Lindaland
  Aquarius Rising
  @jewish: have you ever experienced anti-semitism

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   @jewish: have you ever experienced anti-semitism
Enneline
Knowflake

Posts: 1227
From:
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 05, 2014 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know it's a sensitive and hurtful topic but I would "like" to know since I had an inhuman encounter of the third kind re. anti-semitism....

So what's your expxerience? Have you ever been the target of disgusting anti-semitism?

IP: Logged

juniperb
Moderator

Posts: 8502
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009

posted August 05, 2014 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Enneline,
I`m sorry you had to endure this encounter

This sensitive subject is a part of the Aquarius Rising forum and it can be found moved there.

------------------
Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged.
Rumi

IP: Logged

Ami Anne
Moderator

Posts: 57316
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010

posted August 05, 2014 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
God will get the Anti Semites. You can't do anything about it, E.

------------------
Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course.


http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 05, 2014 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had some inhuman encounters, and known of worse (and witnessed brutalized bodies, even saw one corpse being put in a body bag though it wasn't certain that was a hate crime). Not for being Jewish, however.

Luckily, the Jews I've known hadn't put up with that (or at least they didn't share if they did), the worst I heard of was when several shops listed themselves as Christian so one put a Jewish sign on her store and her business dropped by a lot, which is unpleasant (and I hear not uncommon) but not inhuman. But having mixed with some neo-nazis I know they're as much a target as anyone.

IP: Logged

Enneline
Knowflake

Posts: 1227
From:
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 06, 2014 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not jewish myself. It's just that I recently heard 2 people talking very very disgusting about Jewish and I was like....

the first said: "The jews are parasitic people. That's why they had to steal other people's land."

The second said: "It's horrible what Hitler did to the Jews but they are plainly vermin. They killed our Jesus." (I thought that "accuse" has been extinguished since the middle ages).

call me naive but I always thought that since the Holocaust anti-semitism should be at a low point if not eliminated at all.

Furthermore I have some jewish acquaintances. They never talk about their roots/Religion. I thought maybe they are afraid of anti-semitism....

IP: Logged

Enneline
Knowflake

Posts: 1227
From:
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 06, 2014 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:

the worst I heard of was when several shops listed themselves as Christian so one put a Jewish sign on her store and her business dropped by a lot, which is unpleasant (and I hear not uncommon) but not inhuman. ...


Really? that's not far away from being like that

Translation of the little lable:
"Germans! Defend yourselves! Do not buy from Jews"

The big latters "Jude" = Jew

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 06, 2014 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've heard so many ridiculous things asserted (particularly about blacks, gays, even heard one Russian Orthodox lady who had fled Russia and was angry to hear Americans refer to her Russian Orthodox church as "the Communist church") that I can believe that. Heck, FOX News has spread some absurd stuff and it's very popular rather than discredited as it should be. Some of it was so absurd that it was almost funny...if it wasn't so sad or scary. Maybe I'll share specific examples later.

I'm just glad there weren't death threats or violence for you.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 45068
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009

posted August 07, 2014 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

IP: Logged

Enneline
Knowflake

Posts: 1227
From:
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 08, 2014 04:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
I've heard so many ridiculous things asserted (particularly about blacks, gays, even heard one Russian Orthodox lady who had fled Russia and was angry to hear Americans refer to her Russian Orthodox church as "the Communist church") that I can believe that. Heck, FOX News has spread some absurd stuff and it's very popular rather than discredited as it should be. Some of it was so absurd that it was almost funny...if it wasn't so sad or scary. Maybe I'll share specific examples later.

I'm just glad there weren't death threats or violence for you.


Yes, pls. share some specific experiences.

I think I've had the strangest encounters on Earth
I saw Blacks bashing Jews "All Jews are ugly. The real Jew is ugly. If a Jew is not ugly he has foreign blood in his veins" , Skandinavians & Asians hating Blacks "They have Aids and hit their wives", Jews bashing Muslims "false religion; they will go to hell. Muslims are rapists and murderers", Germans bashing Muslims "They mustn't wear a headscarf here; all muslim men have that ***** /saint complex" , Muslims bashing Christians "You will go to hell if you don't follow Mohammad", Christians bashing Jews "They killed jesus" and everyone of them thought they are right & wise and would never ever change their minds.
I am really sick of that. But I haven't lost my faith in humanity yet. Mostly I meet persons who are not prejudiced and would be friends with anyone of any descent

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 11, 2014 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Speaking of Muslims, I did used to follow a brilliant woman's channel on YT but she took it down because of all the death threats after she made some comments on the riots, burnings, and killings over the Danish cartoons, and she was talking about how terror should be legitimized as a political tool to censor international papers (and that the ones complaining should do more about combating their extremist elements rather than trying to placate the sociopaths).

