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Topic: A sensitive situation..
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 10, 2014 03:47 PM
  
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Kind thank yous in advance! I would also greatly appreciate your discretion since it's quite likely I will edit this out. Thank you! ------------------
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Lotis White
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From: USA
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posted September 10, 2014 07:24 PM
What are your natal chart degrees (Synastry wheels suck! They don't show degrees). Especially if you don't have a birth time (no houses), the aspects will be a big factor in the interpretation. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 12:04 AM
Lotis, I agree! It annoys me too that they don't show the degrees. Here's my chart and his and thank you for taking a look!
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Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted September 11, 2014 12:30 AM
I kinda love CHIRON conjunct a light. So far, two of some absolutely amazing Soulmates have appeared this year. My CHIRON is exactly on her MOON; his DESTINN is conjunct my CHIRON, 0°. Honestly, my husband's CHIRON is opposite my SUN, 1°, too. So, yes, it's all sensitive. But CHIRON can absolutely be the best healing influence. And you don't need me to tell you that.  In case you want to redirect your attention for a moment, I figured some things out about my situation. I updated the thread accordingly. I feel better now, even if I realise it's 'all happening all over again' agsin. But each time is a chance to get it right. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 06:57 AM
I'm 50/50 about this synastry/comp, and I need to focus on the good 50, I don't want to spoil the fun. Both charts are interesting, it wouldn't be something easily to get out of.DM, do your consider your precise Moon/Neptune in your 12th, are you a strong 12th? ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 07:00 AM
I saw.  I am glad you are feeling better and I hope it works out favorably for you! Having been in an Uranian relationship myself (still ongoing), I was also exposed to the ever-repeating cycles (this again!) even though now I see they were slightly different every time; I told myself repeatedly "this time it's the last time, it's over". Mhmm..  It's still ongoing, like I said. lol Re your husband though, there was something that didn't set right with me and I don't know if I am crossing a line in saying this. But I don't think it's fair to have him tell you he wouldn't survive without you. To me, that is emotional blackmail, that is unforgivable in my book. Oh, he would survive, we have no idea what we are capable of surviving until we have to. What matters is what YOU want. ------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted September 11, 2014 07:09 AM
have not delved deeply, but I love the mutual Jupiter-ASC-conjunction. So supportive and encouraging.I also notice your guy´s ASc is conjunct mine.  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 11, 2014 07:12 AM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I saw. I am glad you are feeling better and I hope it works out favorably for you! Having been in an Uranian relationship myself (still ongoing), I was also exposed to the ever-repeating cycles (this again!) even though now I see they were slightly different every time; I told myself repeatedly "this time it's the last time, it's over". Mhmm.. It's still ongoing, like I said. lol Re your husband though, there was something that didn't set right with me and I don't know if I am crossing a line in saying this. But I don't think it's fair to have him tell you he wouldn't survive without you. To me, that is emotional blackmail, that is unforgivable in my book. Oh, he would survive, we have no idea what we are capable of surviving until we have to. What matters is what YOU want.
As for Auby`s husband. I understood it differently, that she was discussing her connection with the other man with her husband and he was saying the other guy would not survive it. Which is still a little melodramatic in my book. But probably just wanted to bring the point across how important the connection to Aubyanne is for the other one. Or am I totally confusing things now?  IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 07:14 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm 50/50 about this synastry/comp, and I need to focus on the good 50, I don't want to spoil the fun. Both charts are interesting, it wouldn't be something easily to get out of.DM, do your consider your precise Moon/Neptune in your 12th, are you a strong 12th?
LeeLoo, thank you for your input. I consider Moon-Neptune in the 11th even though it's very close to the cusp. I've explored 12H path some years ago and realized I resonate better with the 11th, even though some influence does exist from the 12th, I guess. *edited* ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
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posted September 11, 2014 07:17 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
have not delved deeply, but I love the mutual Jupiter-ASC-conjunction. So supportive and encouraging.I also notice your guy´s ASc is conjunct mine.
That would be nice if it were true, but his Asc is a guess at this point. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
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posted September 11, 2014 07:17 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
As for Auby`s husband. I understood it differently, that she was discussing her connection with the other man with her husband and he was saying the other guy would not survive it. Which is still a little melodramatic in my book. But probably just wanted to bring the point across how important the connection to Aubyanne is for the other one. Or am I totally confusing things now?
