posted March 02, 2014 01:33 PM            

I started to hang out with a guy who likes me. We have nice aspects in our sysnastry chart but I don't know why I can't open up to him . Is it because of the Venus-South Node conjunction ?

Can someone take a look at this synastry chart please ?

I'm on the inside and I don't know his time of birth.

Thank you for your help.

posted March 02, 2014 05:07 PM            

If that's a mercury-sun opposition, and your mercury is in your 11th house, that may be the problem. Sorry. Can't see.

I'm big on house placement and while I can tell where your planets are in his houses, I can see what he's putting in yours.
He's pitting venus in your 7th house. That's good for long term, I think.

Is that is moon opposing your mars in the 12th house? Me no like.

posted March 02, 2014 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
Hi,

I started to hang out with a guy who likes me. We have nice aspects in our sysnastry chart but I don't know why I can't open up to him . Is it because of the Venus-South Node conjunction ?

Can someone take a look at this synastry chart please ?

I'm on the inside and I don't know his time of birth.

Thank you for your help.

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posted March 02, 2014 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Is that a pluto-sun opposition? That's the best thing I see. Creates a clinginess between you. While it's dangerous, you feel like you need each other and can't be without each other. That's relationship glue to me.

If that's a mercury-sun opposition, and your mercury is in your 11th house, that may be the problem. Sorry. Can't see.

I'm big on house placement and while I can tell where your planets are in his houses, I can see what he's putting in yours.
He's pitting venus in your 7th house. That's good for long term, I think.

Is that is moon opposing your mars in the 12th house? Me no like.

Mercury conjunct jupiter in retrograde is not good, either, but you're the jupiter person, not the merc.

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Hi ,

Thanks for trying.

There are both a Pluto-Sun opposition and a Mercury-Sun opposition (my Pluto and my Mercury opposite his Sun). My Mars, which is in my 10th house opposite his Moon.

posted March 02, 2014 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
since you don't know his TOB you won't know the house placements and where things fall. if you feel that you are having a hard time opening up you might want to look at your own natal and study that first. it often stems from something in our own chart and not always the synastry.

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I've already studied my natal chart and I know where I lack. I've worked a lot on myself and I'm trying hard to make this relationship work. But I don't feel chemistry between us even though our synastry chart have good aspects . In our composite, we have 1 grand trine and 1 grand kite but as I don't know his time of birth and I can't see in which houses they fall it's useless.

posted March 02, 2014 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
I've already studied my natal chart and I know where I lack. I've worked a lot on myself and I'm trying hard to make this relationship work. But I don't feel chemistry between us even though our synastry chart have good aspects . In our composite, we have 1 grand trine and 1 grand kite but as I don't know his time of birth and I can't see in which houses they fall it's useless.

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posted March 02, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
what do you think is so good about the synastry? it's actually not so great that a romantic relationship would stem from it. you have a nice sun-moon conjunction, but if you look at your own stellium falling within libra and scorpio, those planets are unaspected to his (by conjunction).; it's actually sitting opposite his sun. even without his time of birth you'd likely only have the outer planets in very close contact and those won't be significant enough to make it last, or get started. it doesn't look that good, imo. you don't always have to have conjunctions to make something 'click', but you don't even have good oppositions with him, which can help in the absence of conjunctions. just look at the wheel and you can see how your planets are clustered together and none of his personal ones are nearby, and the same is true of his 'big 4' - they go around the wheel with limited contact to your planets. a man is (generally) very attracted to a female who makes his react with his venus or moon sign and you don't have strong contacts to those (for him). just my opinion. good luck.

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Agree. I see some not-so-good oppositions and no connection to important planets. Not much going on with his venus or your moon. That moon-mars opposition... Me no like.

posted March 02, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Agree. I see some not-so-good oppositions and no connection to important planets. Not much going on with his venus or your moon. That moon-mars opposition... Me no like.

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posted March 02, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
what do you think is so good about the synastry? it's actually not so great that a romantic relationship would stem from it. you have a nice sun-moon conjunction, but if you look at your own stellium falling within libra and scorpio, those planets are unaspected to his (by conjunction).; it's actually sitting opposite his sun. even without his time of birth you'd likely only have the outer planets in very close contact and those won't be significant enough to make it last, or get started. it doesn't look that good, imo. you don't always have to have conjunctions to make something 'click', but you don't even have good oppositions with him, which can help in the absence of conjunctions. just look at the wheel and you can see how your planets are clustered together and none of his personal ones are nearby, and the same is true of his 'big 4' - they go around the wheel with limited contact to your planets. a man is (generally) very attracted to a female who makes his react with his venus or moon sign and you don't have strong contacts to those (for him). just my opinion. good luck.

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In this relationship, he's the one who is more enthusiastic. Things are going way to fast for me. He seems to be really attracted to me. I'm just trying to figure it out why I'm not that enthusiastic because he's a great guy.

For example the following aspects seem to be good to me :
- His Sun conjunct my Moon
- His Moon sextile my Moon
- His Venus trine my Sun
- His Mars trine my Moon
- His South Node conjunct my Venus and his North Node conjunct my Jupiter
- His Venus conjunct my descendant
- Our Venus are in air signs
- His Moon conjunct my North Node

posted March 02, 2014 07:07 PM            

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posted March 02, 2014 07:22 PM            

Sun conjunct Moon Orb 9°33'
Moon sextile Moon Orb 0°01' (I put 12 PM for his time of birth)
Venus trine Sun Orb 6°59'
Mars trine Moon Orb 6°53'
South Node conjunct Venus Orb 0°55'
North Node conjunct Jupiter Orb 4°09'
Venus conjunct Descendant Orb 3°13'
North Node conjunct Moon aspect also depends on the time of birth.

posted March 05, 2014 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
The sun-moon conjunction is too far. The trines are a smidge far as well.
This isn't really a BAD chart to me, just a bit boring.
Have you done some sun-moon midpoint calculations? Looks like you may have a sun opposition of his midpoint. But that doesn't validate your feelings. It validates his.

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I got his time of birth. I'm pretty sure you're gonna say the charts are boring and it's more a platonic relationship lol.

I guess you don't like my Uranus on his descendant xD.

I noticed his vertex conjunct my ruler of 7th house with a orb of 0,18.