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HappyLoewe
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posted July 17, 2014 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyLoewe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sweet-scorpion
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posted July 17, 2014 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I looked at the composite and here's what I found:

1. 8H Moon in Aquarius: In general, this relationship is going to be filled with intensities and emotional roller coasters that either of you may be uncomfortable dealing with. Aquarius Moon can be a good talker/listener and interested in human issues, but when it comes to digging deep, this Moon is square Scorpio for a reason...the fact that your comp. Aqua Moon is in the 8th and square Pluto exactly points to control and trust issues. One partner wants to dig deep and explore the other's emotional depths, while another is resistant. There will be friction with this placement.

2. Mars in Cancer in H1: You two, or at least one of you functions on a high level of emotionality, and many of the actions and decisions you make as a couple will be based on strong emotional impulses vs. logic. You may come across as a dramatic, impulsive and emotional pair to the outside world. However there is a lack of self-control when it comes to you two expressing your feelings to each other: Mars is quincunx Saturn conjunct Mercury. I get the sense that one partner is highly emotional in speech/action and this is much to the chagrin and disappointment of the other. One is more expressive and wants to be more expressive as a couple, while the other dislikes PDA or sudden emotional displays of affection.

3. So many of your planets fall into the 6th: Venus, Mercury, Saturn, Uranus. Uranus is directly conjunct your DSC line from the 6H side. Did you two meet at work? This is a relationship based on routine. There might be friction with this/a paradox to face that is challenging because the 6H is so routine, and all your planets here fall in the explorative sign Sagittarius. The very fact that you have such an emphasized 6H composite means that you two may struggle to define whether your relationship works, is practical or not...you'll find you face a lot of challenges with day-to-day issues and it may eventually feel like too much work. Since Saturn is here also, one person may feel heavily responsible for the other and soon the relationship feels like an obligation vs. something to be enjoyed.

4. 12H Sun is never easy either. This is a challenge to the merged identities of the two people in a composite. One person might really favor a 'lay low' kind of relationship. I saw this with Mars quincunx Saturn also. I just get a real sense that there is an imbalance of two personalities here. It definitely is reinforced with a 12H Sun. It reminds me of one person giving 150% while the other is giving 30%. And that isn't good!

5. Neptune in the 7th is also very difficult for boundary issues, deception, and a lack of realistic expectations in a relationship, especially one that is romantic. Looking at your DSC ruler, Jupiter - it's trine Saturn, Uranus, and sextile the Sun. The trines will play out more strongly. You'll find that this relationship has heavy 'responsibility' themes [also emphasized by 6H focus] and began on a strange or unclear note.

VERDICT: It seems like a rocky union full of challenges. Is this romantic in nature? If so, it doesn't look extremely hopeful. The only saving graces you have are an 11H Jupiter which means you two could put on happy faces in groups and party settings but it's not really that real. I want to be honest with you since I get the sense you're on the fence or unsure yourself. It would be good for you to examine this with pragmatism and a long-term focus. Good luck!

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posted July 17, 2014 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the compliments on my reading! Some last thoughts:

It may be confusing to you, but he is not used to the need to open up and 'get real', this intense desire. You bring it out in him and he WANTS to but feels he cannot. Pluto squaring the Moon there may be your urging for him to open up but he just can't. It may very well just be his own subconscious issues. Pluto is all about the subconscious mind. He probably had a controlling mother or family or some kind of childhood damage that led to keeping his deeper emotions on lockdown. Don't feel bad.

I definitely sensed you were the more emotional, open partner. Again, more suspicion that he had some trauma/psychological torment that caused a lockdown on his feelings. I can sense your Mars in Cancer in this composite. I am a natal Cancer Mars and I detest when someone is overly somber and hangs back. The Mars-Saturn quincunx between you two will thus create issues. You may even start feeling insecure or 'bad' about how you naturally are, like you have to change yourself for him, suppress your warmth...NOT good!

I definitely see him wanting the methodical, practical route with your relationship. He is not someone who is interested in new, innovative ideas but more a 'tried and true' approach due to how he aligns with Mercury con. Saturn. This will frustrate you because Mars in Cancer is so feeling and wants to explore emotions. Eventually, there'd be too many differences to reconcile in your approach, as you mentioned. I didn't see any kind of emotional bonding or sexual bonding in the chart, either.

I am very glad that you found this accurate and that you are going to take the probably best, most appropriate route for your situation. Sometimes, it's better to avoid a relationship vs. trying to change someone for the better so you can have romance. I know it may be tempting, but it's good you're deciding on remaining friends and leaving it at that. Glad I could help.

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posted July 17, 2014 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Not sure about this one. Syn/Comp/Davison attached. Any thoughts/opinions gratefully received. Thanks HL

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Yesterday the midpoint and davidson composite you showed me were almost the same, you must have mistakenly showed me the davidson twice with a slight time change and I even remember noticing that they look too similar and thought it could be a mistake, I see the links were deleted for all the charts you showed me yesterday: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000476.html

The composite midpoint I am seeing on this thread you started today is actually very nice! You have a huge stellium in the 7th intercepted opposing chiron, a kite and a butterfly.

This in combo with the love yod in midpoint and the hammer's thor in davidson its powerful stuff.

But I am confused as to why yesterday I did not see this chart?

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HappyLoewe
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posted July 17, 2014 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyLoewe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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amelia28
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posted July 17, 2014 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok thanks for clarifying...

there is a chart in your account involving a 7th house stellium composite that I thought you were asking about in this thread but is unrelated to either guys...

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