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ilunatique
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posted December 05, 2017 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ilunatique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont really know where exactly I should post this, so I apologize if this is not the right place..


After my first boyfriend, I realized that I act as a mirror or like an “absorbing sponge” in close relationships.

That means... Whatever my partner/extremely close friend feels (psychically and physically), i will feel it too.

I remember that when my first long distance boyfriend had sexual thoughts about me, I would feel it instantly. However, in the beginning I had no idea where it actually came from so I thought it was just me. I felt him and I would get overwhelmed with a lot of sexual energy that I COULD NOT IN ANY WAY STOP until HE stopped it. Imagine taking an exam or watching a movie and suddenly you cant focus anymore on ANYTHING because you feel sexual energies all over you. Its really difficult. If i wasnt doing anything important, I would try and consume that energy so i can release it BUT IT STILL DIDNT WORK.. as long as he didnt stop, i could not escape it.

We both got to the point in which we would send messages like :
-Hey, you were thinking about me 5 minutes ago and you focused a lot on my lips, right? And at 3pm you probably did it again, right?
-Yeah ..

Almost daily, I would feel his sexual energies. Those were the strongest and thus hit me easily. I also felt when he thought about me. That happens when, again, I was probably doing something else and very suddenly the image of him shows up in my mind and doesnt go away.

Long story short, I felt everything he would direct at me + how he felt overall with himself. He would feel it too, sometimes. We could influence ourselves but I felt him more. We broke up because he was extremely negative and me reflecting/feeling/absorbing his energies would lead me to a sure path of destruction. Alright.

Then, I got very close to a specific person, no feelings involved. He did not direct any sexual/emotional energy at me. Only mental (thinking). In conclusion, with him, I only felt when he thought about me and his overall psychical/physical state. I continued to absorb UNCONSCIOUSLY how he would feel so I, AGAIN, got to the point in which we both felt the same in the same time
He would get frequent headaches and me, as a person with usually no health issues, started getting headaches almost daily..
I could tell him in detail his pain at the moment (pulsating/heavy/stinging etc) and on what side it would be, because I felt it. I knew when he was angry because I would get in the same state. When he went on vacation, he was in my mind all the time.... because he was thinking about me all of the time. I knew it without him saying anything.

Again, our conversations would be like:
-Hey, is your left leg okay? It hurt me at 7pm suddenly, near the ankle. Be careful
-Yeah, I walked too much today and it started to hurt me then.
or
-Hey, calm down, I felt your anger today.... youre boiling, you will most probably get a headache soon so take care...

Its difficult, but I also enjoy it. The second person has a very burdensome life filled of of stress, tensions and physical issues and I could feel all of it all the time. The fact that I COULD NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT THE PHYSICAL PAIN hurt me a lot.. i could only influence how he felt psychically by changing my absorbed negative states (anger,hate,nervousness etc) by myself in calmness, happiness..

Now... with second bf we can BOTH feel our sexual/emotional/mental energies and health issues. Just a few days ago when I left to another city and I did not enter into any contact with him, I suddenly felt a tooth pain that I knew was not mine. It was very strong and in a particular place so of course that I asked him whether friday night he had tooth pain on the upper side or not. Of course he had..


I dont like how I remain connected with people and I can not stop it (better said: i do not know how to cut it off). Yes, when you interact with a person on a deep level there will be energetic “strings” between you two, but I wish i could erase the ones I have with people from my past. Like my first boyfriend or the second close guy that has a difficult life. I can see that the connection is still there with my first boyfriend for example that i do not interact with anymore. When I call him and talk on the phone with him rarely, I will get hit with whatever physical pain he has at that moment.

How can I cut off the people I do not want to feel anymore?... is there a way?

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posted December 06, 2017 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have no advice.

