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Topic: Synastry Reading?
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muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 11:20 PM
Hi y'all Throwing this out here to see if anyone can take a look and what you see? I am pretty happy with the chart myself, and our relationship has been pretty great.Before meeting Pisces guy, I was single for 4 years. I had a bad breakup with ANOTHER Pisces...and then kind of puppy-dog tailed a Saggitarius for a while because he was so anti-commitment, and I was looking for a fling and nothing more. I had been telling myself I should try dating again and I signed up for Match.com. I have a weird work schedule, and so does Pisces guy. He said I talked a little (a lot, and i even warned him that I get chatty when I'm nervous) too much on the first and second date, but I was cute and he liked what I had to say anyways. He is very verbal in how he appreciates my body, and I haven't had a very sex-positive experience in the past...but with him, oh my goodness. THIS MAY BE TMI?? I'm a pretty open person sexually, but only in giving, not good at receiving because of issues in previous relationships... but Pisces has let me put my guard down.... Anyways, hoping to get some feedback. I have been learning to read charts, but I think I read most of them with a bias, I still struggle with picking out what is "important" or a "strong aspect." IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 11:21 PM
I forgot to mention-- we met 7 months ago and we'll have been dating for 6 months this week.IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2406 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 17, 2014 11:26 PM
I have a Pisces sun and Cap moon putting Mars in my first and I can barely catch my breath, so with Pluto, I can imagine. Claude Hammercy ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 11:44 PM
My Pisces did mention one night that he is VERY slow to come to the point where he feels LOVE for someone.I feel it quickly, or an INTENSE emotion at least. In hindsight, it is probably more a sort of lust, but paired with my undying need to be loyal, it's very love based. However, once I feel like I've been taken advantage of, it sort of switches off instantly. It will feel like the loving feeling was never really there after. But right now, oh my gosh, such strong feelings for him. Very comfortable, and I feel so in sync with him. And he's very calm compared to my more hyper self. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds Knowflake Posts: 467 From: somewhere in south and the east Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 17, 2014 11:58 PM
I can't read charts well but your situation resonates- I've been single for 5 years now and only had bad heartbreaks or got badly cheated on... I also got a sag for fling one time lol Eitherway, your situation give me hope. (I'm pisces tho and my most recent ex was a virgo...) hope all will continue be bright 4 u IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 18, 2014 12:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by peacefulclouds: I can't read charts well but your situation resonates- I've been single for 5 years now and only had bad heartbreaks or got badly cheated on... I also got a sag for fling one time lol Eitherway, your situation give me hope. (I'm pisces tho and my most recent ex was a virgo...) hope all will continue be bright 4 u
Thank you! It's possible! I know for those 4 years I just wasn't ready. I needed to get right with myself and be comfortable on my own. I tried dating here or there in between but it felt like a CHORE. That is, until the new Pisces Good luck to you, too!!
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 43956 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 24, 2014 10:16 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Moderator Posts: 4039 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 25, 2014 02:05 AM
Right off the bat:SUN conjunct MOON MOON conjunct NEPTUNE These will undoubtedly create a feeling of completion; there's a complementariness to them. NEPTUNE with the MOON brings a sense of romanticism, and a psychic bond in many cases. More to follow. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 5636 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 25, 2014 07:46 AM
The strong points here on 1st glance:Sun conjunct Moon on IC, Sun opp. Sun, Moon trine Mars brings Sun in the combo too. Interesting mutual quincunxes Mars/Mars, Venus/Venus, with Venus Mars in antiscia signs. An antiscia comparison shows mutual Venus conjunct Mars, even with wider orbs can't be ignored. Sun/Venus DW, Moon/Neptune DW, on IC, some good Mercury aspects, Saturn too - a very intimate, comfortable bond with all the IC involved. Many planets on angles, NN conjunct MC, Venus conjunct Vertex Any Saturn to Sun or Moon in the composite?
