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Topic: Do you believe in love at 1st sight or have you ever fell in love in under a month?
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Gabby
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posted August 21, 2014 09:09 PM
  
I usually take quite awhile of going back n forth on my feelings before I know I love someone. Usually it's between 3-9 months before I trust my feelings are real, not momentary and will last. I'm very practical about giving my heart away n like to wait.But things are really different with the guy I'm seeing....the exact second I saw him I knew he was going to be very special to me, don't know how I just knew and immediately started talking to him without fear.
Then he told me he was going to marry me in our 1st conversation....I didn't say anything at the time but something in me knew he was stating a fact. So a couple months later, not any issues or disagreements that were not worked out easily, we are so attached to each other n even when we are not together we want to talk or message each other constantly......he goes out of his way to let me know I can always check on him, his phone, his life, his passwords on his comp, facebook anything....he wants me to know everyone in his life n they know me. I adore him, n trust him....he loves the same way I love with depth honesty and priority. Thing is now.....I kind of think I might have felt love at first sight, it seems like my heart jumped when I first saw him. My feelings are exactly the same as when I met him only they get deeper n deeper. Do you believe in love at first sight? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted August 21, 2014 10:24 PM
Sure do.It happened to me with someone who's Venus/Mars is on my South Node. Not only did i fall in love, but i fell deeply and madly in love with this guy. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 21, 2014 10:46 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Sure do.It happened to me with someone who's Venus/Mars is on my South Node. Not only did i fall in love, but i fell deeply and madly in love with this guy.
Did it last? Did you fall out of love if it ended, why? We have some Nodal aspects also.... His Vertex/Uranus is on my NN
My Moon is on his NN
My Vertex is opposed our Pluto/Venus conjunction
His Venus squares our Pluto/Venus
His Venus is exact trine Moon and sextile my NN IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted August 21, 2014 10:52 PM
It did last, and he is still my friend today.But his Chiron is exact on my Venus, so he wasn't able to love the way I am. It turned out to be a soul mate in the end, a passionate one. He made me so weak when we first met like i couldn't even talk around him because he was so darn good looking. Funny thing is, when we met his Solar Arc Venus was on his Sun, so I'm the love of his life. HA! This is conjunct my Ascendant. I actually feel sorry for him now, but will always remember the passion we shared. But no, my ex bf wiped out my feelings for this guy. My ex bf was not love at first sight, it took like three months to realize i was in love. And it was true love and unconditional. So much better to me than the guy prior. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 21, 2014 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
It did last, and he is still my friend today.But his Chiron is exact on my Venus, so he wasn't able to love the way I am. It turned out to be a soul mate in the end, a passionate one. He made me so weak when we first met like i couldn't even talk around him because he was so darn good looking. Funny thing is, when we met his Solar Arc Venus was on his Sun, so I'm the love of his life. HA! This is conjunct my Ascendant. I actually feel sorry for him now, but will always remember the passion we shared. But no, my ex bf wiped out my feelings for this guy. My ex bf was not love at first sight, it took like three months to realize i was in love. And it was true love and unconditional. So much better to me than the guy prior.
Oh, Chiron relationships are tough!! They always seem to be passionate but so hard. I had a guy brung his Chiron to my DC....he brought me pain! No fun at all!
So funny you mention his solar arc Venus on his Sun, just earlier tonight I realized both me and the guy I'm seeing have our progressed Venus on our natal Suns by a degree! How rare is that to have that progression happening at the exact same time.
His Sun/P. Venus is in pisces, mine in saggy and they square each other.
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IndigoDirae
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posted August 22, 2014 03:30 AM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Sure do.It happened to me with someone who's Venus/Mars is on my South Node. Not only did i fall in love, but i fell deeply and madly in love with this guy.
Aww. My Twin's VENUS/MARS=SNODE, too. He called me today. I (totally innocently) missed it. Funny how he suddenly starts reaching out the SECOND I privately decide that I'm giving up on him .... At least for awhile. It sounds like things are going really well, Gabby. I'm so glad! IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted August 22, 2014 03:55 AM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Aww. My Twin's VENUS/MARS=SNODE, too. He called me today. I (totally innocently) missed it. Funny how he suddenly starts reaching out the SECOND I privately decide that I'm giving up on him .... At least for awhile.It sounds like things are going really well, Gabby. I'm so glad!
I realized he is my past now. Every time i go back to him, i end up regretting it and feels like he is holding me back.
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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 22, 2014 06:58 AM
I'm happy for you, Gabby!IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Aww. My Twin's VENUS/MARS=SNODE, too. He called me today. I (totally innocently) missed it. Funny how he suddenly starts reaching out the SECOND I privately decide that I'm giving up on him .... At least for awhile.It sounds like things are going really well, Gabby. I'm so glad!
Thank you!! 
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Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm happy for you, Gabby!
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LucieLemonade
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posted August 22, 2014 02:59 PM
Not love at first sight... it took four days.  We had spent four days together with a group of friends over Easter weekend. On the forth day, we went out together alone and that night I just knew some how that we would be together a long time. After a week we were basically inseparable and practically living together. After three months we were actually living together.
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Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Not love at first sight... it took four days. We had spent four days together with a group of friends over Easter weekend. On the forth day, we went out together alone and that night I just knew some how that we would be together a long time. After a week we were basically inseparable and practically living together. After three months we were actually living together.
Are you still together? What aspects do you think caused your instant attraction? If it lasted which created that? IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted August 22, 2014 04:03 PM
Awwwww that sound so romantic and sweet<3 I love those kinds of stories I feel the same way about my boyfriend sort of… the first time I saw him, I literally was falling in love! He was this adorable and so sweet libra with pisces sun just standing there, and he was so nervous when we spoke first time…
Things haven't changed much, he is still just as sweet and adorable as back then<3 I love him and probably always will<3
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Blind writer
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posted August 22, 2014 04:27 PM
I asked for a goodnight kiss the very first night I met KD, so I've had instant sparks, yes. His 7R VENUS conjuncts my ANTIVERTEX 0°, and my 7R SUN conjuncts his ANTIVERTEX 0°.The VX axis is very fast moving and has very sudden energies to it, which is why it is often a catalyst for fated events, whether through transits, progressions, solar arc, or synastry. I think love at first sight is totally possible. It doesn't discount or discredit a long, fulfilling relationship either, provided you have stabilizing aspects in your synastry and/or composite. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 04:43 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Awwwww that sound so romantic and sweet<3 I love those kinds of stories I feel the same way about my boyfriend sort of… the first time I saw him, I literally was falling in love! He was this adorable and so sweet libra with pisces sun just standing there, and he was so nervous when we spoke first time…
Things haven't changed much, he is still just as sweet and adorable as back then<3 I love him and probably always will<3
What aspects do you have that create your connection, in your opinion? IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Blind writer:
I asked for a goodnight kiss the very first night I met KD, so I've had instant sparks, yes. His 7R VENUS conjuncts my ANTIVERTEX 0°, and my 7R SUN conjuncts his ANTIVERTEX 0°.The VX axis is very fast moving and has very sudden energies to it, which is why it is often a catalyst for fated events, whether through transits, progressions, solar arc, or synastry. I think love at first sight is totally possible. It doesn't discount or discredit a long, fulfilling relationship either, provided you have stabilizing aspects in your synastry and/or composite.
Vertex is so powerful! We also have a lot of angle activity and our house overlay is amazing!! IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted August 22, 2014 05:05 PM
Hmm. 'Literally falling in love'. This makes me want to put this in a rom-com. Girl is standing in front of ginormous banner reading, 'LOVE'.
Jerk On Bike speeds along street. Mud splashes.
Girl gasps!
Girl falls into banner.
Boy, on other side of banner, catches Girl. BOY (OS)
Are you okay? GIRL
Yeah ...
(beat)
Yeah, I think so. Boy appears on other side of banner. Girl's heart skips a beat. He smiles. GIRL
Yeah ... yeah, I'm ... amazing. They go for coffee. Scene. IP: Logged |
Blind writer
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posted August 22, 2014 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Hmm. 'Literally falling in love'. This makes me want to put this in a rom-com. Girl is standing in front of ginormous banner reading, 'LOVE'.
Jerk On Bike speeds along street. Mud splashes.
Girl gasps!
Girl falls into banner.
Boy, on other side of banner, catches Girl. BOY (OS)
Are you okay? GIRL
Yeah ...
(beat)
Yeah, I think so. Boy appears on other side of banner. Girl's heart skips a beat. He smiles. GIRL
Yeah ... yeah, I'm ... amazing. They go for coffee. Scene.
And Girl and coffee get married and have tons of latte baby shots. True labulabu at its best. *swoon* IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted August 22, 2014 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes & we got married in April. The moment I saw him, I knew. It was a crowded room and everything went dark except for him (I actually thought I was going to faint). Then, the voice inside of me said, "that's your future baby daddy" which is sooooo not classy, but that's what it said LOL! He approached me and while we were mid-convo he leaned down, kissed me & walked off. I stood there for a few seconds mouth agape wondering wtf had just happened. By the end of the night we were making out on the stairs and he had my number. I was about 5 minutes down the road before he called me and said, "I could fall in love with you" and hung up. That was basically it. We're not young & we have both been married before, so we have the benefit of experience to feel how this is different. It's really unexplainable. ------------------
“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted August 22, 2014 06:33 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Are you still together? What aspects do you think caused your instant attraction? If it lasted which created that?
We were together for almost 15 years and broke up last year. However, I never had any doubts at all until really the two months or so before we broke up. We both knew it was fated to begin and now we both know it was fated to end. I'm not sure really to be honest. I don't think we have many of the "wow" aspects that people are always talking about with their "soul mates" and we have mostly squares and oppositions. Actually, if I read posts on here, I think we have only so-so synastry. Personally, I think it's all about the transits. We both have Saturn in the 7th and met when tSaturn was hitting our Dscs. Then the love affair just sort of ended when tSaturn came round and hit our Ascs and now we are just friends. Our tightest aspects are:
sun conj mars exact (0.01),
sun square saturn 1.5,
sun sex uranus 3,
his sun sq my Asc 2.5.
moon opp moon 3,
moon opp merc 2,
merc square nept 1.2,
venus trine venus 3.5, The rest of the under 3 deg are minor aspects. The other major aspects are over 4 and many of them are squares and oppositions even though our relationship was far from conflictual. It was an easy relationship. I don't know exact his birth time. So that makes it more difficult. I only have and estimate. Anyway... I'm babbling.... 
I could dig more up if you have more specific questions. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted August 22, 2014 08:00 PM
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next to neptune
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posted August 22, 2014 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
What aspects do you have that create your connection, in your opinion?
In synastry you mean? We have a very tight uranus square venus(where I am uranus), like 0'14 degrees or something And we also have venus sextile uranus about 1 degree And then we also have Sun opposition Moon about 5 degrees(where I am the sun), which I think is also part of the reason why I think he lighted up the room so much…. and my venus is trine his ascendant too, so the moment I saw him, I saw something I liked! And then adding all the fireworks I felt from the uranus square! I really got some serious heartbeating lol IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 22, 2014 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Hmm. 'Literally falling in love'. This makes me want to put this in a rom-com. Girl is standing in front of ginormous banner reading, 'LOVE'.
Jerk On Bike speeds along street. Mud splashes.
Girl gasps!
Girl falls into banner.
Boy, on other side of banner, catches Girl. BOY (OS)
Are you okay? GIRL
Yeah ...
(beat)
Yeah, I think so. Boy appears on other side of banner. Girl's heart skips a beat. He smiles. GIRL
Yeah ... yeah, I'm ... amazing. They go for coffee. Scene.
Awe!!! Indigo that's sweet! IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted August 22, 2014 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by Blind writer:
And Girl and coffee get married and have tons of latte baby shots.True labulabu at its best. *swoon*
 Exactly. IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul
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posted August 23, 2014 12:46 AM
In my personal opinion the love of our lives is the one that we know from the beginning... We fall in love from the first sight, we feel the earth move under our feet. Enjoy it IP: Logged |
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