Ah. I must have misunderstood then. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted September 11, 2014 07:46 AM
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 11, 2014 08:25 AM
DM, please don't be so worried. Just go with your feelings between you two and take it slow, enjoy the moments, don't ignore the things you don't like, if any.I'll take a closer look later and do an analysis, so far I like your conjunctions, your Saturn connections, your 2nd house and Mars/Saturn composite, what I don't like most of all is him not having anything in your interception (you have a relational interception) and in Virgo and I'm not sure about the 12th house stuff. Maybe we should postpone the analysis till after you find out his TOB and at the same time, advance a bit more into the relationship? What do you think? ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted September 11, 2014 11:25 AM
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 12, 2014 02:32 PM
First of all, because you both have Mars/Saturn, this makes for what I call a siamese aspect - you're both familiar with its energy, which gives strong grounds for attraction and compatibility. Secondly, Mars/Saturn aspects in synastry/composites, either hard or soft, seem to figure strongly in long term partnerships. The opposition in particular is quite common. Perhaps because it shows a potential balance between the energies of Mars and Saturn and when these two work together, constructive and long-lasting things are being accomplished on various levels. (working as a team, balance between impulsiveness and restraint, fidelity etc.)------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 14, 2014 06:07 AM
Ah, I see! Thank you, LeeLoo! Perhaps I can sway his TOB from him on our next date (over the phone is not my thing). I am a lot calmer now about the whole thing, it seems to be settling in my mind and heart, but I could still use opinions on the charts. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 14, 2014 06:58 AM
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 24, 2014 02:10 PM
Found out the TOB.. charts updated accordingly.Never ever would have thought Virgo rising, although it is one placement that has been consistent with my exes, the most important ones. ------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted September 24, 2014 02:42 PM
Juno on DESC - and Jupiter on ASC the other direction. Wow!IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted September 24, 2014 02:43 PM
Not bad his DSC right on your Juno and I think there wasn't a Moon/Venus conjunction DW before??
I'll take a closer look.------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted September 24, 2014 02:44 PM
haha, same things I noticed, Leel loo
that and his DSC-ruler very closely opposing her ASC-ruler. MAJOR magnetism
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sorry my mistake 5th house ruler opposing her intercepted ASC-ruler. Still pretty attractive. Waking up her hidden sense of identity. No, we are not really all that Saturnian, DM, are we? We try to hide that Aquarius a little bit, from view at least, but somehow he activates it.
WEll, I find itz fitting that with your intercepted Aquarius in 1st house, there is an Uranus on the ASC in composite. Change, go beyond these selfperceived limits, jump into the unknown and unpredictable. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 1852
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 24, 2014 02:47 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Not bad his DSC right on your Juno and I think there wasn't a Moon/Venus conjunction DW before??
I'll take a closer look.
The second Moon-Venus is wide, his Moon 13 Tau, my Venus 18 Tau. It might be all in vain, LeeLoo.. I am not even sure if he is interested in me that way anymore. It could be a misunderstanding and I could be drawing the wrong conclusions.. but I felt like such a fool. 
Then I see I put 3 planets in his 8th and 4 in his 4th and wonder how is it possible he wants to be just friends?
I don't understand anything anymore. ------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted September 24, 2014 02:47 PM
composite looks intriguing. The very compassionate empath-like soulful conjunction of Sun-MoonVenus (Wow) in the 4th house, looks so homely to me, in a maybe spiritual/ nebulous sense, but still a home. And then there is Uranus on the ASC, unpredictable, shaking up things, a relationship that despite the homely basis needs to reinvent itself again and again, in this case I think stagnation would be the death of this relationship, there needs to be growth, change, of course excitement as well. But deep and spiritual. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 24, 2014 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
haha, same things I noticed, Leel loo
that and his DSC-ruler very closely opposing her ASC-ruler. MAJOR magnetism
No, his DC ruler is Neptune and it's opposite his Saturn, not mine.. Mine is 2 Scorpio..  ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 24, 2014 02:53 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
composite looks intriguing. The very compassionate empath-like soulful conjunction of Sun-MoonVenus (Wow) in the 4th house, looks so homely to me, in a maybe spiritual/ nebulous sense, but still a home. And then there is Uranus on the ASC, unpredictable, shaking up things, a relationship that despite the homely basis needs to reinvent itself again and again, in this case I think stagnation would be the death of this relationship, there needs to be growth, change, of course excitement as well. But deep and spiritual.
Uranus hit me on the back of the head just now, so.. here comes the rollercoaster. ------------------
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