posted August 17, 2014 02:32 PM            

Anyways, so I met somebody. Definitely a crazy match, definitely physically and on paper appears to be my perfect match, definitely a lot of oppositions...definitely understood my body in ways that I don't even begin to understand. *melts*

I'm pretty sure it's more so a one way thing and I'm way more into him than vice versa since he's WAY more experience in sex and life than I am, but who knows...anyways, just to give you an idea of the intensity that we're dealing with:

me vs. him
sun and mercury opp sun and venus
moon conjunct mercury and asc
venus and asc opp asc and mercury
venus and asc trine moon and mars and saturn
venus trine mars double whammy
pluto (in scorpio in my 8th) conjunct his moon and mars and saturn

posted August 17, 2014 04:58 PM            

As to where to host it -- that's a personal preference. Some like Photobucket, others Flickr, some have their own sites (such as myself).

If you don't want names and dates -- that's tricky. We typically remove them with photo editors. (I know that I do.) Some will forgive the date exposure, but leave the names blank.

posted August 17, 2014 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Just to let you know, if you only post a long list of aspects and not an actual chart to look at most people won't bother to respond. I've seen it happen many times before. People don't like to just read long lists.

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posted August 17, 2014 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I'd stick with the synastry charts on astro.com. You can use basic points, but I always add in certain asteroids when examining a romantic dynamic.

As to where to host it -- that's a personal preference. Some like Photobucket, others Flickr, some have their own sites (such as myself).

If you don't want names and dates -- that's tricky. We typically remove them with photo editors. (I know that I do.) Some will forgive the date exposure, but leave the names blank.

Does that help?

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posted August 18, 2014 06:28 AM            

Firstly, your Moon opp. Venus RIGHT on his AC-DC axis - that's pretty huge. What you said about him being physically your perfect match shows up right there.

Lots of strong connections here.

Your Suns are opposed, that's interesting. This certainly creates a tension that can be expressed very sexually dynamically. But there is a very fundamental difference in characters.

His Moon, Mars and Saturn fall in your H8. Here we can see why you thought he "gets you" physically/sexually. He has a good sexual instinct with you. The Saturn here is relevant to me because you have it conjunct your Sun's ruler very tightly - so it is relevant to you, important for your self-expression, for the way you want to live your life and who you want to be.

The situation is a bit unclear here, just in terms of graphics, which one is in a sextile with your Moon, his Moon or Mars? Not sure which one falls on which degree, one of them is too wide, the other one is acceptable.

Very, very interesting situation with your Saturn/Uranus conjunction.
Your Sun falls in his H5: he can have fun with you, can fall in love with you, your Venus on his DC tells us it's very likely. But when we look at your Sun's ruler, it's conjunct Saturn. So, important to you. And you can incorporate it into your life. What's Saturn doing in his? Square his Sun. So he's not on good terms with his Saturn. That's difference in characters #2. Since your Sun is opposite his, you have a square to his Saturn as well. You might think he has a tendency to avoid responsibilities, avoid commitment etc. He might not want to commit to you the way you deserve. It's not your fault, he has commitment issues of his own.

Your Uranus/Saturn is the focal point of 3(!) geometric configurations: Grand Trine, T-square and there is actually a Star of David here. Wow.
The Star of David is amazing. It's his Pluto, his Neptune/your Saturn+Uranus, your Mercury, your Jupiter, your Chiron/his MC, his Venus. This is looking like a very fated relationship.
Can you give us the degrees of these point to see what the orbs are?

I do see kind of a difference in personalities that might show itself more in the long run. You're more of a secret romantic than you sometimes let on, he's a bit more social and, between choosing a quiet evening in or going out with friends, he'll take the latter more often than not. He might love you, but he might not often prioritize you to his friends/social circles. If you're not fine with that... you might have to learn to be. It might be too draining in the long run. With Neptune on your H11 cusp, where his Sun is in his chart, you might have an overly idealistic image of his "out-of-house" behaviour.

posted August 19, 2014 12:32 AM            

Assuming your birth times are correct, looking at the chart I can certainly tell that you are each others 'type'. Before I ramble on about why I think this, I'll explain what I'm basing evaluation on...

