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next to neptune
Knowflake

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posted May 29, 2014 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I noticed that all my libra friends who got into a relationship hold on to it for a very long time - both girls and boys… most of them have been together for something like ages when first they make the relationship official
Especially those with libra venus also…. does that hold true for you?

I'm in a relationship myself with a libra sun + venus, lol but our relationship is not official (not on Facebook) but everywhere else pretty much… I don't know what that is supposed to mean though? That he/me still got some "escape plan" since we are not 100% officially in a relationship?

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posted May 29, 2014 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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but our relationship is not official (not on Facebook)

#1stworldproblems
#facepalmoftheweek

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posted May 29, 2014 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
#1stworldproblems
#facepalmoftheweek


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Selene
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posted May 29, 2014 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
#1stworldproblems
#facepalmoftheweek


I agree, stop this planet, i wanna leave.

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Selene
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posted May 29, 2014 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well that would mean i would never be in an official relationship since i would not want to declare it on Facebook ever. Who cares if i get married, it still would not be 100% official, it would not be published on FB after all.

AND I am a Libra Sun and Venus, Mercury!

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posted May 29, 2014 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
#1stworldproblems
#facepalmoftheweek


loooooool

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ail221
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posted May 29, 2014 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Once a libra defines a Relationship with you, you're in a Relationship. Annoucing it on facebook isn't a big deal if he’s already intergrated you into his life.

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fireopal09
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posted May 30, 2014 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am Libra Sun conjunct Uranus in a relationship with 7H Sun/Mars Leo w/ a Venus in Libra. We are in a LDR and he manages a bar/music venue which means he is friends with almost a 1,000 people on FB. After a few months into the relationship, I pretty much told him to change his relationship status on FB or I would stop traveling to see him twice per month. He acquiesced once I explained my position.

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posted May 30, 2014 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have been together 4+ years.

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posted May 31, 2014 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, once we dedicate ourselves we go all the way n let everyone know about it! Until then we are still trying to decide if your the one....

Libra AC/Pluto/Venus conjunct

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IndigoDirae
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posted May 31, 2014 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
#1stworldproblems
#facepalmoftheweek


I kinda giggled at that, too.

No offence, next to neptune, but 'everywhere else' is pretty official! Don't you think?

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posted May 31, 2014 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whitewitch111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Indigo, just wanted to let you know that I finally posted the composite lol, if you need anything else in it, let me know and I will make a new one with the items you need.

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posted May 31, 2014 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whitewitch111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Indigo, just wanted to let you know that I finally posted the composite lol, if you need anything else in it, let me know and I will make a new one with the items you need.

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posted May 31, 2014 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fireopal09:
I am Libra Sun conjunct Uranus in a relationship with 7H Sun/Mars Leo w/ a Venus in Libra. We are in a LDR and he manages a bar/music venue which means he is friends with almost a 1,000 people on FB. After a few months into the relationship, I pretty much told him to change his relationship status on FB or I would stop traveling to see him twice per month. He acquiesced once I explained my position.


Now THAT I understand. Completely.

I'm on a particular website which is more conducive to alternative relational styles, such as polyamory, or nonmonogamy, as my husband and I are 'monogamish', as they say.

I do recall slapping my own forehead at the thought that I was REALLY having what my niece calls an 'FBO' conversation. That's because I'd decided I did actually want the several new attractive single women he was adding as friends to know that we ARE in a relationship; don't go getting any crazy ideas he's completely unattached now!

Possessive? Not really. Clarity? I'm a big fan of that.

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posted May 31, 2014 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
Hey Indigo, just wanted to let you know that I finally posted the composite lol, if you need anything else in it, let me know and I will make a new one with the items you need.

I saw that! Thank you so much. My darling Bengal mix did a number on my hand, which took about a day to return to typing.

And ... I'm back!

I need to learn more emoticon shorthand, too. Let's see ... or :biggrin:? Maybe :smile:? Any of those work?

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posted May 31, 2014 04:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whitewitch111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, I only know like two...

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posted May 31, 2014 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I kinda giggled at that, too.

No offence, next to neptune, but 'everywhere else' is pretty official! Don't you think?


Apparently not! As you see, someone else said that if you are not 100% official EVERYWHERE then there is still the chance that he is still deciding wether I am the one or not…
And lets 'face' it lol… Facebook is a media that is pretty important for everyone today, especially WHAT you put up there… if you don't want to "show" your relationship in there it's because you are not 100% sure about it!
Or maybe it's my scorp venus talking right now?

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posted May 31, 2014 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you mean by "the one"?
1. The one I want to be in a relationship with.
or
2. The one I want to be with forever.
?

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Selene
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posted May 31, 2014 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Apparently not! As you see, someone else said that if you are not 100% official EVERYWHERE then there is still the chance that he is still deciding wether I am the one or not…
And lets 'face' it lol… Facebook is a media that is pretty important for everyone today, especially WHAT you put up there… if you don't want to "show" your relationship in there it's because you are not 100% sure about it!
Or maybe it's my scorp venus talking right now?

I would NEVER want to declare a relationship in there, because i feel that not everything in this world has to be digitalized! Love has no reason going viral.

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posted May 31, 2014 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
What do you mean by "the one"?
1. The one I want to be in a relationship with.
or
2. The one I want to be with forever.
?


111111! Omg omg not 2, that would be crazy hmmm...

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Knowflake

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posted May 31, 2014 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selene:
I would NEVER want to declare a relationship in there, because i feel that not everything in this world has to be digitalized! Love has no reason going viral.

Yes, that also sounds like a more "romantic" reason to do so… but a libra male? Nope, he would not have that same reason to do so I believe...

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Selene
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posted May 31, 2014 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
111111! Omg omg not 2, that would be crazy hmmm...

Poor little romantic me... i wouldn't even want to be in a relationship if i wouldn't feel that i would want it forever. I guess that's why i always leave after a few dates.

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posted May 31, 2014 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selene:
Poor little romantic me... i wouldn't even want to be in a relationship if i wouldn't feel that i would want it forever. I guess that's why i always leave after a few dates.

I see your point, but in our age (we are 23 and 24) it's a little on the top asking for haha! Ofc I "hope" that, but I don't crave anything ever-lasting before my saturn return (!!!)

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