There were so many who threatened her, and clicking on some names they looked real from their vids (speaking Arabic, for example, some of them in America and hopefully being scrutinized by the FBI), including one that said Islam was the religion of peace and he was going to rape her and cut her throat for saying otherwise.

I responded to that one with some Sag sarcasm of, "Truly Islam is the religion of peace." His sarcasm detector was working and he sent me a profanity filled PM that ended with "death to Christians and crusaders" (implying that was me).

But the channel got taken down, she took it down herself because she'd been terrorized into silence. As she made her vids in her college dorm room it was obvious where she could be found, and of course they knew what she looked like (and probably about anyone on campus would know who she was).

I really don't understand how people who do that can truly consider themselves peaceful, though just to be clear plenty of others who want to kill all Muslims as if they were all a fungible group of evil are the same way and they think they're peaceful and just, too. So whatever is wrong with those Muslims who terrorized that Canadian woman into silence have the very same mental problem as those who think all Muslims should be destroyed.

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 11, 2014 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Relatives of mine worked for a black guy who owned a restaurant but pretended a white guy did because that drew more customers. And while that's rural East Texas it happens in areas where I think that wouldn't be the case, such as one advising black entrepreneurs even in Silicon Valley to get a "white man to front for you."

It's quite shocking how bad it still is (I'm leaving other incidents out). I was able to get a carry permit for a gun but my blasian girlfriend could not though she was just as qualified (in this state deputies don't have to give a reason why they deny someone a permit). My black BFF doesn't rise up in the ranks despite years of dedicated and competent service, and how I've seen others react to her is just absurd (flinching if she reaches inside her purse, a politician who stammered and back away after she politely corrected the politician on how to pronounce her name, a landlady who thought she was a drug dealer, and more). I once lived in a neighborhood where whites were the definite minority. And still it was white girls who tagged our basement against my blasian girlfriend.

And pretty much the final straw (not the only reason) we both quit one gun range was how racist it got after Obama won (it drove a lot of people away, not just us). First, an item that made the news was a black guy who identifies as Libertarian with an AR-15 at some gun rally (AZ IIRC) where Obama was speaking when others also showed up OC (open carrying) their guns to show their 2A rights and no doubt as something of a warning to Obama. So some at the gun range were glad for this but others thought he was a threat there for Obama and the Black Panthers and "not one of us." One asked why and short and sweet it was because he was black...and they couldn't tell the difference between gang members, Black Panthers (or New Black Panthers), and Democrats. It was so WTF that I wondered if they weren't joking but they were serious, and there was something about how black people are genetically compelled to wipe out the white race, and that now that Obama was elected "blacks were forgetting their place."

But one pulled me asking if Texas does a "better job" at "keeping the blacks in their place" and if the state is better for it and I pointed out the kind of racism they're thinking of is more East Texas than West but there's a lot of mutual racial hatred there, more violence (as the penalties are so severe that they're not going to be taken alive, especially if they think they're going to be executed anyway), and other problems agitated by the racism. My answer surprised him, I think because he thought my Texas accent (and my being quiet at first) made him think I was sympathetic to them.

I added that my friend who was also a member of this range is black, and she's not a Black Panther, gang member, or Democrat (and they shouldn't treat such labels as interchangeable), and she didn't vote for Obama, so I thought their "genetics" theory was...flawed (remember, this was a gun range, we're all armed, and I'm thinking these people are insane and the kind I don't want to see armed). One asked, "How do you know she didn't vote for Obama? Were you in the voting booth with her?" I pointed out I'd known her for years, she had my back just as I have hers, I know how she thinks and why she voted for who she did, and they weren't in the voting booth with her either. They said they knew and I said I knew her better than they did after approaching 10 years of knowing each other. They disagreed and I asked how THEY know who she voted for, etc, and was told "because she's black" as if this made perfect sense.

