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Topic: Attraction in synastry
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MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1018
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 31, 2014 10:18 PM
  
I am the person in the inner circle. The person I am attracted to is in the outer (his birth time is unknown). Can this synastry chart explain why I am attracted to him? 
I have a ton of planets in Sagittarius & he has some in Gemini. Is it the whole opposites attract thing at work?
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IndigoDirae
Moderator Posts: 2527
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 31, 2014 10:28 PM
Very generally speaking, attraction is typically felt when there are strong, hard aspects. Oppositions top the list, with squares and even semisquares supplying friction. It's the classic case of the two volatile types who end up in bed together because of the tension flipping from agitation to attraction. In your case, the oppositions dominate. There may even be a few quindeciles there, which are known for obsessive potency. Especially a woman's VENUS quindecile a man's MARS. I can't tell since there aren't any degrees, but that's certainly possible, from the way they're positioned: a mid-CAN MARS to a ... late SAG VENUS? I just can't tell; I'm sorry. The sextile between your MOONS should offer enough general likability and emotional rapport to keep from exploding in a discordant mess. I find the NNODE conjunct SATURN-MOON most intriguing. It would seem this relationship / dynamic is about growing in emotional security; leaving behind childhood wounds and developing a stronger overall structure while allowing vulnerability. Heh. That's gotta be fun for an AQU MOON.  Anyhow. There's a thumbnail sketch. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Moderator Posts: 2527
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 31, 2014 10:31 PM
Actually, I'm seeing more quindeciles ... your 27° SAG SUN (I noticed your birth date and estimated) and his early GEM SUN. That's likely quindecile. They're insanely obsessive and attracting. IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1018
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 31, 2014 10:33 PM
Yeah, I noticed that our synastry is filled with oppositions. His mars is opposite my neptune & uranus at the exact degree. His mars is also in my 6th house, I met this guy through work and my attraction towards him was instant. He made me very nervous.
I also noticed my sun is opposite his venus.
His jupiter is also opposite my mercury. There are a ton of them :0 oh and my moon is not in aqua it's in pisces (early degree) I am a sensitive person  IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1018
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 31, 2014 10:36 PM
And yeah at first I did feel obsessive and the attraction was strong on my part...But I try to shut my feelings off, I mean most of my crushes are one sided anyway. sigh lol IP: Logged |
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