posted July 09, 2014 12:35 PM            

I can give a recent one: the woman's Mars was involved, yet the man's Mars had no major aspects to anything important. She wanted him passionately. He felt that she was like a friend to him.

Another interesting case a friend told me about, though I can't guarantee the birth dates were correct:
Her Mars sextile his Sun
Her Mars sextile his Venus
Her Mars sextile his Moon
His Mars square her Venus

There are supposed to be sparks, right? The famous M-V square. Yet it was like she was crazy for him and he didn't find her attractive at all. That square was his Mars' only aspect to her anything.

I wonder what about the other way around. If a woman's Mars has no aspects to anything in synastry, would that mean a lack of passion even if there is love?

posted July 09, 2014 01:45 PM            

Her Mars conjunct <1° my Venus conj NN (and therefore trine my Saturn and Asc)
Her Pluto square my Sun
Her Pluto trine my Mars
Her nodes square my Mercury conj Vertex
Her Chiron trine my Moon

posted July 09, 2014 02:00 PM            

My Natal Pluto conjuncts my Moon 3° and that Moon squares my tight Sun-Venus conjunction by 0°, so Pluto squares them tightly too. So, EVERY guy in school had his Pluto there, too. The guys who were a few years older than me, like when I was a Freshman and they were Seniors, they were the hardest hit.
They all had my Moon exactly on their Pluto, and my Sun and Venus exactly squared their Pluto. Their Pluto also trined my Desc. 0°, and sextiled my Mars-Asc. 0°.

Their Plutos would just want to OWN me. It got scary for awhile. I had some real, genuine stalkers.
It caused me lots of heartbreak, too, because there were some that were really dear friends I loved like brothers, but they would break off our friendship because they said they felt too strongly for me. I wasn't some blinding supermodel beauty, either. I mean, I've always been told I'm pretty, but not to the degree that would justify their obsession. It was 100% Pluto in action. Teenage boys can't really handle a powerful Pluto overload, so it got bad.

One time in particular was when I was dating my first serious boyfriend. We were both 16, and he had an 18 year old brother. His brother fell hard for me, but I only liked him as a close friend. I was really crazy about my boyfriend, and his brother just had no chance. He started conspiring to break us up because he thought he'd have a chance with me. It didn't work, and when he found out that my boyfriend and I had slept together, and that I'd given him my virginity, he absolutely lost it! He threw my boyfriend off the 2nd floor balcony in his bedroom! He broke his leg and had to be on crutches for weeks and miss several football games (he was the Running Back). His big brother even proposed to me and told me he wanted me to have his children and that he'd already picked out the names of our first son!!! I was like... What?! I can't marry you! We're only friends, I love your brother, and I'm only 16 years old!

It was insane having all those boys Plutos conj. my Moon, squaring my Sun-Venus. I even had 2 attempt to rape me at knifepoint. Thank God they got scared away. To this day I get chills thinking how close that came to being so, so much worse.

I was so relieved when my school days were over, and most of the boys my age dispersed. Now, guys I know are a more even mix of different age groups, so it's not so much of a problem anymore.

It's funny, now, though, because I've noticed a new trend developing.
My Sun is @ 27 Gem- Venus @ 26 Gem. So, lately I've been getting hit on like crazy by guys born around 1982, '83, '84. It started happening so much that I thought, "What is going on with this specific age cluster?!" It's like I have special pheromones just for them!

I checked the charts and they've all got:
-Their Pluto in late Libra exactly trine my Sun-Venus,
-Their Pluto in late Libra exactly square my Mars-Asc. in late Cancer. (They come on to me very strongly)
-Their Neptune exactly opposite my Sun-Venus,
-Their Chirons making a grand trine with my Moon and Desc.
-Their NN in late Gemini exactly conj. my Sun-Venus, and squaring my Moon-Pluto. Some of them have acted like they were destined to be with me. It's surreal.

Keep in mind, I was born in 1972, so I'm 42 now. These guys are only 30-32 or so, some in their late 20's. I work out and take care of myself so I really don't look my age at all. Cancer Rising with Sun-Venus in Gemini help that I think. No one ever, ever believes my age. So, it's not really that strange that guys 10-15 years younger would hit on me, it's just funny that it happens in this clustered way because of the planet placements in their charts.

So, whenever any strong one-sided things show up, especially if it happens a lot, it's probably caused by a generational age group cluster with their outer planets hitting the sweet spot to line up with your personal planets.

posted July 09, 2014 03:44 PM            

I didn't know that MOON conjunct PLUTO could create that much of a stir. They must've had very active PLUTO placements.

posted July 09, 2014 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Not in '84. That's in 02º to 04º SCO. However, in '83 -- yes. Specifically, around February to August, you'll get 27º-28º LIB.

I didn't know that MOON conjunct PLUTO could create that much of a stir. They must've had very active PLUTO placements.

For me, it's LILITH. I've got it on my MOON-EROS MP in SCO. Drawing attention is like a switch. I can either make myself invisible, or centre-stage. Maybe that's my SUN-PLUTO/BML.

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Actually, a few of the guys were born in summer '84. I remember one born in July and one in Aug '84. I, too, thought the same thing you mentioned, that their Plutos should have been in Scorpio, but Pluto had retrograded back to 29° Libra for them. Actually, with the early '80s birthday guys, I don't think it's their Pluto trine my Sun and Venus that's the main catalyst for them. I think it's my Sun and Venus so tightly opposite their Neptunes and exactly conjunct their NN. I really have felt bad for a few of them that seemed like such great guys. I'm not a Cougar, though, so even if I were single, I just couldn't see myself dating a guy 10 or 12 years younger than me.
It would feel weird to me. I think 5 years younger is as low as I could go.

My Husband gets no end of amusement out of all the younger attention I'm getting, though. He keeps teasing me and telling me, "Go ahead and come out. You know you're a closet Cougar." There's this one younger guy in particular who works at the Barnes and Nobles I go to who looks like Tom Brady. My Husband knows Tom Brady is IT as far as I'm concerned, so anytime I go to Barnes and Nobles he teases me and says, "Oh yeah! Go get you some of that fresh meat." He really is incorrigible.

As far as the guys way back, I don't think it would've been such an issue with the guys at school if it had only been Moon-Pluto. I think it was the combination of their Plutos having an exact conjunction with my Moon, an exact square with my Venus, an exact square with my Sun, an exact sextile with my Mars-Asc. and an exact trine to my Desc. I think that just created a lot of Pluto energy for a guy to handle at that young of an age. Just Pluto square Venus 0° alone is tough to handle, let alone adding all the rest.

It really hurt when it was close guy friends. One close friend in particular I still miss to this day. I miss that bond with him. We would talk for hours on end, hang out, goof off together. He felt like a super close brother. Then, I started noticing a shift in his demeanor toward me, and things got steadily more and more tense. Then, one day he tried to lean in for a kiss, and I just couldn't do it. I just didn't feel that way about him. I hugged him and told him I'd always love him, but I couldn't love him in the way he wanted and needed. He steadily distanced himself from me until we drifted apart, and I cried many years over losing one of my best friends. He looked me up years later, and it was like no time had passed at all. We talked for 8 solid hours straight just catching up and laughing. The Pluto spell had worn off by then, and there was no weird tension. We laughed about it all, but of course, we know we'll never have that close of a relationship again, but we're ok. Time takes care of a lot of things. : )

I know what you mean about the BMLilith. My BML is in Scorpio, too. It forms a 0° grand trine with my Mercury and Eros. It's got it's pros and cons.