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babybull82
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posted August 05, 2014 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Libra male friend who I've known for over 10yrs now. We've always kept in touch in the sense that we've been in the background of each other lives. Basically just watching each other thru myspace,fb and the like. Anyway, sometime in late June I posted a silly fb quiz about horoscopes and it said my match is a Libra..I almost said something negative, but didn't. He commented, said Libra's are the best and stated he got Taurus as his "match" lol About a week later, I got curious and sent him a fb message asking for birth details. The most awesome thing happened: He knew why I wanted them! Anyway long story short, we talked non-stop for about 3 wks. But then at some point I wrote him but he didn't reply and I figured the "convo" was done. So I left it alone. It's odd because usually I'd obsess about things like this and would have tried to reach out to him, but this time I left him and it alone. I felt peaceful about it and figured if he wanted to talk he'd hit me up again and he did..yesterday. He said sometimes he just likes to fall off of the radar and now looking back I noticed he hadn't posted on his fb since we last talked. Anyway I'd like for someone more experienced than I in reading synastry charts help me understand if our purpose for becoming close at this point in our friendship has been served or is there more here that can be explored? Believe it or I think we worked thru (or I) worked thru whatever pain I was supposed to have. (his Chiron conjuncts my sun at a little over 3 degrees) I tell you that day, I felt so emotionally drained. But I have now moved past what I needed to deal with. At first I figured that the purpose was served and we were done. But him sending me a message again has re-sparked my interest. We have both acknowledged that we have some interesting aspects together. But I think we're both afraid to explore what a romance would be like...well I am anyway. What do you guys think?

He's on the outside, I'm the inside.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 06, 2014 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, babybull

This looks like a friendship synastry, I'm not sure there's potential for romance here.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

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babybull82
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posted August 06, 2014 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, babybull

This looks like a friendship synastry, I'm not sure there's potential for romance here.


Yea, I don't really feel it either. I also think he might have considered it, but he also probably came to the same conclusion. There were some moments though while we we're talking where I could feel myself starting to feel more, but I would stop myself and got a handle on it.

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IndigoDirae
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posted August 07, 2014 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! He was born 4 days after me.

Yes. We do like to 'fall off the radar'. How fascinating.

I'm gonna say based upon your house overlays, that nothing is 'focussed' in romantic or sexual dynamics. Plus, if you're not feelin' it -- you're just not feelin' it. But, hey, it might be interesting to look and evaluate as to perhaps why?

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babybull82
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posted August 07, 2014 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Wow! He was born 4 days after me.

Yes. We do like to 'fall off the radar'. How fascinating.

I'm gonna say based upon your house overlays, that nothing is 'focussed' in romantic or sexual dynamics. Plus, if you're not feelin' it -- you're just not feelin' it. But, hey, it might be interesting to look and evaluate as to perhaps why?


It's funny though, I do find him attractive and I know he finds me attractive too. Back about a yr after we first met he told me he liked me after I broke up with my bf of 1yr at the time (who btw I'm STILL friends with as well). But then nothing ever came of it. I moved away but then we reconnect about a yr after that and I was talking to him while he was away in Afghanistan an same thing we established that we liked each other I even sent him some *ahem* pictures.. I mean he was a soldier figured he needed the pick me up! Hahaha. Anyway but again we kind of fell of out each other's radars and he did his thing and I did mine. But like I said we were always in the background of each other's lives. And now here we go again talking and getting closer..well we were it has slowed down again..but perhaps we'll do better at keeping in touch this time? Don't know...

Honestly wouldn't even know what to look for in this chart. One thing that stuck out to him was that my pluto conjunct his Sun and then I noted my Neptune sextiles his Sun as well. But other than that I don't know. Well actually I do. I DID draw up a composite and well I just don't think it's in the cards for us to be "together" in the traditional sense. We have venus in the 11th which I'd say points to a more friendly type of energy between two people. Well I'll post it and you can tell me what y'all think.

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