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anonymidarkness
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posted December 06, 2017 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This might help.

quote:

PROTECTIVE AURA
When: Every night, last thing before going to sleep.
First thing in the morning.
Duration : 4-5 minutes.
Step 1 : Imagine a Halo
“Sit on your bed and imagine an aura around your
body, just six inches away from your body, the
same shape as the body... surrounding you,
protecting you. It will become a shield. Still feeling
this, go to sleep, fall into sleep imagining that aura
like a blanket around you, which protects you from
any tension entering from outside, from any
thought entering you from outside. No outside
vibration can enter you. You fall asleep but that
imagination will enter the unconscious and
becomes a tremendous force and energy."
Step 2 : In the Morning...
“In the morning, the moment you feel that now
sleep is gone, don’t open your eyes: just feel your
aura all over the body protecting you. Do it for four
to five minutes and then get up."
Step 3 : All the Time...
“Taking your bath, having tea, go on remembering
it. Any other time during the day when you
remember – sitting in a car or train or in the office
doing nothing – just relax into it again.
“This [exhaustion] happens to many people
because we don’t know how to protect ourselves.
Others are not only there but broadcasting their
being continuously in subtle vibrations. Somebody
passes by and throws something [energy] at you: if
you are receptive and you don’t have a protective
aura...and meditation makes one very receptive.
“So if you are alone, it is good; when you are
surrounded by meditative people, very good. But
when you are in the world, the marketplace and
people are not meditative but very tense and
anxious, you start getting that energy. After
mediation one has to create a protective aura.
Sometimes it happens automatically, sometimes it
doesn’t. If it is not happening automatically to you,
you have to work for it. It will be coming within
three months. Anytime between three weeks and
three months, you will start feeling very powerful.”

Osho, Dance Your Way to God


source:- http://www.osho.com/meditate/meditation-for-busy-people/protective-aura

Good Luck!

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mirage29
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posted December 07, 2017 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ilunatique

I can definitely relate to what you are saying.

I've found that I can confuse/pickup other people's symptoms too-- and that's NOT EASY to recognize immediately when/why it's happening. At least... you are 'aware' that you can do this kind of thing.

Acknowledge and Honor your Talent.
(Maybe find a way you could 'help' people through it? ..)

It's definitely a Gift.


I could give you laundry lists of ways of disconnections.....

I'll leave you with some 'general' convos I've had here with some. These are in no particular order. You can pick through the materials.

(List might grow whenever I find another link for you.)

REF
Did someone put a black magic spell on me?
LL Luckystar25
- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/003543.html

Help getting humped while I try to sleep????
LL Luckystar25
- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/003526.html

I see too that you started our thread on spiritual base of illnesses.
- http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/003533.html


But BEYOND all that... let me take another approach.

I want to ask (rhetorically, gently) ....

Sometimes when 'that kind of energy' you described is coming to you without-recourse. When you KEEP doing all the spiritual-practical things to help your self...
Go WITHIN.
Can you identify... Is there 'a piece' inside you that is 'consenting' and inviting it back? If so, you might have to resolve how to 'handle' it for yourself. Recognizing and acknowledging, and lots of Acceptance towards yourself, will help.

I would say it is NATURAL to have heavy sexual feelings and WANTING that 'sex' ... heh heh! We have just had a 'party' of planets come through Scorpio....

Jupiter Scorpio will be trine Neptune Pisces all next year?? ...

This might be 'enhancing' whatever Talent you have right now, for what you are experiencing...

And!!!... Mars going into Scorpio very shortly, with JUPITER Scorpio in that potentialized 'energy' for a while.

Scorpio. 8th House things. Feeling 'hungry' for the things that are 'taboo'-- EVEN IF in regular 'real' life you might NEVER entertain and ACT upon such things at all.

So on one hand (WHEN YOU ARE WILLING, and feel safety in it), you can be complicit and enjoying that virtual/etheric exchanging. The sexual energies are delicious, and rich and satisfying. And, monitor how much it is taking from you, or causing an imbalance?
{obsession}

~

When/or IF it {fantasy} is crossing a line, WITHOUT your consent, and goes too long--

Get consultations with some 'real' people to help you. Discuss this with someone you trust. (Not your same generation-- go older, for more clear advices? .. synastry.)

