posted August 21, 2014 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I am wondering if you have ever dated another person who aspects your Pluto/Venus with either their Pluto or Venus and in their natal chart also have Pluto/Venus in hard aspect?

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Me:

Cancer Venus
Libra Pluto

Him:

Pisces Venus
Virgo Pluto

posted August 21, 2014 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Me:

Cancer Venus
Libra Pluto

Him:

Pisces Venus
Virgo Pluto

It might be softer aspects between us but I can definitely tell who's the Boss! He is..

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Do you feel like you've finally found someone who gets you and loves with the same depth and intensity you do?

I've just started dating someone with a hard aspect like mine to!! It's the first time I've ever felt I've met match in ability to love someone!!

I think we pass the power back in forth....he's definitely got it most the time but if I chose to pick it up n use it he listens without an arguement. But I'm not big into power with him, probably because my Pluto isn't being activated with a tight aspect, I don't mind him running the show, it's less responsibility for me to handle.

He has Venus cap@18.56
He has Pluto libra@18.52
My Venus libra@19.05
My Pluto is libra@11.05
My Moon virgo@18.32

I seriously think all of us Pluto/Venus hard aspects ppl should stick together, because we love so deep, we need other ppl who get this and give it back! We all need to be loved deep to feel safe in love.

posted August 21, 2014 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:

I've dated a Venus/Pluto exact trine and he didn't love with the same urgent, almost painful intensity of us with the hard aspects. He was much more casual at first it was great but eventually I saw he was nowhere as deeply involved with love and proving his love as I was, probably because it didn't hurt him n make his feelings urgent and stressful like ours is. He left me feeling insecure, this guy I'm with now makes me feel so secure...making me know his love is #1 priority to him.

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I was going to ask before I kept reading on about dating someone with a softer aspect. I have Venus square Pluto natally and my partner has Venus trine Pluto natally (and we do NOT have a Venus/Pluto aspect in synastry) and I identify completely with what you said. I always thought it was our Scorpio/Taurus moon opposition in synastry (me being the Scorpio) that caused us to "feel" so differently but now that you've said this I think this contributes to it.

I love so deeply, intensely and passionately and he just doesn't have that same sense of "urgency" that I do. His feelings are definitely there, they're just expressed in a different way.

I always figured maybe there would be some sort of balance there if you have a square matched with a trine? Because honestly (and again I don't know if this is attributed to our moon opposition) but he definitely helps me to see when I'm being way over-emotional about things and in turn I help him to see where/when he can feel more deeply about something.

It's definitely not easy. I suppose it would be more comforting to have my same intensity matched but in a way there is room for growth there for both of us.

posted August 21, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I was going to ask before I kept reading on about dating someone with a softer aspect. I have Venus square Pluto natally and my partner has Venus trine Pluto natally (and we do NOT have a Venus/Pluto aspect in synastry) and I identify completely with what you said. I always thought it was our Scorpio/Taurus moon opposition in synastry (me being the Scorpio) that caused us to "feel" so differently but now that you've said this I think this contributes to it.

I love so deeply, intensely and passionately and he just doesn't have that same sense of "urgency" that I do. His feelings are definitely there, they're just expressed in a different way.

I always figured maybe there would be some sort of balance there if you have a square matched with a trine? Because honestly (and again I don't know if this is attributed to our moon opposition) but he definitely helps me to see when I'm being way over-emotional about things and in turn I help him to see where/when he can feel more deeply about something.

It's definitely not easy. I suppose it would be more comforting to have my same intensity matched but in a way there is room for growth there for both of us.

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