posted February 18, 2014 04:26 PM            

I am new enough to this. I have been learning for the past few months but this is a rather complex one!! I have been told various things and when I was at a private astro chart I got into a heated argument with the astrologer who told me to run and get him out of my life to find out later she has made several mistakes with predictions as such. She didn't explain anything just handed out accusations for free.

I will make an anniversary with my man next month, we get on very well and it is a long distance in which we try to visit each other regularly and after next year I will move to Spain to work and be with him, first must finish uni. When we are together we feel so comfortable and loving and warm and he is so intelligent we can stay up all day and night discussing various interesting topics. We get on very well but from time to time my emotions are a bit unstable due to missing him and sometimes I feel that he doesn't give show me enough emotion but he really does love me and asks me everyday how I am and if there is something he is always there to listen and support me. I am enchanted with this man! Never met a man I would like to actually share a life with to that extent. Please let me know what you guys think

posted February 18, 2014 06:43 PM            

Synastry:
Your Venus is in his first house along with your Pluto. This indicates that he has a very passionate physical attraction to you. The attraction is quite possibly obsessive and even dark to an extent due to Pluto being in Scorpio.
You have your Ascendants Conjunct one another's Descendants, which is always nice. You are opposites, at least in the way you present yourself. But opposites attract, and that is the case with the two of you. You are attracted to one another, or were initially, because you could sense that both of you "complete" each other per se.
Pluto seems to be very important here even though it is an outer planet. Your Pluto is Conjunct his Asc and his Pluto is Conjunct your Dsc making for a lot of attraction, even feelings of wanting to be partners for life.
His Sun, Mercury, and Jupiter are in your 5th house, which indicates that he loves to spend time with you and to love you.
He has his Moon in your 8th house, which shows that he has a deep, emotional attachment to you. The 8th house is not only the house of death, but also of marriage and committed relationships, and he really wants that from you. Honestly, from house overlays alone, I think he loves you more than even you love him.
Your Mars is Trine his Venus, which seems like a great synastry aspect to have because it makes for a lot of attraction, knowing how to love the other, knowing what the other wants, and thinking each other pretty ideal.
Your Suns are Trine, which is nice because your outer personalities are very much in tune with one another. You both like who the other person is and respect each other.

The aspects I think that are bad and major are:
Moon Square Sun- This is a very complex aspect because it could be one that causes a lot of attraction. But over time, it could prove to be detrimental to the relationship unless the two of you consciously work out your differences and keep each other comfortable. You might feel as though he is being self-centered or egocentric even when he isn't, that he isn't listening to your perspective. And he may start to become distant to your emotions, finding you to be too sensitive or too emotional. There could be a lot of small arguments that over time just become plain frustrating.

Moon Square Moon- This aspect is one that requires growth and acceptance on both your parts. It can actually strengthen your relationship when worked around. I wouldn't say this one is detrimental. Your timings will be off. "When one is up, the other will be down..." and so on. A lot of your habits don't match. If he's a night person, you're a morning person. You'll find yourselves out of sync with each other basically.

Composite:
There really isn't a lot for me to comment on here. I'm very sure that I'm missing something, but there doesn't seem to be any major aspects except Sun Conjunct Mars. Just because all of your planets fall in the Southern part of the chart, I'd say that your relationship will be a very extroverted one. You'll have a lot of mutual friends and be very social. What's unfortunate about this chart is that there is a lack of planets in the fifth and eighth house, which is probably why a lot of astrologers have told you this is a bad composite. The 5th house is the house of romance and creativity, which could end up being lacking in your relationship. The eighth house is the house of death and marriage, and that is empty as well, possibly indicating a lack of commitment. From looking at the synastry, I'd think that that lack will come from your part. You have a very active 12th house, which may indicate that you will keep secrets from each other. This is further indicated by Mercury Square Saturn/Moon, which shows a lack of communication, especially on the emotional level.

Sun Conjunct Mars- This makes for a very passionate, intense, exciting relationship. There is possibility for anger on both your parts, but this energy can be channeled positively. You are both very energetic around each other and can even be competitive towards one another.