Even years later I'm still amazed that such a conversation still took place in California of 2009 of all places. I warned my friend and she said she wasn't surprised, for all the time she's been there she's seen them accept me with warm smiles but she only got polite nods. They liked me, but only tolerated her for my sake. Between that and the growing extremism devoid of sense we stopped going (though the beginning of the end started while Bush was still POTUS).

Next (hopefully in a day or two), I'll detail some of my own experiences as a lesbian (which also includes more racism against my BFF). Or maybe not, it can be a rather sensitive topic for me and I left one MB over it and seriously considered leaving LL when someone started giving me flack for it here (but it stopped). I will say that one of the incidents was why deputies approved my getting a carry permit (but not my blasian girlfriend who had also been threatened).

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 11, 2014 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm thinking of sharing when I mixed (not socialized) with some skinheads and other neo-Nazis. It's kinda funny in retrospect, but also very disturbing.

For now I'll just throw in the oddest group of skinheads were "gayskins" who were gay. This particularly gayskin group thought the highest form of life was a gay white man and the lowest form of life a Jewish lesbian. The details aren't clear in my mind but they revered one guy during Nazi Germany who is supposed to be gay (*) and thought if he had been in charge instead of Hitler then the Nazis would've won and we'd live in some Nazi paradise today that was a throwback to some Roman times they spoke of where men had sex with men for fun and women strictly for procreation. Though for all their hatred and bigotry they were outraged that all the other skinheads and neo-nazis hated them, too (deciding who to hate is THEIR right).

(*Speaking of which, there are some lies about most of the Nazis being gay, such as the highly discredited The Pink Swastika which helped to inspire the "kill the gays" bills in Africa. The "kill the gays" bills were actually sponsored by American evangelicals, one of them being the same man who gave the inauguration prayer for Obama! Sadly, the Pope at the time also endorsed it. And I've seen some of that discredited drivel posted at LL as well, though not in awhile, thankfully.)

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 16, 2014 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had it easy compared to many other gays & lesbians (it was especially helpful that I wasn't raised fundamentalist--I dodged a bullet on that given I was raised in the East Texas Bible Belt, aka Behind the Pine Curtain--and I wasn't even fully aware of my orientation until after I left Texas). I personally know gays & lesbians beaten, raped, and worse. In the 90s I saw a gay guy with half his head blown off and about that same time read in the papers of a known lesbian was dragged out of her home (in Houston) and gang raped in broad daylight by people offended by lesbians. Every year there are hate crimes which are not only violence directed at the victims, but meant to terrorize the entire gay community and try to drive us into hiding or heterosexuality. That is the message is, "If you're gay then this can happen to you."

In 2004 some guys went around the parking lot of a lesbian club writing down license plate numbers and I went to talk to the main guy hoping to convince him to stop his repeated attempts of intimidation (that the police only did a little against) and better directing their personal efforts elsewhere using libertarian arguments (since they were talking of being "patriots" and believing in "freedom"). But he just spouted Bible verses about gays being an abomination and deserving death, conspiracy theories (if we gays REALLY owned the government like he said, why did the police keep letting him and his group go!?). My girlfriend came out and she was much more vocal against him and he pointed out our jeep, they'd already taken down the number and he'd be sure than when we'd least expected it we'd be followed and "executed as God commands."

The police took him & his group (claiming to be affiliated with the Army of God, known for promoting murder against gays and anyone involved with abortions) seriously enough that I was able to get a carry permit for a gun, and that county is loathe to hand such permits out.

And I've heard people who didn't know I'm a lesbian say things from we should all be put in ghettos to shooting us is justifiable self-defense because we carry AIDS and some even add we deliberately infect straight people with AIDS and/or a "gay virus" (not sure if this is AIDS or turns you gay). One of the less extreme types at the range even wants to arm all Christians against the "gay menace." He figured I was a heterosexual Christian (must've been my Texan accent, though he did say something bizarre about "knowing Christians by their fruits" and my carrying a gun proved I had Jesus in my heart) and warned me against the "pink pistols." He said they were a lesbian gang that would try to rape me until I turned gay (gods, I hope they don't believe that a man can turn a lesbian straight with rape...)

