posted August 20, 2014 03:36 PM            

Maybe tell us a bit more about the relationship to understand what to look for?

posted August 21, 2014 12:24 PM            

1. His Pluto is on your Sun, and specifically, on your Sun/Mercury midpoint. That would make you obsessively think about him sometimes.

2. Your AC is on his Sun/Venus midpoint, he must have thought you were very attractive.

3. His Sun falls into your first house so you would certainly notice him and miss him in your life. For him, the feeling is not so immediate as your Sun falls in his H9, but there was/is still some strong pull there, due to your Sun being near his Pluto.

4. His Uranus(sudden change) exact on your Union is really telling. Where you wanted to be together, he just changed his mind. If he comes back to your life it will also be sudden. That's a really unstable aspect, and it opposes your Moon, making it quite emotionally stressful for you. If you really, really want to hold on to this relationship, try, but imo you deserve way better.

5. Your Psyche on his Amor is what is holding the relationship from sinking entirely imo. (This is, in reality, kind of minor.) Very telling that it's opposite his Neptune. There's an illusion there, it's nice to think about, but is it really there?

6. His AC is on your MC, that's certainly someone you would notice at work.

7. His NN and Uranus fall in your H7, making him seem like a very exciting partner to you and his Juno falls in your H8 near your Saturn, meaning you would want him to be a loyal partner to you. However, there is nothing relevant falling into HIS H7, but your Mars and Venus fall into his H8. Meaning he would be very excited by you, like you as a lover, but would not be so drawn to you as a partner.

8. He has H1 AQU Moon, H3 Aries Sun - he's a bit more selfish than you might have seen him as. You have a Taurus Moon and a H6 Libra Sun, making you a liiiittle bit overly idealistic in your views of people. He ain't so great.

posted August 22, 2014 04:25 AM            

I know someone with Aqua Moon/Aries Venus. Very tough nut... they dont want to depend on anyone. Emotional detachment is the keyword. He also is attracted to Mars-Venus conjunction in women.

With your Neptune-Uranus interaspects you surely had a very strong (and fusional) connection. I have similar aspects with someone similar...

posted September 04, 2014 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
@jjj
Yeah, he's detached and independent. And he's sooo blunt with people. If he likes someone, they know and if he doesn't like someone, oh boy, does he let them know... That is probably explained by his Mercury-Uranus-Saturn t-square.
The funny thing is, he once told me how he is overly emotional and I was like, yeah... sure.

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Aquarius and in this case Aquarius moons are emotional, they just keep them to themselves. So in his mind he probably is "overly" emotional. Aqua likes to keep an even keel. So I'll bet his Aires nature conflicts (being blunt) with his Aqua moon (trying to reign in the emotions).

I'm still learning so I can't give more insight than has already been given, but thank you for sharing your story.

I have moon sq Saturn with the guy I'm seeing now DW (8or + 1.5orb). We live only a few hours away from each other, but I honestly can not see that changing.

I had it only one way with my x husband. While we were together we rarely were apart. Maybe it's the DW that makes the distance thing.

posted January 01, 2015 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
Your Moon/NN on his IC and your AC on his Sun/Venus midpoint are pretty big clues to why you miss him so much. (you're inside/blue, right?)

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About the Moon/IC conjunction, I was under the impression it's the 4H person who is impacted more by the other person's planet, rather than the other way around. But, I'm the Moon in a recent case and the effect on me is identical to Helix. Is it rather a mutual effect, rather than one person feeling more than the other?