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posted June 07, 2014 05:30 AM            

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Hi,
Im posting these charts with the intention of getting to know how i could positively influence my son. My biggest fear is i would be a lousy mom... n i tend to over-think everything, which is against my impulsive nature.Whereas my husband is so great with my son. He is a natural : )
Would love your insights.
First chart is my husband and my son.

My son and me

Ps: pls ignore those love asteroids. I forgot to remove them from the list.

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posted June 07, 2014 01:42 PM            

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Pretty pretty please : )

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posted June 09, 2014 12:01 AM            

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Bump!

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posted June 09, 2014 08:09 AM            

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Hi, Geminigal

I'm not sure about what you want to know exactly. Both synastries are very good.

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posted June 09, 2014 08:46 AM            

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they both look good, as you and your husband share many of the same placements yourself. the one thing i saw that (maybe) could be a factor is that your son has his moon in the 12th house - this can sometimes inhibit the expression of feelings or make someone more prone to wanting to be alone/quiet than they normally would be. it is your husband's mercury that sits conjunct to your sons moon, so he may have an 'in' with communication because of that contact; your son could potentially see your husband as someone who 'gets' him so he gravitates that way. but don't worry - you have a nice chart w/him as well, and your venus touches his moon, which is great for warmth/understanding

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posted June 09, 2014 12:44 PM            

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Thank u LeeLeo and starmoon,
When i looked at these charts i thought they looked like good synastry( i also used to think my synastry chart with my husband to be good too). My husband's chiron conjuncts my son's asc. And my south node conjuncts his mars. Also his stellium in capricorn doesnt form any conjunction with out planets. So im a bit worried we could pull him down unintentionally.
One thing i wanted to ask is, my son is very very much intetested in music. Do u think musical training would benefit him? (Based on his chart).
Thank u for letting me know that the charts are good. Made me feel more confident.

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posted June 09, 2014 08:35 PM            

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if anything your son will pull you and the husband down - his placements are very serious in comparison to you/husband. his sun in sag. is an outgoing sign, but the taurus could dampen that a bit. even though there is no conjunction to his cap planets i don't think you'd have cause for concern. a mars in cap is probably the best placement for mars, aside from it's home of aries, it makes for someone who will be every determined, goal-oriented and a workaholic, so if anything support ambition and his desire to work and be serious, because with mercury there as well, he might end up more serious than 'fun', and actually enjoying that, and the mercury and mars are in the 9th, so he'll be a good student, most likely. there is going to be a focus on relationships too, since his venus falls in the 7th and it's his chart ruler too, and given the sag sun and 9th house placements you're probably looking at some interesting gf's. art, drawing, writing and music are great outlets for people with 12th house placements because sometimes they need a mode of expression that they cannot get out in other ways.

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posted June 12, 2014 12:17 AM            

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Oh for a young boy he is very working. N if he starts something he would finish it. Even if it takes him hours. His determination has no limit. N yes u r right. He started school n he loves to study and picks up everything quickly. Even though he is serious and very grounded little person he is very popular. He has charisma. Thats how ppl describe his charm. He doesnt pull us down. He is fun. N has a great sense of humour.N i should not forget to mention this. He is bossy. Does it show anywhere in his chart.He notices everything. Where things were kept,what should go where etc. N he makes me slog in the house lol. Thank u starmoon.

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posted June 12, 2014 12:21 AM            

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Just now i noticed my husband n son have a Sun-moon Dw. Wow! Im almost Jealous : )) Sun in my chart is unaspected by any planets from both their charts. Is this terribly bad? I really have nothing to complain of. Still does this mean anything bad?

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