posted July 10, 2014 05:58 PM            

When I started looking at those 11th/5th house axis in my chart I see how my 11th house is intercepted in taurus, but the early gemini people actually put their personal planets in my 11th AND if they are late gemini/early cancer they will also fulfill my t-square which would then square my mars and moon and opposite my uranus(which is also my 8th house ruler). So actually gemini is pretty hot stuff for me?

And those early cancer people fulfill my T-square, and if they got anything taurus/gemini or aries it's also gonna hit my 11th house…

So actually everything from late aries until early cancer is really interesting to me… but also late pisces and early aries, because they hit my MC which is my secondary 7th house, cause my ruler of DC is capricorn.

So many options all of a sudden, and everything makes sense!

BUT --- Why is it I attract so many libra people and love libra people myself?
The only reason I see is that my 5th house is in libra, and my venus is also in 5th house… My juno is also in libra, which makes me attracted to the typically libra person. I find them charming, romantic and easy-going which fulfills me on some other level than my 11th house…

I do feel loved by them, but don't I miss the 11th house thing? They touch my 5th house and I love THEM, but do they love ME in return without touching my 11th?
Or did I misunderstood something?

And here is my chart once again:

EDIT: I find it ever so interesting that when I think about my short flings/relationships with taurus/aries people that touch my T-square or 11th house, it was ALL abusive relationships! They all ended badly with me getting hurt or them, and I haven't actually got anything good from those relationships… but the other way around, I found that many of those taurus/aries people I was together with had something important in libra, either their moon or ascendant.

I only got ONE friend that touch my 11th house with her taurus moon, and she is my closest friend but our friendship also had some very hard times, and it was also very abusive at some point.

posted July 11, 2014 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
BUT --- Why is it I attract so many libra people and love libra people myself?
The only reason I see is that my 5th house is in libra, and my venus is also in 5th house… My juno is also in libra, which makes me attracted to the typically libra person. I find them charming, romantic and easy-going which fulfills me on some other level than my 11th house…

I do feel loved by them, but don't I miss the 11th house thing? They touch my 5th house and I love THEM, but do they love ME in return without touching my 11th?
Or did I misunderstood something?

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Libra the 5th means you're inclined to fall in love with that energy in others. While Aries on the 11th means you're inclined to experience loving attention from them. This is on a symbolic level and refers to a general energy pattern in your life. However, when it comes to real relationships it's not as simple as all that... Unless you meet someone whose entire chart falls into one of these houses. And that pretty much never happens.

In individual synastry the connections between people are complex. A guy you like may have his Sun in Libra in your 5th house, but there's still every opportunity for him to influence your 11th house with the rest of his chart. A Libra Sun guy could still put other planets in his chart in your rather large 11th house. Or he could aspect your Virgo Mars which rules your 11th house. A conjunction, trine or sextile to your 11th house ruler can feel very supportive in synastry. Oppositions to your 11th house ruler make you feel as if the other person sits up and really takes notice of you. Squares to your 11th house mean there will be an intensity to the way they express themselves towards you.

House ruler synastry is very illuminating. If you want to see how you will experience appreciation from a particular person look at how they aspect the ruler of your 11th house. Attraction involves way more then house overlays (planets in houses). Libra's often have planets in Virgo and Scorpio in their chart. A Virgo planet could conjunct your Mars/11th house ruler. A Scorpio planet could sextile your Mars/11th house ruler.