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Topic: Synastry with my ex..
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IV XXIV
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 18, 2014 07:49 PM
  
I'm wondering what you guys would guess happened during our relationship by looking at our synastry..Unfortunately, I don't remember his birth details so I'm just gonna have to post the chart of our basic synastry aspects  I'm on the left, he's on the right. Sun Square Mars 2.05 -174
Mercury Conjunction Venus 3.52 140
Venus Trine Mars 2.35 72
Venus Opposition Jupiter 1.36 -77
Jupiter Opposition Venus 2.40 -64
Jupiter Sextile Mars 0.24 79
Jupiter Conjunction Jupiter 1.22 115
Saturn Conjunction Saturn 0.59 103
Uranus Trine Sun 1.52 82
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 0.05 99
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.07 84
Neptune Trine Sun 0.51 86
Neptune Conjunction Uranus 0.56 85
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 0.05 88
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 0.27 76 IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Moderator Posts: 2866
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 19, 2014 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
Sun Square Mars 2.05
Mercury Conjunction Venus 3.52
Venus Trine Mars 2.35
Venus Opposition Jupiter 1.36
Jupiter Opposition Venus 2.40
Jupiter Sextile Mars 0.24
Uranus Trine Sun 1.52
Neptune Trine Sun 0.51
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IV XXIV
Knowflake Posts: 274
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 20, 2014 02:02 PM
We were anything but thumbs-up worthy lolIP: Logged |
page one
Knowflake Posts: 367
From: USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 20, 2014 02:16 PM
Sun square Mars?IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3905
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 20, 2014 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by page one:
Sun square Mars?
I would have to agree. That's bad. That's destruction. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
Knowflake Posts: 274
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 20, 2014 04:33 PM
Edit: I actually just took a look at my natal and realized I have Sun (in Taurus in 12th) square Mars (in Cancer in 4th).Our relationship was short-lived, yet very destructive on both ends. I was very verbally abusive and said very spiteful things to him, although that isn't like me at all. I always said he and I brought out the worst sides of each other. Eventually, after numerous arguments a day, every single day, we decided to mutually split. About a month later, we saw each other again, and tried to re-spark things.. Until he admitted to cheating on me, which was the last straw. I've never spoken to him again. I do not blame everything on him, and I understand that the way I acted (very childish, I couldn't handle the truth, anytime he would say anything that hurt me in the slightest bit I retaliated with spite, I was vindictive, etc) was also a large factor in the end to our relationship. My question is; would me having Sun sq Mars natally, and in synastry with him, have aided to darker sides to me that I'd never seen before (and have never seen again) coming out? IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 21, 2014 08:20 AM
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My question is; would me having Sun sq Mars natally, and in synastry with him, have aided to darker sides to me that I'd never seen before (and have never seen again) coming out?
My understanding is, whenever a natal aspect is repeated in synastry, through that relationship you get in touch with the aspect. It's one of my Key-to-Lock aspects. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 3381
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 21, 2014 08:39 AM
If you want to know more about this synastry, you can post the chart. It is difficult to evaluate a list of aspects. House overlays and natal aspects reflected in the synastry, as it was with Sun square Mars, are crucial and not apparent from the list.It would be interesting to see the composite as well. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
Knowflake Posts: 274
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 21, 2014 12:07 PM
I wish I could post the synastry and composite but I don't know his birth information IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4437
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 22, 2014 01:30 PM
The first thing I noticed are no aspects between Saturn and Major planets to give the relationship structure and stability. You guys have a lot of Jupiter though, which makes it hard to take each other seriously. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 3381
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 22, 2014 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
I wish I could post the synastry and composite but I don't know his birth information
What do you mean? You know his date/place of birth, even without his ASC, you can set TOB at 12 pm and post the charts without knowing his ASC. How do you know the aspects without his birth details?  IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
Knowflake Posts: 274
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 22, 2014 03:13 PM
I don't know his place of birth, I just put in our birth dates. IP: Logged |
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