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Topic: One sided (Synastry)
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Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 03:23 PM
  
Overall I share some pretty "ideal" aspects with my male Cancer friend, but I'm still curious if the relationship could be unrequited. My planets don't connect to his Moon (4H ruler) or Venus (7H ruler). Are there other placements/aspects in our Synastry that make the connection more mutual?I'm blue, He's red (both birth times are correct)
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 23, 2014 03:33 PM
Can I see it with normal orbs, not 45%? You've excluded some important aspects, part of DW.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 23, 2014 03:36 PM
Ok, but I've read that 45% shows the aspects that are around a 3deg orb. Anything higher would have little to no influence right?IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 23, 2014 03:37 PM
No, not right, IMO  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted June 23, 2014 03:41 PM
Some very close aspects with personal planets ensure attraction and getting together. Then the wider aspects with personal planets come into play. This is the second or the third wave of the relationship. More waves, longer relationships.Plus if you have a close aspect, like Venus sextile Mars under 3, and a wider aspect like Venus trine Mars above 3, you have a DW, and the wider aspect is valid. We need all kinds of aspects, close and wide. This is my view, others have other views, of course. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 23, 2014 03:43 PM
Ok normal orbs it is
Edit: Ah, I see what you mean-- IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 23, 2014 03:46 PM
It looks different, doesn't it?
We can even see the Yod now pampam...things change...what is the orb for the Moons?There is also an obvious trine between his Venus and your Sun...what is the orb? IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 03:55 PM
Interesting, yes very much so
his Moon is 4.21 and mine is 7.56 (3-4d sextile)
My Sun 23.3 and his Venus 28.58 (5-6d trine)
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 23, 2014 04:03 PM
Well, these are very valid aspects to me, especially with luminaries, Venus, Mars...can't exclude something like that...that's why your synastry looked so unaspected...in fact' it's not bad at all.What I usually work with is a synastry with the normal automatic orbs in astro.com and without the option "aspect lines to all". Sometimes they don't show sextiles, I don't know why, but this way, even wider aspects are included and we can exclude the ones that are really too wide (like some generational ones) and keep the valid ones. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted June 23, 2014 04:13 PM
Thanks  I'm always open to suggestions. I've studied astrology for a while but Synastry is still a bit of a head scratcher. So in your opinion, this would be the correct chart to work with?  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 04:15 PM
Yes, I think so...look at that pattern completion with the Kite!
I'll take a closer look...
there is also a very nice Castle pointing to your stellium integrated with his Pluto, on the mdp. I think.
Just a first glance.
No, the apex is his Pluto, but his Pluto is dragging your stellium into the Castle...inviting you on the roof
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 3078
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
No, not right, IMO
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5084
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 04:26 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Yes, I think so...look at that pattern completion with the Kite!
I'll take a closer look...
there is also a very nice Castle pointing to your stellium integrated with his Pluto, on the mdp. I think.
Just a first glance.
No, the apex is his Pluto, but his Pluto is dragging your stellium into the Castle...inviting you on the roof
Sounds good!
So I'm guessing if I asked him to take our friendship to the next level he'll more likely than not give the relationship a try(?)
Either way, this makes me feel more comfortable at least taking a risk ^^ IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
ditto
Thanks sis...sorry for what happened to your nice thread lol IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16636
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 04:31 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Sounds good!
So I'm guessing if I asked him to take our friendship to the next level he'll more likely than not give the relationship a try(?)
Either way, this makes me feel more comfortable at least taking a risk ^^
I'm writing a little analysis now...it's not a bad synastry...I can see the friendship with Jupiter on IC and Sun/Venus DW...Sun/Venus to me is unconditional love, not necessarily erotic in nature. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 3078
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Thanks sis...sorry for what happened to your nice thread lol
hahaha..you saw that? I missed you on the general astro forum today so i decided to check in the synastry forum, where LoLo is working like a bee, trying selflessly to help the love struck population.
You really give yourself away, snuckums, and never ask for anything in return. awww. Sister LovelyLo. 
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5084
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 04:43 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm writing a little analysis now...it's not a bad synastry...I can see the friendship with Jupiter on IC and Sun/Venus DW...Sun/Venus to me is unconditional love, not necessarily erotic in nature.
Well my 8H ruler(s) conjuncts his 8H (if I'm not mistaken) maybe that helps some in the erotic department. Also his Adonis conjuncts my Scorpio stellium. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16636
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 04:50 PM
Your stellium doesn't want to jump on the roof..it's a bit too far away from his Pluto. In fact, your stellium is the most isolated part in this synastry hm.But you do have Sun sesquisquare Sun, Moon/Moon sextile, Sun/trine Moon. Venus sextile Venus. Sun POF and Jupiter/Mercury/POF on IC are very nice and friendly. You have Mars/Venus DW with a wider trine (probl 7 or 8), Sun/Jupiter DW, Venus/Saturn DW, Moon/Saturn DW All these DW tell a lot about the nature of the relationship, so far these are more like friendship aspects in this context. Your Sun squares his nodal axis, his Saturn and stellium conjuncts yours. A lot of Saturn which is very binding. His Sun on your SN too, a very powerful contact.
Your Venus is overstimulated with the square to his stellium and sits on his Vertex/Sun/Stellium cross.
His Vertex axis and your nodal axis cross. Nodes to angles too.
Very fated relationship, an important one.
Nice pattern completion with your Moon making his Kite and the Castle. Your Moon is also well stimulated.
His Sun is there too, in your secondary 5th and his personals fall in your 5th. You also trigger his love houses, especially his 7th and 8th. He should be attracted to you too. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16636
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 04:54 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Orange:
hahaha..you saw that? I missed you on the general astro forum today so i decided to check in the synastry forum, where LoLo is working like a bee, trying selflessly to help the love struck population.
You really give yourself away, snuckums, and never ask for anything in return. awww. Sister LovelyLo.
lol thanks, sweetie IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5084
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Your stellium doesn't want to jump on the roof..it's a bit too far away from his Pluto. In fact, your stellium is the most isolated part in this synastry hm.But you do have Sun sesquisquare Sun, Moon/Moon sextile, Sun/trine Moon. Venus sextile Venus. Sun POF and Jupiter/Mercury/POF on IC are very nice and friendly. You have Mars/Venus DW with a wider trine (probl 7 or 8), Sun/Jupiter DW, Venus/Saturn DW, Moon/Saturn DW All these DW tell a lot about the nature of the relationship, so far these are more like friendship aspects in this context. Your Sun squares his nodal axis, his Saturn and stellium conjuncts yours. A lot of Saturn which is very binding. His Sun on your SN too, a very powerful contact.
Your Venus is overstimulated with the square to his stellium and sits on his Vertex/Sun/Stellium cross.
His Vertex axis and your nodal axis cross. Nodes to angles too.
Very fated relationship, an important one.
Nice pattern completion with your Moon making his Kite and the Castle. Your Moon is also well stimulated.
His Sun is there too, in your secondary 5th and his personals fall in your 5th. You also trigger his love houses, especially his 7th and 8th. He should be attracted to you too.
Oh wow, Thank you for taking the time to look at our chart LeeLoo! Very helpful  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16636
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 05:08 PM
You're welcome! However, he has a Leo Mars and Aries ASC...let him chase you! I'm sure he prefers that IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5084
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 23, 2014 05:16 PM
Ah, great advice ^^ will do!IP: Logged |
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