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Liliya
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posted June 09, 2014 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 09, 2014 06:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

a good/not-so-good synastry is not evaluated based on this. it would be a good idea if you posted it the composite usually reflects the synastry. when you have most of the planets or stelliums conjunct, thus a focus on a small area of the chart or if you are more or less astro-twins (born very close to each other), a condensed composite is inevitable. apart from this type of situation, I'm not a fan of condensed composites, they sometimes show intense or very close/familiar relationships (that could be friendships or of other kind) that are not necessarily meant to last. but if you post your synastry/composite, we can see the dynamics between you two.

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posted June 09, 2014 08:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like how his Mars conjuncts your Sun/Venus midpoint. How do you feel that Mars in your 12th house, BTW?
I like:
Psyche/Cupid conjunct venus and ASC. Eros/vertex conjuncts MC. Did you meet him at work, school or at a social event?
You have the same interception and you activate it for each other on one side.

But I'm surprised that his Venus (apart from your Venus/ASC square) and his Moon are not very aspected. I think he feels very supported by you, his DSC and 8th house ruler, the Sun conjunct your IC and 5th house ruler, Pluto and Saturn and he is the apex of that Minor Triangle on his MC - do I see a bit of idealization? Or maybe he is your boss?
Probably your planets in his 7th and 8th help a lot too.

In the composite I like the rulers conjunct and well placed, Juno on IC, POF on ASC, Valentine on DSC.

How do you feel Sun/Moon square Neptune so exact? It should be a lot of idealization, a romantic's dream, living a fairy tale, a dreamy bubble for you two?

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posted June 11, 2014 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Liliya:
Someone on other forum told me it is good, as it makes us more compatible and familiar with each other. What do you think of it?

they were right. composite charts often end up concentrated in one area when there are natal stelliums or lots of partner conjunctions. it's not a bad thing. it aligns goals and interests and the partnership. your synastry and composite are both very nice, definitely partner/marriage material.

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Originally posted by starmoon:
they were right. composite charts often end up concentrated in one area when there are natal stelliums or lots of partner conjunctions. it's not a bad thing. it aligns goals and interests and the partnership. your synastry and composite are both very nice, definitely partner/marriage material.

I basically disagree with this. The reason some composites are concentrated is a mathematical/astronomical one and it does not show romantic compatibility/incompatibility (it is not revelatory).

Composites end up concentrated in some of the following cases:

- people are born in the same year, a few months apart
- people have the same Sun/or adjacent Sun and, as it happens, they will have some personal planets near the sun, maybe a stellium, and in the composite it all becomes a stellium.
- people have the same Sun/adjacent Sun and they both have stelliums.
- people are born in the same year when an outer stellium took place.
etc.

Therefore, in my opinion it is very important to check the synastry before deciding that a concentrated composite is a sign of closeness and/or durability or not.

Actually, a concentrated composite - in one or two houses only - is a very vulnerable configuration: a harsh transit impacts on everything and there is a "domino effect" - all planets can fall one by one in a relatively short time-so the relationship can succumb, since there are no balancing influences from other parts of the charts.

These relationships usually start on a whim, end on a whim, or start rapidly, end rapidly, like a full circle, no continuance.

Of course, it doesn't have to be like this in all cases, but there is this risk.

Many friendships have condensed composites because we're usually talking about people who were school/work colleagues, belonging to the same generation, and they have the config described above.

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posted June 11, 2014 01:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Liliya:
Thank you so much for your reply LeeLoo.

Yes, you are right, we used to work for the same company, and were introduced by a mutual friend. We hit it off right away, from first seconds of taking. I have never found anyone, with so many similarities in things we like and views on different subjects, it was so easy to talk and joke with him. We started dating after a month (Uranus).

Yes, he lacks Moon and Venus aspects with my personal planets (all too wide, having a tighter hisVenus/myMoon would be sweet), but it works.
He has a very afflicted Moon (it squares Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto, plus its in 6th house), yet he is very gentle and loving (his Moon is sextile my Mercury) Actually, he avoids very emotional people (ex, his sister Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon). What makes thing work too, is having Moon in 11th House DW (it's very easy to be in each others company, we are best friends), and me having Moon in 4th House (mirroring his Cancer Moon).

His Venus is not afflicted, but it doesn't aspect much in his Natal chart(bQ Moon and sextile Saturn). Again, it would be awesome, if our Venus/Moon conjunction wasn't sooo wide

His Mars in my 12th... hmmm, I don't know, if it's due to this placement, but it seems he digged out my most hidden thoughts. I'm very confident in expressing my feelings, opinions, and very open sexually. His Mars squares my Moon/Jupiter/Uranus (1,2,5 respectively), so you can guess, what that does, haha. I'm blessed with my Sag Moon, so whatever worries me 1 minute, I can brush off the next, like nothing happened

Sun/Moon square Neptune. Yes, I'm very aware of this aspect. Once that other astrologer on other forum has pointed it out, I'm trying to follow his suggestions, and try to talk to my fiancee when I have something, that bothers me. While this aspect makes us "in tune" with each other, and live in this dreamy perfect world with rainbows and unicorns, it's good to come back to Earth once in a while, haha (don't Angelina and Brad have the same aspect). This aspect worries me sometimes, but it's the only really negative aspect we have in Composite, so just gonna work on it!


Hi, Lilya, and thank you for this beautiful analysis. Both your charts look good, I wish you endless happy years together

Don't worry about the Neptune square, it reflects the Neptune contacts in your synastry and if you can keep the good communication going and you do some music or art or fairy tale moments together, you will be alright!

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posted June 11, 2014 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I basically disagree with this. The reason some composites are concentrated is a mathematical/astronomical one and it does not show romantic compatibility/incompatibility (it is not revelatory).

are you stating composites do not indicate marriage potential or compatibility? cuz that would be really bizarre and absolutely wrong.

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Originally posted by starmoon:
are you stating composites do not indicate marriage potential or compatibility? cuz that would be really bizarre and absolutely wrong.


No, starmoon What I meant to say is that not all condensed composites are a sign of compatibility, just because they are condensed - concentration in the composite is related to similar placements in the synastry (like sun conjunct sun, sun adjacent sun - and many people who are born near each other have condensed composites, without being close or romantically involved).

I also stated that a condensed composite is not necessarily an ideal composite, the explanation in my above post.

Of course the composites indicate marriage potential and compatibility - if that's the case, in connection with the synastry.

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posted June 12, 2014 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

No, starmoon What I meant to say is that not all condensed composites are a sign of compatibility, just because they are condensed - concentration in the composite is related to similar placements in the synastry (like sun conjunct sun, sun adjacent sun - and many people who are born near each other have condensed composites, without being close or romantically involved).

I also stated that a condensed composite is not necessarily an ideal composite, the explanation in my above post.

Of course the composites indicate marriage potential and compatibility - if that's the case, in connection with the synastry.


ok, yeah, now it makes better sense. i shouldn't read posts after work when i'm tired.

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