posted September 04, 2014 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I cannot contribute much to the overall vibe of the chart but I am curious to know your take on his packed 7th house and if you would even have an opinion on that at this point. Is there a large age gap between you? Do you know his relationship history at all? My partner has a packed 7th house like that and he is a handful to say the least.

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posted September 04, 2014 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Wow...very strong attraction with this one! Mutual. Not just sexual, but definitely in that department lol

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Then why do I feel like he's not really interested even though he approached first? I mean maybe I'm just looking to deep in to, but the conversation seems so one-sided. Then he asked me a personal question regarding a certain part of my anatomy so I'm like uh ok I think I know what he's looking for. I have just been so impatient with people that I need things to be clear. But that's probably close to impossible as we both have venus square neptune, with my neptune square tighter than his. I just don't know what to make of it. It's actually stressing me out lol.

posted September 05, 2014 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Then why do I feel like he's not really interested even though he approached first? I mean maybe I'm just looking to deep in to, but the conversation seems so one-sided. Then he asked me a personal question regarding a certain part of my anatomy so I'm like uh ok I think I know what he's looking for. I have just been so impatient with people that I need things to be clear. But that's probably close to impossible as we both have venus square neptune, with my neptune square tighter than his. I just don't know what to make of it. It's actually stressing me out lol.

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I think it all depends if you like someone you barely know to ask you questions about your anatomy Personally, I would say "pass", but that's just me.

If you like him, give yourselves time, especially with Neptune aspects in the natal. If he's interested you'll know it. The synastry suggests strong sexual attraction.

posted September 05, 2014 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Just because he asked 'if they're real' is probably more of an Aries stellium lack of tact -- and in your 8H -- than anything else. Even with a Libra MOON, it can still be rather strong.

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posted September 05, 2014 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

I think it all depends if you like someone you barely know to ask you questions about your anatomy Personally, I would say "pass", but that's just me.

If you like him, give yourselves time, especially with Neptune aspects in the natal. If he's interested you'll know it. The synastry suggests strong sexual attraction.

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Well asking me about my breast came way later in the convo...but still I get what you mean.

I'm not sure if I like him, I'm just trying to figure out what he wants from me. Now today (or yesterday) he wasn't being direct at all! I asked him straight up if all he wanted to know was how big my boobs were. oh I've been asking some pretty personal intrusive questions, but nothing about his anatomy. Anyway, he ignored the question & just commented on the game he went to & how he had just gotten home.

His Merc is in Pisces & our mercuries square...so no wonder our communication at the moment is bugging me...& most likely I'll never find out what he "truly" wants from me. Gah I hate neptune..

posted September 05, 2014 01:36 PM            

Here's the updated chart!

posted September 08, 2014 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
No, we're only a yr apart and actually today I just found out that he was engaged in his early 20s. He says he's not looking for anything serious, just wants to see what's out there, meet someone and see where it goes. I'm fine with that as I am only seeking friends. Like I guess I'm wishing for him to just be direct and say what he wants, because like I said I'm not really into wasting time. What does a packed 7th house say about a person? I was actually pretty busy looking at his 3 planets in my 8th..which is why I also think it may just be sexual attraction on his part.

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Without reading the chart, all I can say is he said he's only looking for "friends". Then I would believe him. But it seems he wants these friendships to come with "benefits".

If it were me, I would move on due to that and the fact that there are so many oppositions, which continue into the composite.

I don't mind hard aspects in my relationships, but in this synastry it's all opp to personals plus all squares to Nept.

Seems it could be a beautiful neptune dream or a beautiful neptune nightmare. The way is started doesn't sound promising for what you are looking for.

posted September 08, 2014 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Without reading the chart, all I can say is he said he's only looking for "friends". Then I would believe him. But it seems he wants these friendships to come with "benefits".

If it were me, I would move on due to that and the fact that there are so many oppositions, which continue into the composite.

I don't mind hard aspects in my relationships, but in this synastry it's all opp to personals plus all squares to Nept.

Seems it could be a beautiful neptune dream or a beautiful neptune nightmare. The way is started doesn't sound promising for what you are looking for.

I say: Next!

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Oh I believe him and I'm actually ok with what he's looking for because after some serious soul searching the last few months I realized I just am never happy with traditional structured relationships. I think I mentioned above I'm looking for friends too. I am trying to see if I can find something I can be happy with. I guess a hybrid of sorts lol my concern was over the fact that when we chatted I felt the convo was one sided. I also am looking for someone to hang out with on a more consistent basis, not just a one time thing. I ended up asking him about it directly & he said he talks more in person & sure enough he does as I met him on Saturday.

He was nice, we have chemistry..& we had a good time.

posted September 09, 2014 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Just discovered that he is having a Pluto square moon transit..which is probably why we met in the first place!!

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posted September 09, 2014 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Oh I believe him and I'm actually ok with what he's looking for because after some serious soul searching the last few months I realized I just am never happy with traditional structured relationships. I think I mentioned above I'm looking for friends too. I am trying to see if I can find something I can be happy with. I guess a hybrid of sorts lol my concern was over the fact that when we chatted I felt the convo was one sided. I also am looking for someone to hang out with on a more consistent basis, not just a one time thing. I ended up asking him about it directly & he said he talks more in person & sure enough he does as I met him on Saturday.

He was nice, we have chemistry..& we had a good time.

As far as beautiful dream/nightmare with all of the neptune, I'd say the fact that he was up front from the start about what he wants is a good start. Also I find I'm comfortable asking him to clarify things directly. I think for sure we'll get along good as friends, also I think one shouldn't be to quick to dismiss oppositions as all they are are just things you need to work on within yourself presented to you thru other ppl. Also a lot of these aspects we already have in our natals & are double whammy so we're used to the energy. I'm curious to see where it goes...as far as friendship & what not, he's fun to talk to and funny.

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My x and I had a whole lot of squares and some conj & oppositions. So I'm not afraid of hard aspects. And I have a friend that is basically a mirror to me. We have a whole lot of oppositions like your chart above. We get along great. He's a lot of fun. But I wouldn't date him! LOL. Though he is lovely.

If you can keep the Neptune in check, why not see what happens? You never know!

posted September 09, 2014 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Hm. Explain? I'm just not sure that's a 'meet under' sort of transit.

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Lots of the stuff he's going thru with this transit pertains to 8th house stuff. He has three planets falling into my 8th.

Also according to this a person experiencing this transit could meet someone who can help them through it. http://astrologyking.com/pluto-square-moon-transit/

posted September 09, 2014 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
My x and I had a whole lot of squares and some conj & oppositions. So I'm not afraid of hard aspects. And I have a friend that is basically a mirror to me. We have a whole lot of oppositions like your chart above. We get along great. He's a lot of fun. But I wouldn't date him! LOL. Though he is lovely.

If you can keep the Neptune in check, why not see what happens? You never know!

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Right I'm keeping a very close eye on the neptune because I know I could EASILY fall for him. But so far I'm doing ok lol. With his venus squaring my neptune (>1 degree) compared to mine squaring his (<4 degrees), he stands a bigger risk at falling for the illusion. But like I said the fact that he's being honest, helps to keep the situation grounded. But he's a libra moon so he could change his mind about what he wanted in a heartbeat. lol Also won't lie the sexual chemistry between us off the charts. So perhaps a fwb thing would work out great with us if we just make sure not to get lost in the "fog".