The Pink Pistols is an organization that consists mostly of gay men (and it seems to me most of the female members are bisexual rather than lesbian, and even some straight females come as they feel more welcome than among the more conservative NRA types) which advocates lawful self-defense against violent attackers (it was started by a guy who defended himself with a gun from a group of men threatening to turn him into "the next Matthew Shepard"). I've never known a Pink Pistol to carry pink pistols...ironically (for what I'm about to mention) I've only known straight women to find pink guns appealing, and most of them were conservative, heterosexual, Christian, and married to a man who I guess wanted to make a statement that they were "still feminine despite the gun." So imagine my surprise when the guy who told me to arm myself because of this report:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXxZdZxp_Lg

And yes, this hate propaganda is a pack of lies. O'Reilly even basically admitted it later when challenged for proof as well as plenty making the actual facts known (such as reliable law enforcement only mentioning one confirmed lesbian gang in Washington DC, or that the women who "received prison sentences" for beating Wayne Buckle at the beginning were not known to be part of a gang and it had been inspired by Buckle cussing, spitting, and throwing a cigarette after them after one of the women rebuffed his sexual advances in public). And I could go on and on. And not a single report of lesbians in a gang carrying pink pistols.

But a guy at the range brought it to my attention on why I should be prepared to shoot and kill lesbians with pink pistols who approach me. It's depressing to think how popular this channel is when it spouts BS worthy of a KKK pamphlet and even fought for the right to lie. Naturally, I didn't tell him I was a lesbian. I wonder what he'd have done if I did?

While I've been lucky to not have been the victim of a hate crime so far (beyond being menaced & threatened in 2004), it's a source of anxiety for me. And it hurts because I DO know victims of hate crimes.

And then there was what happened later...(which I'll get into later)

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 16, 2014 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When me and my partner (with her 2 kids) moved into a large apartment together things were great until we both stopped in to pay rent (first time I went in) and the landlady (actually a glorified secretary for the real owner) picked a fight with us. She asked who I was and what our relationship was and my partner said it was no biz of hers, other than I made sure she could afford to live there. The landlady claimed that she'd assumed that all 3 moving in with her were her children (my partner was born in 1970, btw...granted, still VERY young to give birth to me, but as I wasn't actually on the lease, I was apparently just dismissed as another family relation), and that had she'd known, she'd never would've rented the apartment out to us.

She also asked about my BFF, or in her words, "the black woman." I didn't catch any racism in this at first but then the landlady acted as if she couldn't believe it when I said she was helping us get our computers set up & also drove me to where I need to do my biz. And she was one more idiot so sure her bigotry was actually infallible intuition that told her my BFF was a drug dealer and seemed disturbed when I offered to have them talk to each other (having a prominent pic of a very white Jesus on her desk is suggestive of her bigoted ways, too, at least when combined with how she was).

To make a perfect end to it, after she dropped that subject, she bluntly asked us if we were "sharing a room." When my partner asked what business it was of hers she hewed & hawed, claimed that it was "bad for the children" for 2 women to live together who weren't related by blood, and said they had a policy against letting someone live here who was an adult and not related to the one who signed the lease. When my partner demanded to see the policy with a tone I think she honed on unruly students the landlady then said she wasn't going to demand I leave, so it wasn't necessary for her to see it just that she thought it was bad "for the children" that we were living together and that THEY'D prefer I leave, and one of them told another mother living there this.

My partner then handed her an attorney's business card and told her that if there were any more problems or concerns, that she'd be talking to him about it, and that she figured the man who actually owned those apartments would get rid of her instead if it meant getting out of litigation which made sure she never brought it up (to us) again. (My partner has used that attorney before, and worried that this might happen he'd told her not to be afraid to come to him if it did...in fact, he'd LOVE it if there was a problem and she came to him...)

Later my partner pointed out to me something I hadn't noticed before: with the exception of a few Asian Americans (and I mean VERY few) EVERYONE there was white. And when an Asian American postman delivered a package, he seemed surprise when I thanked him and I've seen him act very nervous at those apartments. MAYBE that's just a personal quirk, but given how the landlady saw fit to actually ask--and perhaps interrogate is more the correct word--about who the black woman was and why was she here revealed a really ugly underside to that place.

What upset me the most was saying the kids didn't want me there, and I asked them if that was true and told them I'd move out immediately giving some other reason than them (so they couldn't get in trouble, and I asked 1 on 1 so they couldn't narc on the other) if it was, but they both swore it wasn't and didn't know what the landlady was talking about. (I asked if they were okay with it before we took the apartment, too.) Telling us that the kids were spreading they didn't want me there was cruel,and a lie, which isn't very Christian (at least in theory), and to think it was the same day I put up the Christmas Tree and made the first holiday cookies. But it was going to get much worse...