- Go to a energy-doctor, like, an osteopathic physician who also can do body Manipulations of your skeleton frame and fascial musculature.

Work OUT whatever could be imbalanced IN YOUR flesh, first.

If the physician agrees or suggests, have your blood tested. Make sure your hormones are in balance.

Take care of that BODY-first.

- Go to the next level, of your emotions....
'What' are you picking up on.
Write it down. Draw it.
Interpret your work.
What is this reminding you of, from your past?

- Have a REAL TIME conversation where you sit down with this person, and have a frank discussion about this. {uh.. long distance?? might be more difficult? use a skype? make eye contact, body language}

If you need to release Sex-energies with him 'in person'!!!, then the two of you need to be CLEAR on that?
(NOTE: I wouldn't personally "trust" the ALLOWING of sex energies longdistance in an energetic-joining... *red flag*
For me, that would invite 'other entities' -- no go there. Keep your boundary, and find a REAL boyfriend. ... OR, Find a way to Transmute the Sex energy INTO another form of release.
Bottomline... is word to "release" it, funnel or channel it, to another Use. Hopefully even Creatively-- where you could 'sell' what Art you do.. if you use Art, Writing, Poetry, Music. Find a way to channel. SWITCH channel!! hahaha Draw down from etheric TO grounded-REALITY, and Make a Living from it!!!)

Other consideration ----

For you.... Is this some kind of past-life rendezvous??

Be CLEAR about that for you....
WHAT are you 'working out'???
What are you trying to 'remember' and process, THROUGH this heat, through this relationship?


When I think and muse about what you are saying, it's almost as though you feel you are ready to enter into a WAY more intimate relationship with this man (OR, with a new and higher-level upgraded partner)?

If you are really interested in this person, you might want to ask (if appropriate)?? You could consider wanting to take this to a new level of intimacy. FIND OUT if HE feels the same way about you? ....

Are you ready to be more than acquaintances?
Are you thinking about REALLY making a "conscious" bond (not just telepathic??)?


So! .... haha.

I hope I didn't offend you in any way, saying these things. Let me know if anything I mentioned fits? I appreciate feedback. Makes me know if I'm on a right track?
(ha.. embarrassing myself??? nawww.)

Well .... I hope you disconnect what you DON'T want in the relationship, and maybe CONSIDER having the 'real' conversation to see how HE relates to what you say??

Are you ready to Connect in a whole new REAL way with him--- be it, bodily, emotionally telepathic and spiritual?

Ever consider going to chakra lessons?

or even a chakra balancing session?


hmmmm (being naughty here)

Do a professional chakra-balance for couples (if there's such a thing??? ..) Do it with HIM being balanced in same session???? (like they do massages for couples?)

Have a nice day, and weekend.

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posted December 07, 2017 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One more post...
beyond any kind of connection with an other.

Your PAIN is REAL.... I understand that so acutely. Very hard to deal with, and scary.

I never want to diminish any part of that.
It's serious.

I don't know if you practice any kind of religion belief system. (I ref one of those in one of the links I left.)

For me, that has always been a refuge, and still is when I feel as though 'I am out of options' dealing with pain, dealing with myself and circumstances.

We haven't been in posts together in a long time.
You are in your mid-20s now?

You're a special soul, Ilunatique. {{ }}

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posted December 08, 2017 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, mirage.

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posted December 09, 2017 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
One more post...
beyond any kind of connection with an other.

Your PAIN is REAL.... I understand that so acutely. Very hard to deal with, and scary.

I never want to diminish any part of that.
It's serious.

I don't know if you practice any kind of religion belief system. (I ref one of those in one of the links I left.)

For me, that has always been a refuge, and still is when I feel as though 'I am out of options' dealing with pain, dealing with myself and circumstances.

We haven't been in posts together in a long time.
You are in your mid-20s now?

You're a special soul, Ilunatique. {{ }}


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