There are different ways we could be a person's 'type', depending on their natal chart.

First and foremost I look at...

The 5th house (Romantic Sparks and admiration, being 'blown away' by someone)

The 7th house (Affection and liking, having one's soft spot touched)

The 8th house (deep emotional bonding and physical attraction, like being curious about what's going on inside someone and being magnetized by them)

If we put planets in these houses, or aspect the rulers of these houses, in someone else's natal chart we can stimulate the above type feelings within them.

Then I check secondary houses to elaborate on the above themes. The secondary 7th especially tends to be very illuminating. Probably because the 7th house is an angular house. Gemini Dsc looks at the 3rd house, Taurus Dsc looks at the 2nd house, Aries Dsc checks look to the Asc, Aquarius Dsc looks to the 11th house, and so on, to show extra details about our partnership likes.

Then I look at the gender planets... Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus... For indications about they types of gender appropriate behavior we like. It shows how a person would prefer a Men or Women to present themselves, and act in relationships. Again, these planets by sign, house, and aspect, will show a person's gender related ideals. Actual aspects to these planets in synastry shows a lot about the physical and romantic chemistry we have with them.

Then I look at the Vertex Axis... Does the person have planets on either end of it. Do they have planets aspecting it strongly (Even if by sextiles and trines). Do the have planets aspecting the rulers of either end of the Vertex Axis... Particularly conjunctions. All these things can give the person in question the marvelous feeling that they've meet someone significant in their life in sort of a spooky, syncronistic way, where it feels like fate.

Okay, backing to the reading. So in his case he has Virgo rising with Aquarius on the 5th house, Pisces on the 7th house, and Aries on the 8th house. You match quite well with his personality/style attraction pattern.

Regarding the 5th house, your Sun and Mercury in Aquarius fall into his 5th house. Aquarius is co-ruled by Uranus and Saturn, and his Uranus is in Sagittarius. This matches the fact that you have Mars in Sagittarius, and that the ruling planets of both your Sun and Mercury in Aquarius, Saturn and Uranus, are conjunct in Sagittarius. This shows you are his romantic type.

Regarding the 7th house, your Venus in Pisces is conjunct his Dsc... This is a very sweet connection. And your Asc is in the same sign as his Pisces Dsc. This adds up to you having demeanor about you that he finds attractive. Also, with Pisces on the Dsc his secondary 7th house is the 12th house. His 12th house has Virgo on the cusp. This resonates well with your Moon being in Virgo, even though your Moon is in his 1st house. Your Moon still has a style of personality about it that he is attracted to. This shows you are the type he would choose for partnership.

Actually, aspect-wise, your Venus/Moon opposition sits right on top of his Asc/Dsc Axis. This is a powerful tie and indicates an immediate connection, and familiarity between you. His very presence affections you on a primal emotional level, and stirs up your affections. He feels he is able to connect very well to your feminine side, as ruled by Moon and Venus, and finds your softness pleasant to be around.

Regarding the 8th house, your Jupiter in Aries (which rules your Sagittarius Mars) falls into his 8th house. Also, with Aries on the 8th house cusp, his 1st house is his secondary 8th house. Going back to your Moon in Virgo, your Moon conjunct his Asc (1st house) also feels like an 8th house connection for him. This means he feels he is able to bond deeply with you beyond a surface level.

Venus in a man’s chart is important because it shows his personal image of ‘the fair beauty’ that he carries around in his psyche. Looking at his Venus symbolism, he has Venus in Leo in the 11th house. There are two connections to your Aquarius Sun and Mercury here. One connection comes from the fact that his Venus is in the 11th house which is associated with Aquarius. The other connection comes from the fact that Leo, the sign Venus is in, rules the 5th house… And in his chart he has Aquarius on the 5th house. His Venus in Leo refers back to his 5th house where your Sun and Mercury are. So from here, I can tell you fit his Venus quite well. The house ruled by the sign of a guy’s Venus shows more info about the type of female he likes.