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 16, 2014 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There were a few kids at those apartments not allowed to mix with ours (on the side a hilarious rumor of my girl being a computer hacker also spread, but that's for sharing on another day). Our girl got the worst of it, and when she was 12 (and this was shortly after meeting the landlady) she handed us a pamphlet that she had been instructed by one of our neighbors to read and then pass on to us. It wasn't just how homosexuality was a sin against God but had the Bible verses that God said we were to be put to death and that they had a moral obligation to hate us--the sinners as well as the sin--and those who supported us, as God commands. Incidents like this is why I began training the kids in verbal and physical self-defense, including against possible violence by evil adults, and I worked extra hard to raise the money to get them both enrolled in a Krav Maga (for kids) class.

I'm skipping a lot to keep this from being even longer, suffice to say that Megan had shared some things about my life with a friend whose father is an especially venal Baptist preacher. When her friend invited her and her mom to hear her dad preached we just took it as a "come hear my daddy" thing. Her mom refused to go so I took her figuring it was only a couple of hours, and it was being nice. The details are disturbing, but suffice to say the sermon was based on Romans 1 about how we gays are horrible, vile people and deserve death (and those who accept us do, too) and which was the basis for his sermon of what people devolve into without Jesus (and gave a "hypothetical example" which was obviously inspired by me, though it was rather warped).

And the worst was when he said only someone very sick and damaged, perhaps from abuse, could possibly have "unnatural relations" with someone like me and give the kids a horrid example...the reason my partner had been invited was this preacher was hoping to get her to throw me out and "get right with Jesus." I have no idea why someone so corrupt (another part I'm leaving out) would do that, though given how part of his sermon was that you had to "choose between love and lust" and how miserable his wife always looked maybe he was a closeted gay himself and took it out on me, that's all my Scorpio Jupiter can figure.

After he realized his plan wasn't going to work he went to our landlady and happened to know some of the other bigots around us so that turned up social pressure against our kids (but the landlady said there was nothing she could do, we live in a "Heathen nation" now), and then he went to the school board which is almost half fundie saying their letting my partner be a teacher there was promoting homosexuality to all the kids (getting a heads up from one of the other teachers she showed up for that meeting with her attorney practically rubbing his hands) and this was a time in which conservatives were wildly successful as getting rid of teachers (so it was a source of stress for all of us until a measure passed that made further layoffs unlikely). In short, his "love" for us tried to make us homeless.

And the preacher's daughter then turned the other kids against our girl and though I'm sad it happened I'm proud for how she stood up for herself. When our girl told them how I'd helped her family when they were sick with swine flu, took care of them, I volunteered to help the homeless and the homeless liked me (while not liking the preacher) so obviously I was good they pointed out that ********* Romans 1 again that said...well go to that link to Romans 1 (hold your nose if you must) and read from verse 26 to the end. And she yelled, "Then YOU'RE gay! You're the liars, hypocrites, and telling me to disrespect my mother!"

We then saw Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows P1 and I was touched when as we left our girl said the Death Eaters reminded her of the Christians giving her a hard time, especially the part where they were ruthlessly persecuting muggles (those without magic) and those with muggle relatives while publishing pamphlets on the "Muggle Menace" as if they were only defending themselves from the muggles rather than oppressing them and committing vicious hate crimes against them. Good job, Christians, you've taught a little girl to equate you with evil wizards that were obviously based on the Third Reich. But at least I knew she saw them as the bad guys rather than holding a grudge against me. (I had warned the kids from the start that some people would not like my being there. What was beautiful to me is that Part 2 came out while I was in Texas and the kids didn't feel right seeing it without me so they basically got their mom to come get me so we could see it together.)

Around this time (part 1) the 2010 World Series happened in which Frisco beat the Texas Rangers. As so many attribute God's blessing to why they win (makes me wonder why coaches form strategies and athletes train if God is the one to thank, but I digress) I walked past some of the fundie neighbors, raised my hand in the Pentecostal manner, and danced a jig going by doing an impression of a Pentecostal as I went, "God loves gays, God loves hippies, the Giants beat Texas! WOO!" They thought I was being obnoxious. Still, I bet they'd had done worse than me in response if I handed "pro gay/anti-Christian" pamphlets to THEIR kids and then had their kids deliver the pamphlets to them so I don't give a **** what they think of my little mocking jig.

Luckily, I don't think our boy even noticed (he was aware, but not enough to care) and after our girl lost all her friends she not only gained new ones but rose to the top...apparently this experience made her stronger and the other kids sense that. Most of all things have gotten so much better after we moved away. They're both doing very well now, and so are we.

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 17, 2014 02:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I went to school in Texas in the 90s and while they didn't go so far as to say they should reintroduce slavery or even that it wasn't bad outright, they'd suggest in odd ways slavery wasn't so bad, especially for blacks who were "taken care of" by it. For example, school listed multiple examples of slaves who stayed on their plantations after it was abolished (with no explanation on what would've happened to them if they dared leave it), too. At the same time they downplayed some of the terrorist groups that rose up to target blacks, etc, that kept them on the plantation or in misery in fear. At the time as I passively learned of this I recall being outraged more by carpetbaggers than slavery. It wasn't until I read Douglass that I realized I'd been lied to.

And today there are people still doing the same. Just one of the politicians (I'm sure there are at least a couple more) had this to say in defense of slavery which matches what my schools tried to get me to think:
http://www.forbes.com/sites/oshadavidson/2011/07/08/michele-bachmann-salute s-the-upside-to-slavery/


And I recall how they would do things like "celebrate" Black History month with a lecture and class projects (never any independent research, however) in backhanded ways, like GW Carver in real condescending, "Blacks can invent, too, why he made peanut butter! Isn't that special. Not exactly the light bulb, heh. In honor of black history month, what can we make with peanut butter?" And that was when racial minorities were part of the class...when they were not it was even more blatant. I'm pretty sure that was done on purpose with "plausible deniability" built into it so they could then say anyone who complained was being too sensitive (and use it as another lesson about those uppity blacks or whatever and adding it "good thing they don't have real problems to complain about instead").

I hear of that going on even today, for example serving watermelon for Black History Month.

For those of you who aren't American (or are but want to pretend you aren't aware of what's wrong with this) it's a very old negative racist stereotype. I ate watermelon a lot growing up but it wasn't unusual for someone (seems it was always guys) eating it to do an imitation of black people in a way that would get him punched in the mouth if there was anyone black around (perhaps especially if he'd been eating watermelon with us ) which would then sometimes lead to racist jokes. Sometimes I think it was just boys thinking they were being bad and "getting away with something," so I guess that's something (even if any adults hearing almost always let them get away with it and might even share their own jokes, my granny was one of the few who'd come down on them hard for that). Oh, yeah, watermelon was occasionally referred to as "bait." Actually, it was two words, I'll let you guess the first one. If you can't figure it out then look up "watermelon" on urban dictionary.

Much more importantly, insisting that black identity is defined by these things trivializes and undermines Black History Month in addition to reinforcing the stereotype in a backhanded way as my own school did.

In classes I went to that were all white such classes could be even less subtle. I recall one English class (in rural East Texas where it was more pronounced) where the teacher tried to get us talking right by giving the alternative as "talking Black" (which she did a wicked impression of) which got the entire class (including me) to laughing and also worked to get us to use proper grammar.

IP: Logged

PixieJane
Moderator

Posts: 5257
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 17, 2014 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Btw, an adopted Vietnamese girl in that same town was shunned for being raised by white people so she was with the rest of us outcasts. At first I found it novel to see someone with Vietnamese features speaking with a Texas twang but I got used to it after awhile, and she was a good friend. My granny was one of those who welcome her over as well.

The bigots, OTOH, said it was wrong to raise such a child because of the bigotry she'd receive. Note, THEIR bigotry. IOW, the bigots were ADMITTING their bigotry was unjust and vile, but they weren't going to stop because they were, by their own confession, an unjust and vile people too weak and small minded to work on themselves, and therefore it was the fault of the white parents who adopted the orphaned girl. It makes perfect sense to them, however, that it's the fault of the good, decent people of the world for not bending to the whims of bigots rather than the fault of the bigots themselves.

IP: Logged

Enneline
Knowflake

Posts: 1227
From:
Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 17, 2014 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW, pixie. thank you for writing all this. I need some time to read this. I'll get back to you.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 45068
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009

posted August 19, 2014 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting!

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 45068
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009

posted August 20, 2014 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love watermelon.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 45068
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009

posted October 02, 2014 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*bump*

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2014

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a