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IV XXIV
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posted August 09, 2014 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My coworker and more importantly, my feelings towards him. Sometimes we're cold to each other, other times we're warm to each other. Sometimes he says hello to me very warmly, we'll have great conversations, other days he'll just walk right passed me. I'm normally very outgoing but I always find myself feeling shy around him so I'm always very short and to the point with him, walking passed him without saying a word. I've never been this confused about someone else and how I felt toward someone else before lol


He doesn't know his TOB so his house placements won't be too important.. I'm the inside circle and he's the outside. His TOB was set at 12:00 pm.


Let me know anything that stands out to you that would make some sense of this. Please and thank you!

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 10, 2014 06:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you please post an astro.com synastry?

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IV XXIV
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posted August 10, 2014 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro.com wanted me to input a birth time, so I put 12:00 pm due to his TOB being unknown. He's on the outside, I'm on the inside.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 11, 2014 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have a strong synastry with many aspects, if you get close, you'll probably have an intense relationship. What you're feeling are most likely these many strong aspects and perhaps his Mars squaring your Pluto on ASC/DSC which can give an unnerving feeling; plus his Moon in your 8th, his Venus in your 12th. But you should be fine, you have a lot of great aspects. It's a pity we don't know his TOB.

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IV XXIV
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posted August 11, 2014 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You have a strong synastry with many aspects, if you get close, you'll probably have an intense relationship. What you're feeling are most likely these many strong aspects and perhaps his Mars squaring your Pluto on ASC/DSC which can give an unnerving feeling; plus his Moon in your 8th, his Venus in your 12th. But you should be fine, you have a lot of great aspects. It's a pity we don't know his TOB.


It certainly is a pity.. Do you think, from this information, that he's feeling what I feel too? I can't tell if he's receptive like that yet. Thank you Lee!

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IndigoDirae
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posted August 11, 2014 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, the most telling I've seen are involvements of 5H and 8H -- especially the overlay. Under the right circumstances, it's oddly compulsive in nature. It just reorients the relationship towards expressing itself in sexual dynamics.

Lee, on the other hand, has a knack for pattern completion.

Do you see any which could act in lieu?

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IV XXIV
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posted August 11, 2014 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Honestly, the most telling I've seen are involvements of 5H and 8H -- especially the overlay. Under the right circumstances, it's oddly compulsive in nature. It just reorients the relationship towards expressing itself in sexual dynamics.

Lee, on the other hand, has a knack for pattern completion.

Do you see any which could act in lieu?


Unfortunately, since I don't know his TOB, I don't know his correct house placements. His moon sign could either be at the very end of Sag or very beginning of Capricorn, as it changes on the day he was born, so do you think it would still stay in my 8th house if it were Cap instead of Sag?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 12, 2014 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
It certainly is a pity.. Do you think, from this information, that he's feeling what I feel too? I can't tell if he's receptive like that yet. Thank you Lee!

Why a pity? Is he taken? Yes, he would eventually feel the same. But careful with that Mars square Venus which makes you chase him. If you feel like doing it: DON'T

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IV XXIV
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posted August 12, 2014 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Why a pity? Is he taken? Yes, he would eventually feel the same. But careful with that Mars square Venus which makes you chase him. If you feel like doing it: DON'T


He is taken. Why shouldn't I chase him? My Venus in Aries will be like a fish out of water without any chasing! Lol

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posted August 13, 2014 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
He is taken. Why shouldn't I chase him? My Venus in Aries will be like a fish out of water without any chasing! Lol

'cause you'll chase him away

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posted August 13, 2014 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's your take on 8H MOON overlays, Lee?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 14, 2014 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
What's your take on 8H MOON overlays, Lee?

Very intense and compulsive on both sides, due to the receptive nature of the Moon and of the 8th house. I'd say it's like a Moon/Pluto conjunction: many things come to the surface with this aspect, it's like purging at first, they are both stripped by any pretenses and can't avoid a core connection with very emphasized emotions, for good or bad.

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