posted May 30, 2014 07:24 AM
Okay, what I notice is that you do have a strong impact on each other. I particularly noticed these aspects:° a major angle overlay (his IC on your ASC)
° his 5th to your 2nd (and his 11th to your 8th),
while you still need aspects to "make" something out of it, those overlays might be important in terms of a thematic background.
Major angles conjunct each other are always important, and the combination of 5th to 2nd, 11th to 8th, puts the emphasis on the area of sexuality, sensuality, loveability, ability to give love, in short the sexual profile and the selfworth profile.
But as I said we need aspects for that to manifest in actual terms.
You have two major conjunctions with the angles.
His Saturn right on your IC
Your Mercury on his ASC.
His Saturn on your IC touches the deepest point of your soul, but with Saturn it can go two ways, either he is pragmaticaly positively supportive and helps to structure your homelife or emotional life in a certain way, or you might feel restricted and judged in terms of either your family-origin or even your own emotional make up.
Saturn rules the 8th house and conjuncts your IC, which is a little comparable to a Pluto-Moon-conjunction. In any way it indicates that he has a very intense deeply emotionally effect on you (and you most probably on him). For him the ability to share intimacy in a relationship (sexuality included) is highlighted. His Saturns eems to be unaspected though, so I donīt know how well it translates into activity.
The other thing is your Mercury, your ASC ruler conjuncst his ASC, opposing his Mercury-Uranus-conjunction, with Mercury ruling his ASC and 5th house, and Uranus ruling his MC.
I like that one very much, you resonate with each other on a very personal level, and with your ASC-rulers opposite each other there is quite some magnetism there. You are different, yet complementing each other. Uranus adds a "BUZZ"-feeling to it, a lot intensification and electricity.
For him this also involves the 5th house, so it triggers his ability to give love.
Differently phrased his 5th house ruler opposes your 1st house ruler - he is magnetized (opposite) and romantically sparked (his 5th house ruler) to your identity. The way you present yourself most probably is very attractive to him.
Your Mercury also trines his Jupiter and Mars. So that is quite positive for sparking each other mentally as well, or at least come to a smooth flow.
Another aspect I find significant is his Jupiter conjunct your NN. Especially since it means his 7th house ruler conjuncts your NN. It seems to appear quite often in significant relationships (though the aspect would not tell you how long the relationship will last, just that it is very important).
With Jupiter on your NN there is of course a major uplifting influence as well, almost like he inspires a sense of purpose and meaning in you.
Other aspects:
your Moons are square
While this is of course a challenging contact, it has its positives sides, too.
Well, it will not be like in Moons-trines that you feel just comfortable with each other without having to put effort in it, but you trigger each others emotional response and probably could learn a lot from each other because of your different emotional reactions.
I would have liked your Moon and Sun to be more integrated in the synastry though. Ther eis just the square to his Moon, but your Sun is unaspected. Might be not enough to keep you emotionally satisfied in the long run (sometimes if the luminaries are only weakly aspected in synastry it has the effect that after the in-love-phase fades a bit, that the person with the luminaries has the feeling the other one doesn`t quite "get" her on a core level, though there might be strong attraction).
His Moon opposes your Jupiter - a feel good aspect
It could be - depending on the orb- that there is a grand Cross of his Moon-Mars-square to your Mars-Jupiter-square, with your Jupiter opposing his Moon and your Mars opposing each others.
That is for sure a strong triggering of emotional and also sexual responses. High voltage of attraction and magnetism, but with the Mars-opposition it *can* detoriate into some combativeness and battlefield-behaviour and even antagonism under certain circumstances. You will have to watch out for the energy to not direct itself against the two of you. Probably best have a shared goal you can put the energy into.
But all in all it is of course high enthusiasm with that one.
As for Venus.
your Venus opposes his Sun and trines his Moon. Definitely a romantic magnetism on your part, and also the feeling of emotional comfort.
His Venus doesn`t seem to be aspected so strongly, so the romantic feelings might be not as strong from his side (but don`t forget the strong triggering of his 5th house, that could modify it).
The sextile to Uranus is nicely electric, but not strong enough to make one fall in love.
(his 5th house ruler opposite your 1st house ruler might be enough though)
I wonder how his Mars squaring your Neptune plays out. sexual fantasies on his part, or both? they are both placed in the natal 5th house and overlaying each other`s 2nd and 8th house, so probably relating to some sort of sexual innuendo or magnetism.
But Neptune often seems confusing or elusiveness (or inspiring?) to Mars.
So how does it manifest in your relationship?
Also, neither Saturn is strongly activated in the synastry, which is weird in a relationship. Usually lasting relationships have at least one strong Saturn to luminaries, angles or Venus and Mars (and most often it is a conjunction, opposition or square).