Looking at your chart, you have Pisces rising, Cancer on the 5th house cusp, Virgo on the Dsc, and Scorpio on the 8th house cusp. Again, I see some nice matches here from his chart to his 5th, 7th, and 8th houses.

Regarding the 5th house, you have Moon in Virgo ruing your Cancer 5th house cusp. Your 5th house ruler the Moon is conjunct his Virgo Asc. This means his demeanor appeals to you romantically.

Regarding the 7th house, you also have Virgo on the 7th house cusp, and his Mercury and Asc fall into your 7th house. Your 7th house ruler is Mercury in Aquarius and this matches well with his Sun and Venus in his natal 11th house (the house of Aquarius). Also, with Virgo on the 7th house your secondary 7th house is the 6th house. Virgo rules the 6th house, and so the 6th house becomes like another part of the 7th house for those with a Virgo Dsc. Your 6th house starts in early Leo, and his Sun and Venus in Leo fall into your 6th house. All of these factors show he has the potential to match what you are looking for in a partner.

It’s quite fitting that you have a Pisces Asc, while he has a Virgo one. This means that in terms of demeanor and personal presentation, each has what the other is attracted to in a partner.

Regarding the 8th house, he has a stellium of planets in Scorpio and they all fall into your 8th house… His Moon, Mars, and Saturn in Scorpio all fall into your 8th house. His Pluto in Libra falls at the end of your 7th house but is close to your 8th house cusp. This means he’s magnetically attractive to you, and you feel a desire to deeply connect with him.

A women’s Mars is important because it shows the type of ‘dashing suitor’ she prefers. In your chart you have Mars in Sagittarius, while it’s not an exact connection to his Leo placements, it does show you are able to appreciate the fiery nature of his Leo Sun and Venus.

So far I’ve talked mostly about romantic house symbolism matching between your two charts, without delving too much into the planetary synastry aspects. The signs and planets associated with each of the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show our 'type' in that area of life... romantic sparks (5th), affection and liking (7th), deep emotional bonding and physical attraction (8th). This symbolism also shows the type of relationship support and interaction (relationship style) we like in that area of life. However, sometimes acting like a person's type is not enough. We need more then just the right personality qualities and personality type. For example, a person may have an Aries Dsc but they will not be attracted to every single Aries Sun, Moon, or Asc they meet. There's an X factor, or chemistry required, to complete the picture. That’s where interplanetary aspects come into play…

One of the reason I dislike synastry wheels is they don’t give the actual degrees of the planets so it’s hard to ascertain what aspects are there and how tight they really are. For this reason I don’t want to go too much into the inter-aspects… but I will quickly mention that his Scorpio Moon and Mars conjunction aspecting your Pisces Venus/Virgo Moon opposition looks very good for romantic compatibility. Moon/Moon and Venus/Moon and emotionally connecting, sweet aspects. Mars/Moon and Mars/Venus are good for attraction between the sexes, and are more passionate.

Some for dynamic aspects of compatibility show in the Sun/Sun opposition you share, and the Venus/Mercury opposition you share… Venus/Mercury is good for lively interaction and sometimes flirty conversations. The Sun/Sun opposition shows that the two of you have very different natures that sometimes confront each other, yet the two of you are rather complimentary to each other as well, each offering what the other lacks. He’s enthusiastic, passionate, and direct. You’re cool-headed, rational, and open-mined.

posted August 20, 2014 01:25 AM            

I will reply in detail later, but I asked his birthday and he said around 10 am. I met him two days before his birthday and was with him on his actual birthday so I managed to sneak the question in there

It makes sense though that he'd be a virgo asc because we were at a festival and I asked him to give me oral sex and he went
"um...uh...you know...it's just....we're a a festival...."

My best friend, also a virgo asc has ZERO interest in sex at festivals because of the same germaphobe virgo moon health consciousness.

posted November 15, 2014 01:42 PM            

These are our natals charts, I was told I was born 8:30-9 and throughout the years I've found that 8:45 appears to be the time where the aspects feel the most true, aka I know my pluto is in my 8th. Since he said 10 am ish, I've got 10:15 as his birthtime.

Here ya go, me: