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moonstruck87
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posted May 31, 2014 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

This Davison has a packed 7th House - loads of Scorp planets &the moon is sitting on 8H cusp conjuncting Mercury, Venus and Pluto

This is someone I work creatively (musically) with but we get sidetracked too with very intense, sexual conversations. Sorry if that's TMI lol.

I've been looking at Davison charts all morning - I never gave them a thought until now.

I find it particularly neat that the houses are all ruled by their natural rulers.

Would this union be long lasting? We make music and there is definitely intensity between us but I would like this to be long lasting because we have big plans for our music.

The Mars opp Asc worries me a little...would that make the relationship volatile?

lol and Jupiter is off in its own little world over there in 1H

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IndigoDirae
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posted May 31, 2014 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First of all, I wouldn't necessarily say that's 'packed', which is a good thing. You've got the SUN at a late degree, which does indicate a sense of fatedness; the coming together to clear karma and debt.

I'll say this.

If you feel the dynamics are too intense, especially with the 1H and 7H linked (by MARS as 1R in the 7H), then treat this with caution.

Ask yourself: how much does this project or partnership mean?

If you can honestly say that you would not want anything to derail it, then make DAMNED sure that the two of you can resolve the dynamics of this relationship in a manner that won't leave you bitter enemies.

You will regret it. Deeply. So, be smart. Not impulsive. I don't care how sure you are of his intentions. You can NEVER be certain.

I'd also like to see you add the following:

PSYCHE (16)
EROS (443)
KARMA (3811)
DESTINN (6583)
VALENTINE (447)
AMOR (1221)
ALMA (390)
ISIS (42)
OSIRIS (1923)

If you find you're STILL getting a packed house, I want you to take some time apart. Establish clear - and mean CLEAR - boundaries. Determine what your relationship is going to be - and then pursue it. With eyes wide open.

It could be remarkably beautiful.
Or a tragic mess the likes of which you regret on some level for the rest of your life.

Let's go for option A, shall we?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 31, 2014 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All three of your charts: not bad for a bit of romance either, with an intellectual and artistic vibe. You have a beautiful artistic/romantic opposition in your synastry.

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moonstruck87
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posted May 31, 2014 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there Indigo,

Thanks so much for taking time to look at this chart.

I say the intensity part due to Moon, Mercury, Venus, Pluto all being in Scorpio and in 7/8 houses

As far as how much does this project mean to me? Well, it's absolutely everything.
And how much does the partnership mean? Well, our mothers have been best friends since elementary school and lost touch after HS but have gotten back in touch and I wouldn't want anything to happen between us to taint their relationship. (If that makes sense?)
They introduced us after all these years and the creative sparks are flying. We have so many ideas and we're just vibing so well in that aspect...but sometimes we get off topic and we talk about hypothetical situations if we were a romantic couple etc. I know he is quite attracted to me and sees me as sort of a muse for his group. He has said so himself.

There is quite a lot riding on the line musically. I have been singing for my whole life and I have worked with various artists but he is the first with whom I feel GETS me sonically, visually and who even thinks broader than I in terms of things.

Anyways, I added those fixed stars and here is the link. I will have to read up on the fixed stars and their placements bc I have never studied them at all.

Again, thank you for putting time and attention to this chart. I appreciate it very much.

And my question still stands, do you think this could be lasting??


QUOTE]Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
First of all, I wouldn't necessarily say that's 'packed', which is a good thing. You've got the SUN at a late degree, which does indicate a sense of fatedness; the coming together to clear karma and debt.

I'll say this.

If you feel the dynamics are too intense, especially with the 1H and 7H linked (by MARS as 1R in the 7H), then treat this with caution.

Ask yourself: how much does this project or partnership mean?

If you can honestly say that you would not want anything to derail it, then make DAMNED sure that the two of you can resolve the dynamics of this relationship in a manner that won't leave you bitter enemies.

You will regret it. Deeply. So, be smart. Not impulsive. I don't care how sure you are of his intentions. You can NEVER be certain.

I'd also like to see you add the following:

PSYCHE (16)
EROS (443)
KARMA (3811)
DESTINN (6583)
VALENTINE (447)
AMOR (1221)
ALMA (390)
ISIS (42)
OSIRIS (1923)

If you find you're STILL getting a packed house, I want you to take some time apart. Establish clear - and mean CLEAR - boundaries. Determine what your relationship is going to be - and then pursue it. With eyes wide open.

It could be remarkably beautiful.
Or a tragic mess the likes of which you regret on some level for the rest of your life.

