posted May 24, 2014 09:56 AM            

I've had my eros on someone's psych and I've never been in love with a person the way how I was in love with him. However, his psyche conjunct his saturn and I saw on a topic on this website that, he wouldn't notice me as his soulmate and his psyche is blocked because of the conjunction.

I'm saying all of this because I've experienced how powerful psyche and eros both are.

Now I have someone's psyche and eros on my vertex and I think he's just a beautiful man! lol

But, he is hesitant with me (because of 7 years age difference..blah blah), which confuses me because, what I have experienced with psyche and eros is that they wouldn't care about things like that and would just want to be with the person period.

Can anyone please shed some light here. Thanks in advance.

posted May 24, 2014 10:49 AM            

Vertex in synastry is not always active it only works when someone is going through great change or some type of turning point which would be more so when contact is made with it through synastry it can then feel fated and sometimes obsessive.

posted May 24, 2014 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
I have experienced someone's psych on my ascendant ... thought that I was the most beautiful person that can walk on this earth. They were completely drawn to me and wanted to marry me right on the spot.

I've had my eros on someone's psych and I've never been in love with a person the way how I was in love with him. However, his psyche conjunct his saturn and I saw on a topic on this website that, he wouldn't notice me as his soulmate and his psyche is blocked because of the conjunction ...

Now I have someone's psyche and eros on my vertex and I think he's just a beautiful man! lol ...

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Wow! I have someone's PSYCHE on my ASC, and he was completely bowled over by me. My PSYCHE's on his VALENTINE, so, luckily, I think he's pretty much the bee's knees as well.

That's very interesting about PSYCHE and SATURN.

My EROS is on my husband's PSYCHE 3º. The beginning to the relationship felt like all that I'd ever wanted. I enjoyed 'playing Eros'. But in order to truly balance, I had to learn how to embody my PSYCHE.

Though not conjunct, my Twin's EROS, VENUS, PSYCHE and MARS are all in the same sign as my VX. His ASC is smack on it, too.

I don't have words to describe what he does to me. It's illogical, completely irrational, and irresistible. I just love him. Period. After 8 years. It gets volatile, and crazy; up and down, back and forth. Pain, separations, and games. But the second we see each other - BAM. None of that even matters. It's practically nonexistence.

All that's left is love.

posted May 25, 2014 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Fionapineapple:
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Vertex in synastry is not always active it only works when someone is going through great change or some type of turning point which would be more so when contact is made with it through synastry it can then feel fated and sometimes obsessive.

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I am going through some changes. I don't necessarily feel like it is fated. More of… I gotta have him. He needs to be mineeeeee. lol

I've been obsessive with the person I had my eros on his psyche/saturn (let's call him sexy man A) and I definitely do not have the same feelings for this guy (sexy man B).

posted May 25, 2014 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Wow! I have someone's PSYCHE on my ASC, and he was completely bowled over by me. My PSYCHE's on his VALENTINE, so, luckily, I think he's pretty much the bee's knees as well.

That's very interesting about PSYCHE and SATURN.

My EROS is on my husband's PSYCHE 3º. The beginning to the relationship felt like all that I'd ever wanted. I enjoyed 'playing Eros'. But in order to truly balance, I had to learn how to embody my PSYCHE.

Though not conjunct, my Twin's EROS, VENUS, PSYCHE and MARS are all in the same sign as my VX. His ASC is smack on it, too.

I don't have words to describe what he does to me. It's illogical, completely irrational, and irresistible. I just love him. Period. After 8 years. It gets volatile, and crazy; up and down, back and forth. Pain, separations, and games. But the second we see each other - BAM. None of that even matters. It's practically nonexistence.

All that's left is love.

Crazy.

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posted May 27, 2014 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
I am going through some changes. I don't necessarily feel like it is fated. More of… I gotta have him. He needs to be mineeeeee. lol

I've been obsessive with the person I had my eros on his psyche/saturn (let's call him sexy man A) and I definitely do not have the same feelings for this guy (sexy man B).

Is B at all being affected by this aspect or is just me?

