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Topic: FWB's or something more?
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ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 07, 2014 09:48 PM
I am dating a guy who seems like a great catch.....problem is, I'm more sexually attracted to him than I am romantically, and it's bothering me. Lol. I'm 24, divorced after 5 years married with my ex(who according to our synastry was a soulmate), and as you can imagine, I don't want to waste time when I could be with a twin flame.... He is wealthy, he's talented, makes me laugh, he's funny, and he looks great on paper, but I don't know the direction this relationship is going in, and it's turning IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1114 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2014 09:55 PM
You know you're a Twin Flame?IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1114 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2014 09:58 PM
Wow. cSUN in 12H, with a packed 12H Davison. I'm surprised you don't feel more like this is prolonged therapy. Must be in the synastry, as the Davison is indicative of a deeply transformative relationship that will gut old paradigms and help you to ultimately evolve. Sure, it's got EROS-LUST and MARS in 8H, but there's nothing like that in the composite. Besides, the Davison is more potential direction the relationship could take. Do you not want it to be sexual? Because with THAT much 12H, I'd think you'd want SOMETHING to balance out the massive tonne o' crap that is undoubtedly going to surface and change your life. Not in a Twin Flame way, though, no, you're right there. More of a Karmic Partners flavour. I'd have to see the natals and synastry. IP: Logged |
ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 07, 2014 10:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: You know you're a Twin Flame?
Oh no, lol. I was hoping I would find mine this lifetime instead of bouncing around dating a lot. I wish though....these stories on here are making me incredibly hopeful.
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ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 07, 2014 10:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Wow. cSUN in 12H, with a packed 12H Davison. I'm surprised you don't feel more like this is prolonged therapy. Must be in the synastry, as the Davison is indicative of a deeply transformative relationship that will gut old paradigms and help you to ultimately evolve. Sure, it's got EROS-LUST and MARS in 8H, but there's nothing like that in the composite. Besides, the Davison is more potential direction the relationship could take. Do you not want it to be sexual? Because with THAT much 12H, I'd think you'd want SOMETHING to balance out the massive tonne o' crap that is undoubtedly going to surface and change your life. Not in a Twin Flame way, though, no, you're right there. More of a Karmic Partners flavour. I'd have to see the natals and synastry.
Oh I like the sexual aspect of us, but it feels like a heavy relationship already and I want to have fun. It feels like an 80s tv program where the main characters have to learn these intense lessons every week, and the fun part happens at the end of each episode. I want more of a carefree relationship, but we've been through marriage proposals, miscarriages, an accident, and a career drama and we've only been dating since May. Lol IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1114 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2014 11:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReeseC: Oh I like the sexual aspect of us, but it feels like a heavy relationship already and I want to have fun. It feels like an 80s tv program where the main characters have to learn these intense lessons every week, and the fun part happens at the end of each episode. I want more of a carefree relationship, but we've been through marriage proposals, miscarriages, an accident, and a career drama and we've only been dating since May. Lol
Yeah, that sounds about right, actually. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1114 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2014 11:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReeseC: Oh no, lol. I was hoping I would find mine this lifetime instead of bouncing around dating a lot. I wish though....these stories on here are making me incredibly hopeful.
Heh! Which stories? I'd say the raw per centage of Twin Flame couples is probably 3% of all Twin Flame couples. That's hardly hopeful to me. But perhaps you've been reading things I haven't? We generally end up choosing to have a lifetime relationship with a Soulmate of some kind -- Karmic Partner, occasionally -- and typically a Companion Soul. The Twin Flame relationship is just too damned complicated. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7306 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 08, 2014 07:02 AM
Hi, Reese Could you post the synastry with your ex, the one you consider a soulmate synastry? Thanks! Also, if you want an evaluation for this current relationship, I think you should post your synastry. Most astrologers here base their analysis primarily on synastries. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
carm76 Knowflake Posts: 304 From: Sirius Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 08, 2014 07:17 AM
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ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 09:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Hi, Reese Could you post the synastry with your ex, the one you consider a soulmate synastry? Thanks! Also, if you want an evaluation for this current relationship, I think you should post your synastry. Most astrologers here base their analysis primarily on synastries.
I just saw this. This is my ex and I synastry. We were soul mates, maybe more, but he was crazy abusive, so we broke up.
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7306 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 31, 2014 10:05 AM
Thank you for posting, Reese. Unfortunately, the charts are very hard to read, such a mesh of aspects. I barely saw a difficult Mars sq Moon/Uranus, a possible source of fueling physical abuse. To be honest, this doesn't seem like a soulmate synastry to me, nothing on SN or at least Avx/Vx and Saturn seems unaspected on both sides. But that's just what I could see in this crowded layout ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Thank you for posting, Reese. Unfortunately, the charts are very hard to read, such a mesh of aspects. I barely saw a difficult Mars sq Moon/Uranus, a possible source of fueling physical abuse. To be honest, this doesn't seem like a soulmate synastry to me, nothing on SN or at least Avx/Vx and Saturn seems unaspected on both sides. But that's just what I could see in this crowded layout
Thank goodness. I have been previously told we were soul mates. (I think the axis), but that relationship was like soaking in a hot tub filled with bubbling kerosene. Can you tell me about this relationship with C. I never posted the synastry. IP: Logged |
ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 353 From: Wherever the world takes me Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 10:12 PM
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