Let's go for option A, shall we?[/QUOTE]

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moonstruck87
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posted May 31, 2014 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and now Eros in conjunct all those scorp placements as well

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IndigoDirae
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posted May 31, 2014 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, so.

PSYCHE-SUN (1°), and EROS-MOON (0°).

This is going to be all-or-nothing with the SCO influence and these hot-button aspects.

I would say this is a definite soulmate connexion, at first brush. I have PSYCHE-SUN and EROS-MOON with an extremely dear friend and creative partner. He's actually my lead actor in my upcoming project.

But, I should warn you. The intensity is, like you said, largely coming from the SCO. I'm glad to see it's not THAT packed, though.

I lost my first partner.

After a very difficult attempt to reunite in 2012, in so many words, the intensity became unbearable in an environment of such ambiguity. Neither wanted to cop to it, though. In the end, we lost the show, each other, everything.

But, switching gears, I returned to my initial project which predates it by several years (I'm a creative professional as well: writer, actor, musician, producer) which would lead to sorting out some very difficult karma with my PSYCHE-SUN / EROS-MOON.

I'm not sure youth is your friend here, however. He and I are considerably older. If he wasn't, with the emotional maturity that comes with the territory, I could NOT put my show on the line. Period.

You have a hard choice to make.

I know in my own case that, I would have had to disengage from the relationship, just as I was forced to do by the circumstances with my ex producing partner. It would be WAY too hard. EROS-MOON? Hell, no.

Lucky for us, we do light up the screen. The passion between us is palpable. Amazing things can come from such intensity being sublimated into art. Some can do so entirely; we couldn't.

I'm concerned by your preponderance of SCO, as in the case with my ex (AKA 'my nemesis'). There's quite a bit of 8H overlay and some activity in the composite with my costar, but LEO and AQU are the dominant signs.

It can make a difference.

Since you responded, as I thought you might - 'it's everything' - I urge you tread extremely carefully. Men can be oh-so-careless at any age, but mid-twenties ... ohhhh, boy.

As much as it may thwart a bit of your love story, you need to be clear and draw firm boundaries. Have the 'what are we?' conversation. My costar said it was beginning to affect our work, and thus, we opened a very rational, very honest discussion.

How is your synastry?

And, we should exchange some links. I was developed as a dramatic coloratura soprano, with an unrepentant love for musical theatre. I joke I'm a 'contempo coloratura' since I'll do crazy things like rearrange 'Comfortably Numb' as a duet 'Music of the Night' style. But I enjoy just about all genres. I'd love to know what you're doing.

A really amazing, volatile one-shot that produced incredible work happened between Jette Kelly and Holmes Ives - the once Jette-Ives. Even if you don't enjoy trip-hop or downtempo, their cover of Isaak's 'Wicked Game' does things to that song ... you can't even articulate it. They're both sensational; I love Jette's solo work, too. She's got a rich alto like likes of which a soprano whose bottom note is a G3 (pre-warmup) can only dream.

And that's enough music nerding for the moment.

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IndigoDirae
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posted May 31, 2014 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Correction - I just noticed that PSYCHE is 20° LIB, not 29°.

I'm not exactly sure if this is better or not. Psyche can soften the intensity and direct Erotic flow. Nonetheless, I DO believe that your SUN might be on the PSYCHE/EROS MP.

I keep forgetting, too, this is Davison.

Can you post your composite as well? Sometimes they differ in dramatic ways.

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 02, 2014 05:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bumping this for completion tomorrow, moonstruck. I haven't forgotten about 'cha.

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moonstruck87
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posted June 02, 2014 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Indigo! happy Monday

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 02, 2014 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You, too!

In case you were wondering what I do, I threw this together this morning:

http://soundcloud.com/6degreesofscorpio/half-life-6ds-remixsneaker-pimps-cover

My more serious work is, say, 'String Theory'. But I've gotta say ... 'Half Life' was quite felt.

So ... yeah. About that whole To Do or Not To Do thing ....

I'm just sayin' ...

It's not exactly a happy song ... if you catch my drift.

More soon.

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moonstruck87
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posted June 02, 2014 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha!! I adore your sense if humor

I will look forward to more & I'll check out the soundcloud later when I get on my laptop

Hope you've had a great day

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 02, 2014 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Haha!! I adore your sense if humor

I will look forward to more & I'll check out the soundcloud later when I get on my laptop

Hope you've had a great day


I like keepin' it real.

Have a great one yourself.

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