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posted May 27, 2014 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Fionapineapple:
Being the eros and vertex person it would most likely be you that feels the most. Eros would have a "crush" on whatever planet it touches and vertex tends to give ppl obsessive feelings toward someone. Psyche is a pretty subtle influence in my opinion but when in conjunction to someone's eros then it's more obvious and more likely for them to reciprocate but saturn will make it difficult for someone to process such a connection.

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posted May 27, 2014 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
I am going through some changes. I don't necessarily feel like it is fated. More of… I gotta have him. He needs to be mineeeeee. lol

I've been obsessive with the person I had my eros on his psyche/saturn (let's call him sexy man A) and I definitely do not have the same feelings for this guy (sexy man B).

Is B at all being affected by this aspect or is just me?

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posted May 27, 2014 09:05 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
Hi Fionapineapple, thanks for your reply. so the eros/psyche person would have a "crush" on the vertex person and the vertex person would be obsessive of the eros/psyche person?

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EROS indeed eroticises; hence the 'crush'. VERTEX, on the other hand, is the fate point. When our VX is hit, we tend to feel it very intensely. I've seen that it can create a sort of focus. The point becomes the focal point.

posted May 27, 2014 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Okay, where is your PRIAPUS? (h22). That may be the story here.

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posted May 28, 2014 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
i see that his PRIAPUS conjunct my asc...

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So your PRIAPUS is not being aspected in any meaningful way by anything in his chart? Personal points? Luminary? BML (Black Moon Lilith) or LILITH 1181 (the asteroid)?

posted May 28, 2014 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
So your PRIAPUS is not being aspected in any meaningful way by anything in his chart? Personal points? Luminary? BML (Black Moon Lilith) or LILITH 1181 (the asteroid)?

Keep the orb tight, too. Around 2°.

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posted May 28, 2014 05:11 AM            

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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
Conjunct his north node, opposite his eros/psyche.

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Interesting! I'm going to hazard a guess here that a big part of your connexion is actually linked to the mutual expression and exploration of vulnerability and the desire to merge with another.

For him, it's an issue of spiritual growth and personal development; that's echoed by the fact his PRIAPUS is conjunct your ASC. (This means his BML is somewhere around your DSC; at least a high likelihood it's in your 7H.)

Since it's also opposite his EROS/PSYCHE, this points to, again, a likelihood BML is conjunct it. That injects a heavy dose of raw sexuality. His SNODE is going to be conjunct his EROS/PSYCHE, too, meaning there's a karmic component to that - a balancing act.

You have an interesting combination here of intense energies: the desire for merging, a feeling of fatedness, and a powerful link where soul and eroticism become joined.

posted May 28, 2014 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
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For him, it's an issue of spiritual growth and personal development; that's echoed by the fact his PRIAPUS is conjunct your ASC. (This means his BML is somewhere around your DSC; at least a high likelihood it's in your 7H.) ...

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posted May 29, 2014 12:19 PM            

There are like all these asteroids people keep saying that are important in soul mate connections and I dont see it...my H22 is in virgo; i have never in my life wanted to merge intensely with a virgo or anyone that has virgo in them.

I have alma and lust in Tauras, I dont like Taurus people,I am not attracted to them, I also have several taurus placements in duad...I do like scorpios though but I have saturn in scorpio and the 12th in scorpio and my venus and mars square scorpio. I have cupido in Cap and I have never felt in love with capricorn or capricorn placements. I have amor in pisces at 8 degrees and there is girl that I liked a lot but her sun and mars conjuncts my moon and her venus my amor. I feel if anything the asteroids enhance a little what is already there..but the ones that I mentioned are more than enhancers they are force to be reckoned with.

and when I go over all these so called "soulmate asteroids" it doesn't add up..and this info on many of the asteroids spoken of here is all fairly recent info that has little research.......except for the Vertex, NN, SN, eros and psyche (I feel psyche is more important for soulmate stuff than eros), and Juno..

posted June 01, 2014 01:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Fionapineapple:
Yes. And Indigo brings up some very good points.

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