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LoadedPistil
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posted June 01, 2014 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel terrible, first of all. He's absolutely smitten and I'm ready to block him

I don't like Aquarius men as it is, but for reasons he hasn't had the opportunity to display. He's getting borderline obsessive with the "I miss you"s and it's been a week. He's not going through the proper motions of courtship. He's just not smooth at all.

The oppositions are very wide and we have Venus conj Lilith, Moon conj Moon...

Seems Mercury opp Mercury 7 deg is overshadowing Moon (mine) trine Mercury and that's the tightest aspect on the board 0 deg 08'.

We have Mars Venus Trine at 4 deg and His Moon conj my Pluto at 0 deg 45 and HE is the one pie eyed. I wanna be pie eyed, too.

I don't understand. He's attractive. I just don't want him

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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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lotus_flower
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posted June 01, 2014 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Just by looking at the individual placements, he doesn't seem to be your type--you are fast talking, fun and funny person who approaches romance with intensity--but who doesn't necessarily need intensity in your own emotional reactions or in communicating with men. The emphasis on him not following the courtships steps--that is all Leo talking! LOL.

The man, even though he has a sun in ACQ--that is about it as far as I am concerned--he's got all that 4th house emphassis--she shares the moon/pluto conjunction but that is intense scorpio...the moon there loves a bit of drama can be really obsessive/intuitive about pursuing relationships. Basically, he is a sensitive and watery/intense person. He probably fools people with that sunny acquarian vibe, but when they are not looking: BOOM! Moon/pluto/scoprio. LOL

However, if you were looking for a new kind of relationship, the chart shows it would be worthwhile, but if you are close to blocking the boy.....LOL.

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LoadedPistil
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posted June 01, 2014 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:

Just by looking at the individual placements, he doesn't seem to be your type--you are fast talking, fun and funny person who approaches romance with intensity--but who doesn't necessarily need intensity in your own emotional reactions or in communicating with men. The emphasis on him not following the courtships steps--that is all Leo talking! LOL.

The man, even though he has a sun in ACQ--that is about it as far as I am concerned--he's got all that 4th house emphassis--she shares the moon/pluto conjunction but that is intense scorpio...the moon there loves a bit of drama can be really obsessive/intuitive about pursuing relationships. Basically, he is a sensitive and watery/intense person. He probably fools people with that sunny acquarian vibe, but when they are not looking: BOOM! Moon/pluto/scoprio. LOL

However, if you were looking for a new kind of relationship, the chart shows it would be worthwhile, but if you are close to blocking the boy.....LOL.


But with this Sun/Mercury/Venus in Pisces, and it is NOT like that at ALL. He's very watery, but he's FUN!!


...and I'M moon scorpio!! His is in Libra! I think you mixed up our charts. I don't understand!!! *cries*

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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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I'm so cappy
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posted June 01, 2014 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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amelia28
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posted June 01, 2014 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check your draconic synastry which is derived from the Nodes...

Perhaps he is not drawing you in on a soul level. Your soul is not recognizing his and you don't feel he will lead to personal growth or that you two are destined to be or are psychically connected.

That is my guess. For better understanding of were I am coming from check this link, there is a great discussion on draconic synastry and its importance:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/215631.html

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posted June 01, 2014 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
LOL



Why are you laughing at meeeeeee?! *cries*
Mean-ass Capricorn!!

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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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Blind writer
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posted June 01, 2014 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First thing I notice is your VENUS makes no real connections to any personal planets or luminaries. It isn't there for you. Your SUN is much the same.

For him, he has a natal square between his VENUS and its ruler NEPTUNE, which lies in his 7H. He cannot control his VENUS very well, and can be prone to misconceptions when it comes to romance. His 7H is also in Sag, which can jump ahead without much thought, already ten steps too far forward.

This is in contrast to your 7H in Cap, and with its ruler SATURN in the 5H, you definitely have a grasp of the steps and stages to take in the wooing process.

Your MARS is aspected, explaining your attraction to begin with. It's good you have that SATURN influence, because Scorpio MARS-VX in 5H can be a dangerous mix. It keeps you from diving in too quickly. Scorpio tends to like the mystery and the chase, as well. That fact he's throwing himself at your feet is unappealing, too "easy".

You both have natal MOON-PLUTO, which is prone to obsessive behaviors and emotions.

In general, a Leo VENUS also doesn't pair well with a Pisces VENUS. Pisces VENUS is very sensitive and romantic and dreamy, prone to injury. Leo VENUS is much more about having fun and being straightforward.

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posted June 01, 2014 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Blind writer:
First thing I notice is your VENUS makes no real connections to any personal planets or luminaries. It isn't there for you. Your SUN is much the same.

For him, he has a natal square between his VENUS and its ruler NEPTUNE, which lies in his 7H. He cannot control his VENUS very well, and can be prone to misconceptions when it comes to romance. His 7H is also in Sag, which can jump ahead without much thought, already ten steps too far forward.

This is in contrast to your 7H in Cap, and with its ruler SATURN in the 5H, you definitely have a grasp of the steps and stages to take in the wooing process.

Your MARS is aspected, explaining your attraction to begin with. It's good you have that SATURN influence, because Scorpio MARS-VX in 5H can be a dangerous mix. It keeps you from diving in too quickly. Scorpio tends to like the mystery and the chase, as well. That fact he's throwing himself at your feet is unappealing, too "easy".

You both have natal MOON-PLUTO, which is prone to obsessive behaviors and emotions.

In general, a Leo VENUS also doesn't pair well with a Pisces VENUS. Pisces VENUS is very sensitive and romantic and dreamy, prone to injury. Leo VENUS is much more about having fun and being straightforward.


A LOT of that resonated. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!

Only thing I disagree with is that part of him falling to my feet. I've had that before. I don't need the chase if it's unnecessary. Because we were both Moon/Pluto, I thought it would be mutual, which would be AWESOME, but it's not.

When I first looked at the chart (before I started getting annoyed with him like a cat with a yarn that sticks to my paw) I told him we wouldn't know each other long. That's what I got from the chart. I'm the Venus person in the Venus/Uranus square. I told him he must've given me the wrong date and time.

This is the other guy and I didn't have any of these feelings. He also has Pluto sq Moon and EXACT!!

So when obsession was on, it was mutual. He's being a d*** right now, so I'm moving on.

...and I'm the wooer of the century
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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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lotus_flower
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posted June 01, 2014 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Yes, I did...LP LOL

I need to see individual charts by themselves....

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posted June 01, 2014 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:

Yes, I did...LP LOL

I need to see individual charts by themselves....



Thanks in advance.

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Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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