posted July 17, 2014 05:06 PM
I looked at the composite and here's what I found:1. 8H Moon in Aquarius: In general, this relationship is going to be filled with intensities and emotional roller coasters that either of you may be uncomfortable dealing with. Aquarius Moon can be a good talker/listener and interested in human issues, but when it comes to digging deep, this Moon is square Scorpio for a reason...the fact that your comp. Aqua Moon is in the 8th and square Pluto exactly points to control and trust issues. One partner wants to dig deep and explore the other's emotional depths, while another is resistant. There will be friction with this placement.
2. Mars in Cancer in H1: You two, or at least one of you functions on a high level of emotionality, and many of the actions and decisions you make as a couple will be based on strong emotional impulses vs. logic. You may come across as a dramatic, impulsive and emotional pair to the outside world. However there is a lack of self-control when it comes to you two expressing your feelings to each other: Mars is quincunx Saturn conjunct Mercury. I get the sense that one partner is highly emotional in speech/action and this is much to the chagrin and disappointment of the other. One is more expressive and wants to be more expressive as a couple, while the other dislikes PDA or sudden emotional displays of affection.
3. So many of your planets fall into the 6th: Venus, Mercury, Saturn, Uranus. Uranus is directly conjunct your DSC line from the 6H side. Did you two meet at work? This is a relationship based on routine. There might be friction with this/a paradox to face that is challenging because the 6H is so routine, and all your planets here fall in the explorative sign Sagittarius. The very fact that you have such an emphasized 6H composite means that you two may struggle to define whether your relationship works, is practical or not...you'll find you face a lot of challenges with day-to-day issues and it may eventually feel like too much work. Since Saturn is here also, one person may feel heavily responsible for the other and soon the relationship feels like an obligation vs. something to be enjoyed.
4. 12H Sun is never easy either. This is a challenge to the merged identities of the two people in a composite. One person might really favor a 'lay low' kind of relationship. I saw this with Mars quincunx Saturn also. I just get a real sense that there is an imbalance of two personalities here. It definitely is reinforced with a 12H Sun. It reminds me of one person giving 150% while the other is giving 30%. And that isn't good!
5. Neptune in the 7th is also very difficult for boundary issues, deception, and a lack of realistic expectations in a relationship, especially one that is romantic. Looking at your DSC ruler, Jupiter - it's trine Saturn, Uranus, and sextile the Sun. The trines will play out more strongly. You'll find that this relationship has heavy 'responsibility' themes [also emphasized by 6H focus] and began on a strange or unclear note.
VERDICT: It seems like a rocky union full of challenges. Is this romantic in nature? If so, it doesn't look extremely hopeful. The only saving graces you have are an 11H Jupiter which means you two could put on happy faces in groups and party settings but it's not really that real. I want to be honest with you since I get the sense you're on the fence or unsure yourself. It would be good for you to examine this with pragmatism and a long-term focus. Good luck!