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muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 25, 2014 11:53 PM
One thing I've taken note of is all the Saturn squares...my own Natal chart has a ton of them, as well. While they're usually super negative, maybe because I've had so much experience working with my own Saturn squares, I'm able to turn that energy into a more positive rather than negative influence... I feel (and he's even said) I am very patient and supportive -- in a way that he wants to achieve more because of the support I show...? Here is the Composite chart Reference Place - we are both from opposite coasts but are living in Atlanta/met in Atlanta...not sure if this makes a major difference IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 27, 2014 02:37 PM
*bump* Anything different that the Composite brings?I there's some Moon/Sun interaction, but not much Saturn IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 29, 2014 01:33 PM
Hello everyone! Still been lurking here. Wanted to bump this older post of mine to see if anyone has time to check it out? I updated the charts with some more stuff as well.Everything with A is amazing. We actually just got back from a weeklong vacation to Oregon! It was my first time off the East coast, I cried when I saw the ocean. We had an AMAZING time. Anyways, if you have time, it would be awesome! If not, everyone here is so great and I am learning so much from y'all anywho EDIT - We have both come to realize how in love we are with each other as well, so that's new too! We said it a few months ago one night during sex and it was the closest i have ever felt to someone. It always feels like that with him though, I haven't ever been with someone who I feel so comfortable and whole with...and intimate. Anyways! THANKS IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 29, 2014 02:17 PM
I can't shed any light on the composite but I hope someone else does because it is BEAUTIFUL. I would love to know the significance of those patterns.Just goes to show you never know who you'll meet, even if it's online! Your time alone all that time led you to this. I love hearing stories like yours IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 209 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 29, 2014 02:44 PM
First off, you have his Mars, Vesta, Venus and Union in your H7, exact on your Vertex and DC. No wonder things are working out. Secondly, he is a Sun on IC person, and his Moon falls on your IC. So you're a good fit for him emotionally on that level. That's nice. I'm having a bearer-of-bad-news day today , so I'm going to point out something potentially problematic for long-term prospects. Your Nodes are square. This can be a great aspect for encouraging each other to be the best you can be, but it can also get hairy when people are living together and planning a mutual future. Your plans and visions for the future can just clash. And the Nodes, or so I've noticed, are a kind of "growing up" thing - the older you are the more they matter to you. So it's something that will matter more and more with time, but might not be obvious at the start. Another factor is your Chiron on his NN, in his H7, and his in your H8. Those are aspects that take maturity. Sun-Sun-Saturn T-square as well. Lots and lots of maturity. So that's my Negative Nancy take. But there are lots of nice things too. IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 29, 2014 03:29 PM
I like the oppositions with the personal planets. You have an Aries Dsc, he puts his Mars on it, good for him. You have a Sun/Mars conjunction, he has an Aries Mars. They are in your twelfth house, he has a Pisces Sun. He has a Gemini Dsc, you put nothing there but his Mercury is in Pisces and unaspected if I'm not wrong, you have a Pisces Moon. I've noticed that the signs ruled by Venus and Mercury both count as far as the Dsc goes. For example, Hillary Clinton and Michael Douglas are Scorpio rising, which means they have Taurus Dsc (ruled by Venus), yet their spouses have Libra placements (also ruled by Venus). Thus, your Virgo placements and the Moon in your H6 make up for the lack of Gemini in your chart. He has a Capricorn Moon, you have both Moon and Venus square Saturn. He has Moon square Mars, you have the opposition. He has also an Aries Venus, are your Venus and Mars within orb for a conjunction? Overall, the synastry looks good. IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 29, 2014 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: So that's my Negative Nancy take. But there are lots of nice things too.
I appreciate that! I'm all about knowing what you have to work with and I'm also super aware of how negative or hard aspects can be overcome and actually useful! I feel like a very strong and certain person about many parts of my life due to have like a thousand Saturn Squares in my Natal chart. IP: Logged |
muddyt0es Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 29, 2014 10:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID:
He has also an Aries Venus, are your Venus and Mars within orb for a conjunction?
Ehhh. My Venus is 18 Virgo and my Mars is 9 Virgo. His Venus is 16 Aries and his Mars is 8 Aries. It's a little wide but they're both similar orbs ish. IP: Logged | |