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Gemini Blues
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posted June 20, 2014 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm still new to synastry interpretation, but I think I see a lot going on here. Anyone interested in helping me with this, it would be appreciated.

The outer charts time of birth isn't exact but there is some confidence that at least the sign of the ascendant and the house of the sun are correct (though sun in 7th is a secondary possibility)

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 20, 2014 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're about a month apart, yes?

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 20, 2014 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just over 5 weeks, yes. I'm the inner, she the outer.

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 20, 2014 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really could use your thoughts on this... um, sooner is better than later...

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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 20, 2014 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you in a relationship? A little background would help.

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 20, 2014 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We've just met this week. Things are moving *really* fast. Too fast? For real or not? Her Mars and Venus conjunct my sun really seem to be pressing her buttons is my novice read, and maybe the Cupid/Venus/double NN conjunct trine Double Saturn... There is a feeling of, well... Though we're not (yet)... feeling like we're former lovers touching for the first time if that makes sense...

I'm here, its complex. Harder to sort out when your in the middle. I need a second set of unbiased eyes.

Edit: The other things I see... She doesn't complete any larger formations that I can see but she has outer planets that sit on my two T squares and Grand water trine (Venus-Saturn-Asc). Her moon conj my POF and widely trine my moon/opposition my sun. If by blind luck I got the TOB right, the axis conjunct. My sun and the whole lot in her 5th. I know these mean things but not sure which mean what...

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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 20, 2014 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, and she's also on your interception, a big pull for you. There's also that NN cluster, with your Venus on her NN, another big pull. You have some nice DW, you should go for it Too bad we don't know her houses, to tell what is your impact on her.

Your Moon on her Mercury/Eros mdp, her Sun surrounds your MC, your MC your Moon her Sun mdp.

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posted June 20, 2014 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From the very top of my head: Wow, this is getting serious. You guys have some very binding aspects like angles conjunctions plus a lot of affection (sun/venus conjunction).

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 20, 2014 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There have been a lot of words in the vein of "meant to be" spoken. In between a lot of words I can't repeat here... Attraction isn't an issue. But shaking up and rebuilding lives may be. She (the cardinal) seems quite ready to damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead. I'm being pulled in the wake and trying to decide if that's what I want.

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posted June 20, 2014 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could it be that she is not your type?
I've a hard time seeing how she fulfills your expectations

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posted June 20, 2014 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Enneline:
Could it be that she is not your type?
I've a hard time seeing how she fulfills your expectations

Hmmm... Its a fair enough question... Body type is pretty darn good if not ideal... Emotionally very compatible... Intellectually might be an issue, but I need more time to say.

In part, its the speed this is happening at. The Gemini brain wants time to sort I think.

Edit: if I think about the charts and not her for a moment...

Me/Her
Venus in Can/Sun in Can
Venus in 9th/Moon in Sag
Moon in Leo/? Trine moon in Sag (loosely)
Moon in 10th/? Never mind, Capricorns have already caused me enough heartburn

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 22, 2014 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for all the input so far. Any more comments before I take the chart down?

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KarkaQueen
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posted June 22, 2014 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from her placements is she a brick house?

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 22, 2014 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, making allowances for both of us dealing with our 50th birthdays and not terribly athletic... We are both clearly overweight.

She does have curves in All The Right Places . Long blonde hair, blue eyes, thick lips big... um... nurturing heart... lol!

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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 22, 2014 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Well, making allowances for both of us dealing with our 50th birthdays and not terribly athletic... We are both clearly overweight.

She does have curves in All The Right Places . Long blonde hair, blue eyes, thick lips big... um... nurturing heart... lol!


lol...so why are you wasting the time studying the charts anymore?

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 22, 2014 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll share something which may be of use here.

There's a little girl, about four, who, within five minutes of meeting me, became not only obsessive, but possessive. She would grab my hand, hang on for dear life, and -- if I wasn't paying enough attention to her -- would bite my hand!

Did I mention we were at a movie premiere? She's my stepdaughter's boxing coach's daughter. She's precious. Incredibly smart. But the impression I made on her was just astounding to everyone. She's never like that!

I noticed both VENUS and MARS in 19º LIBRA -- smack on my SUN. 0º.

That'll do it! It's a very physical, affectionate energy. For her, it came out as MUST HAVE PHYSICAL LINK (holding my hand) and being very affectionate, wanting to be close.

But if I wasn't giving her what she wanted -- she'd react possessively -- and physically, too!

VENUS/MARS=SUN. Classic.

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Gemini Blues
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posted June 22, 2014 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I'll share something which may be of use here.

There's a little girl, about four, who, within five minutes of meeting me, became not only obsessive, but possessive. She would grab my hand, hang on for dear life, and -- if I wasn't paying enough attention to her -- would bite my hand!

Did I mention we were at a movie premiere? She's my stepdaughter's boxing coach's daughter. She's precious. Incredibly smart. But the impression I made on her was just astounding to everyone. She's never like that!

I noticed both VENUS and MARS in 19º LIBRA -- smack on my SUN. 0º.

That'll do it! It's a very physical, affectionate energy. For her, it came out as MUST HAVE PHYSICAL LINK (holding my hand) and being very affectionate, wanting to be close.

But if I wasn't giving her what she wanted -- she'd react possessively -- and physically, too!

VENUS/MARS=SUN. Classic.


Yes. I think I'm seeing that. Translate the behavior from a 4 year old to what would be appropriate for 49 year old, and that's it exactly.

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