I hope this helps

posted February 18, 2014 06:54 PM            

Thank you for your interpretation Don't worry I haven't yet cheated on anyone in my life I doubt I would do that to the love of my life
That was quite a bit more optimistic than anyone has had ever made it

posted February 18, 2014 06:56 PM            

I'll give a try but remember I'm a beginner at Astrology xD. I'm not saying this relationship is bad nor good, just what I see .

In your synastry chart, Sun opposite Moon and Venus square Pluto explain why you guys are really attracted to each other. Moon square moon shows that your emotion needs are not the same. Moon in Pisces needs more closeness while Moon in Sagittarius is more detached.

In your composite chart, Venus is in the 9th house but also the ruler of that house which could explain the long distance relationship. Love is also expressed more intellectually than emotionally.
Venus square Uranus is a difficult aspect which can separate you guys but you also have Moon tightly conjunct Saturn which offsets that separating aspect and works like glue. I would say the most difficult aspect in your composite chart is composite Venus tightly square Neptune. This aspect makes you believe that you have met the ideal of your life. Everything may seem perfect and ideal but you may realize later that it is quite different from what you had imagined. Neptune is the planet of both of illusion and the ideal.

I would say take your time to think before deciding to move to Spain .

posted February 18, 2014 07:42 PM            

My aunt went out with someone for 7 years, and they finally decided to get married. A little over a year later, they had a son. A few months later, he started cheating on her, and she ended up divorcing him… It's unbelievable how 7 years of commitment without commitment ended up leading to one year of infidelity in commitment. Basically what I'm saying is that you might find that one of you is afraid of the concept of commitment but is actually loyal without committing. I hope this makes sense.

posted February 18, 2014 08:43 PM            

Going back to your current guy, I'm rethinking the cheating part, but there will be secrets at the very least and tension because your styles will be different. As in, the way in which you approach things, the way you behave, the way you operate will differ. You'll both have to be very flexible and accommodating

posted February 18, 2014 10:07 PM            

That actually makes perfect sense. I want a lot of that in a girl and can understand the other desires as well.

Also, I am very happy that you broke up with that guy. I honestly hope you did it in as verbally aggressive a way as possible. (And I have Retrograde Libra Mars Opposite Saturn in Aries, so I am usually very against aggression.) Wow, I really shouldn't be advising that. I'm sorry he was so manipulative though. I really hate situations like that; it's the one thing that gets me really angry.

posted February 20, 2014 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
I can see Uranus in the 4th house of your second solar return chart. The 4th house is the house of family and home, your roots. Uranus also trine Jupiter. Jupiter rules long distance travel. It could mean you'll move out to another country or at least there will be changes in that area of your life.

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The long distance travel thing make sense, since she'll have to go to Spain to be with him. But I have a question about Uranus in the 4th. Why is that a good thing? Uranus is rebellious and erratic (even if revolutionary to an extent). Wouldn't that make for a very inconsistent, albeit exciting, home life?

posted February 20, 2014 01:54 AM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
The long distance travel thing make sense, since she'll have to go to Spain to be with him. But I have a question about Uranus in the 4th. Why is that a good thing? Uranus is rebellious and erratic (even if revolutionary to an extent). Wouldn't that make for a very inconsistent, albeit exciting, home life?

Again, Idk too much about these types of charts. But I'm really curious about the thought process.

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posted February 20, 2014 06:06 AM            

This is me: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_02_elizabeth.39863.22280.gif&res=100&va=&cid=3gifilecZKUhE-u1326847304

posted February 20, 2014 03:29 PM            

Here is mine again: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_02_elizabeth.73408.22632.gif&res=100&va=&cid=3gifilecZKUhE-u1326847304

My man's : http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_01_gonza.73500.28848.gif&res=100&va=&cid=3gifilecZKUhE-u1326847304

Synastry: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_02_gonza_elizabeth.73608.4307.gif&res=100&va=&cid=3gifilecZKUhE-u1326847304