posted April 30, 2014 12:48 PM            

I see mars square moon and mars opposite mars.

posted April 30, 2014 04:44 PM            

Cap and Leo are TWO rulers!!! But, they rule in seperate ways. Cap rules by drawing a silent line in the sand and marking their territory. Leo rules by making a fuss! Your mom has her moon in cap and asc in cap--how she feels is also colored by how she views the world. However, you may feel the same as her (capricorn), but you believe you are equally right.

posted April 30, 2014 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I'm gonna look at mine and my moms as soon as I get comfortable at home. Anything in our synastry would be good for no one. :/

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Hahaha!!! I feel you on that. My mom has a grand cross and my sun falls right on her Pluto in her sun/Pluto opposition. All that control. I saw it and I was like 😳😫 it explained it all.

posted May 01, 2014 12:35 AM              

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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
To me, what stands out are the sign placements--two people with moon in cap and an an asc in cap, trying to comunicate with a leo asc?

Cap and Leo are TWO rulers!!! But, they rule in seperate ways. Cap rules by drawing a silent line in the sand and marking their territory. Leo rules by making a fuss! Your mom has her moon in cap and asc in cap--how she feels is also colored by how she views the world. However, you may feel the same as her (capricorn), but you believe you are equally right.

But, fights don't last because ultimately, a Taurus sun wants stability, and a Cancer sun wants security--at the end of the day, it's not make or break.

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Hello lotus_flower^^ thank you for your reply, but just wanted to clarify I little, I have the cappy rising, not my mom. Yes she can be very proud and flamboyant like a true Lioness:D She is a very stronng person, at least on the outside, but her innerside is sweet and caring.

And also my sun is in gemini 0' the anaretic reckless degree. I probably don't match with her delicate inner core..:(

posted May 01, 2014 12:36 AM              

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I'm gonna look at mine and my moms as soon as I get comfortable at home. Anything in our synastry would be good for no one. :/

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Thank you! But is it that bad?
For u I mean? having strong aspects , how did u managed to cope with them? ^^

posted May 01, 2014 12:39 AM              

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Hahaha!!! I feel you on that. My mom has a grand cross and my sun falls right on her Pluto in her sun/Pluto opposition. All that control. I saw it and I was like 😳😫 it explained it all.

Starlit road- just a few things that jumped off the page, Sub opposit moon/Uranus, Venus/mercury opposite Saturn, mars opposite mars. That last one is the doozy, you are both trying to enact your will on the other and the sun/moon opposite makes it difficult to teach that understanding of each other.

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wow, very true indeed!!
I feel we are so different. I know we love eachother, but we are completely 2 diff individuals. It is hard to make compromise bcz than she feels at odds with her views and so do I. and it is frustrating to have these aspects with the mother who gave u life:(

posted May 01, 2014 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by starlitroad:
Thank you! But is it that bad?
For u I mean? having strong aspects , how did u managed to cope with them? ^^

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When I was very young, my mother and I had a very good relationship despite many barriers. Around the time I turned 10, things started changing. She stopped believing me. Never was one to lie to my mother, so not sure what changed. At 12, my grades started to suffer after being a years-running honor student. That was our biggest thorn, but when I graduated, she didn't want me to go to college and sabotaged everything associated with school. She wanted me to work and take care of her. At 19, I left and never looked back.
Now, I have very low tolerance. As soon as she begins a tantrum, I shut her off, hang up, walk out. Being a Leo, I somehow give off the heir that I like to argue. I don't. Once I see you understand my point and you still disagree, I'm done if the conversation can't be civil. In a nutshell, I put her in a box. In my situation, the only thing I've done to upset her lately is refuse to take care of her. She's in her mid 50s. Call me on your 70th.

posted May 01, 2014 01:11 AM              

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Her Pluto conj my IC, Mercury and Venus. I am the favorite. Her Sun conj my Uranus. Tightest major aspect? Uranus Saturn square. 0°05. Ugly.

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:( I am sory ...it must be so hard , the power and control still continues?

posted July 29, 2014 06:34 PM            

It really answered a lot of questions.

I've never felt the same about the relationship since.

posted July 29, 2014 07:11 PM            

Her Pluto is directly conjunct my Sun. She is controlling of me, or attempts to be, though I'm not easy to control - she more so tries to manipulate me and when I notice, I'm ****** off. Unfortunately, she has expected me to take care of /her/ a lot of the time, though she has helped me, but this role reversal since childhood had proved damaging to my psyche. Her Jupiter squares my Moon in Virgo and Chiron.

She is very stubborn and has evaded taking responsibility for her actions and I have gone off on her about this numerous times...My Mercury [in Scorpio] squares her Moon. Her Mars [in Taurus] is opposite my Pluto by 3 degrees.