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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted January 29, 2012 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

CRABBY OLD MAN

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in North Platte , Nebraska , it was believed that he had nothing left of any value

Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, They found this poem . Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital

One nurse took her copy to Missouri . The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health.. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.

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Crabby Old Man

What do you see nurses? . . What do you see?
What are you thinking . . . . . when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man, . ... .. not very wise,
Uncertain of habit .. . .. . . . . . with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food . . .. . . . . and makes no reply .
When you say in a loud voice .. . . . .. 'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice . ... . the things that you do .
And forever is losing . . . . .. . . . . . A sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not . . . . . . .. . . lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse . . . . . you're not looking at me .

I'll tell you who I am . As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, . . . . . . as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten ... . . . . . with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters . . . ... . . . . . who love one another.

A young boy of Sixteen . . with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now . . . .. .. . . a lover he'll meet..
A groom soon at Twenty . my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows . . . . .. . that I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now . . . . . . . . I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . . And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . . . . .. . . . .. My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . . . . . . With ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons .. . have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me . . . . . . . to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . . . . My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me . . my wife is now dead.
I look at the future ... . .. . . . . . . shudder with dread..
For my young are all rearing . . . . . .. young of their own.
And I think of the years . . .. and the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man . . . . . .. .. . . and nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age . . . . look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles .. . . . . . . grace and vigor, depart..
There is now a stone . . . .. . . . where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass . . a young guy still dwells,
And now and again . . . .. . . . my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys . . . . . . . . .. I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living . . . . . .. . . . . life over again.

I think of the years, all too few . . . . . gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . . . . . .. that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people . . . . . . . . open and see.
Not a crabby old man. Look closer . . . see ME!!



Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within . . . . we will all, one day, be there, too!

PLEASE SHARE THIS POEM
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or touched. They must be felt by the heart.

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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
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jesstar
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posted January 29, 2012 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jesstar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that was sweet lexx. today i finished reading ,fried green tomatoes at the whistle stop cafe.my grandmother sent it to me to read ,with an inscription about living thru the depression and outliving the author ,my grammy will be 82 on the first .

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RegardesPlatero
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posted January 29, 2012 03:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by jesstar:
that was sweet lexx. today i finished reading ,fried green tomatoes at the whistle stop cafe.my grandmother sent it to me to read ,with an inscription about living thru the depression and outliving the author ,my grammy will be 82 on the first .


Happy Birthday to your grammy! I hope that she is doing well.

and thanks Lexx for sharing that!

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T
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posted January 29, 2012 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

i love the elderly. ....like most people love babies. lol

He's somewhere else, young and happy now.

Thanks for sharing Lexx.

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Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted January 29, 2012 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cancer/Scorpio729     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:

i love the elderly. ....like most people love babies. lol


Yeah me too

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LEXX
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posted January 29, 2012 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Venus
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posted February 08, 2012 03:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
seeing sadness in the elderly is just as painfull as in young children..

i agree with T,he is now young again

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Alma Sun
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posted February 09, 2012 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off." — Robert Hand
"Cynicism, like gullibility, is a symptom of underdeveloped critical faculties." — Jamie Whyte
"I am not absentminded. It is the presence of mind that makes me unaware of everything else." ― G.K. Chesterton

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Randall
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posted February 28, 2012 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great poem.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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Lexxigramer
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posted March 02, 2012 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Great poem.


Yes it is.
Sadly that is how it is for many folks,
not only the elderly.

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