was a little curious to know.

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coconutcancermoon
Newflake

Posts: 18
From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 22, 2010 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi boo! I'm sooooo glad you're better and yes you are 1000% right about Cancer moon, it's a gift and a curse but we can control it and use it to our advantage.

The coconut stands for my favorite scent! I'm obsessed with it It also stands for me being of West Indian descent

Soooo much love to you, my love!

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Randall
Webmaster

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 23, 2010 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Coconut scent rocks! I love that suntan lotion smell.

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"The stars which shone over Babylon and the stable in Bethlehem still shine as brightly over the Empire State Building and your front yard today. They perform their cycles with the same mathematical precision, and they will continue to affect each thing on earth, including man, as long as the earth exists." Linda Goodman

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listenstotrees
Knowflake

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From: Rivendell
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 23, 2010 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for listenstotrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unconquerable,

Hugs

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listenstotrees
Knowflake

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From: Rivendell
Registered: Apr 2009

posted December 23, 2010 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for listenstotrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.stresslesscountry.com/mistakes-quotes/index.html

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Unconquerable
Newflake

Posts: 23
From: Vulcan
Registered: Oct 2010

posted December 25, 2010 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unconquerable     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks you so much Listentotrees. I really loved those quotes!

Lots and lots of hugs to you!

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coconutcancermoon
Newflake

Posts: 18
From: Brooklyn, NY
Registered: Nov 2010

posted December 25, 2010 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for coconutcancermoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes Randall!
That was a gr8 website, I actually need to bookmark it

Happy Holidays All!

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