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Amphitrite
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posted September 11, 2014 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 11, 2014 02:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for selene77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's not enough mutual aspects, there's just this opposition sun moon that's very good, Venus Uranus rapid attraction..
but I see that moon is in the beginning of the sign, so it's important to know the hour of his birth because moon could be in different sign.. and the houses aspects also are important

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posted September 11, 2014 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess it depends on the orb that you are using. Some people say 8 for conjunctions, some people say much less. Its really hard to know - but all I can say is that I felt something.

I think his moon will definitely be in Aries - unless born right after midnight. I understand the house aspects are important - but you can only work with what you have

Who would feel the venus - uranus attraction more do you think?

Do you think the Mars - Jupiter conjunction would play a role in attraction? Also sun opposite NN.

There is also a few quite exact asteroid connections, such as Plutp - psyche and sun/pluto - juno abd saturn - union.

Any thoughts about this is welcome. The orb thing really does confuse me. There is essentially no agreement amongst astrologers.

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posted September 11, 2014 07:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strong attraction form your side:

his Mars on your 5th/sec 8th ruler
if his Moon is around 15 Aries, that would make it even stronger
his Sun/Pluto on your Juno
his Venus/Eros on your IC and Uranus
his Uranus on your 8th ruler
your Sun square his Neptune

for him, the attraction is brought by Lilith
Lilith on your ASC
Venus on your Lilith

But the lack of aspects to Venuses and especially to his Sun/Pluto would probably be a problem in the long run.
I'd say you are more attracted to him than he is to you.
IMO, one needs to have Venus, Sun, Moon in Cap or Cancer and something else in Aries and Gem to attract this guy's Mars (physical attraction)

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posted September 11, 2014 07:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the synastry :-)

So essentially you don't really think my venus aspects his sun/pluto - that is 6 degrees is too big an orb for a conjunction? Also 7 degrees would be too big an orb for the mars/pluto conjunction? And the mars/jupiter conjunction doesn't really count?

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posted September 11, 2014 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The 5th/sec 8th ruler I was talking about is your Jupiter, actually perhaps that's why you feel so attracted, of course it counts.
Those conjunctions (at least Venus/Pluto, but Mars/Pluto could also be felt) are valid, but one wide conjunction to a major love planet like Venus or Sun is not enough, you need several aspects to it, you need to integrate them into a more complex aspectary figure. Personally, I don't like to see conjunctions, close or not, especially not wide ones, isolated somewhere in the chart.

I find it hard to believe someone with such a strong Sun (Sun/Pluto) would feel completed by someone not making aspects to it. Plus, Venus/Sun is mostly felt by Venus, I mean Venus is attracted to the Sun, the Sun feels admired at best, but that's not an aspect making him necessarily interested. Of course, I could be wrong.

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posted September 11, 2014 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you mean by a more complex aspectary figure? What do you think that would ideally consist of?

Also what do you mean by conjunctions isolated in the chart? Do you mean the planets in Scorpio? Are they considered isolated even though between is there are 5 planets plus asteroids in there?

Also his sun/pluto conjunction is squared by my mars in Leo with a 5 degree orb - does that not count at all?

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posted September 11, 2014 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, it does count, why is it not visible? Did you lower the orbs?

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posted September 11, 2014 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No I didn't do anything with the orbs - so then that would mean his sun/pluto is aspected by my venus and my mars - so that would have to be something and not too isolated?

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posted September 11, 2014 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe, but it's still receptive (you after him).


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posted September 11, 2014 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok - thanks so much for your thoughts and opinions on it LeeLoo2014 - not 100% sure on a few things you mentioned but perhaps someone can fill me in at some point. The orb issue is so interesting in synastry - what some people feel is relevant and what isn't - and also which planet likely feels what - some people say the outer planet feels something more while others say its the inner planet that feels it more. Interesting to gain perspectives. Thanks x

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posted September 11, 2014 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone have any other thoughts on these charts - would love to hear your thoughts :-)

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posted September 11, 2014 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you 're a bit more attracted that him, but your Lilith can seduce his Venus. His Venus is what he's looking for in a woman. And usually this aspect exists when one of you two has a relationship and you get dilemma... The fact that he added you in a social network but he keeps it low, gives me the idea that he might be engaged or sth, he wants keep in contact or hes way too shy to show you. Lately, the first occasion happens a lot. Check out his personal life if you have the chance.

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posted September 13, 2014 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Amphitrite:
Ok - thanks so much for your thoughts and opinions on it LeeLoo2014 - not 100% sure on a few things you mentioned but perhaps someone can fill me in at some point. The orb issue is so interesting in synastry - what some people feel is relevant and what isn't - and also which planet likely feels what - some people say the outer planet feels something more while others say its the inner planet that feels it more. Interesting to gain perspectives. Thanks x

You're welcome!
Let me tell you, just as unforgiven soul said, Lilith to ASC and Lilith Venus for a man could be very very strong attraction, pretty much as strong as one can get with Lilith. Maybe this combined aspect could even be stronger than some traditional planetary attraction aspects, especially for a guy with Sun/Pluto in Scorp. But it's the kind of attraction where you perceive the woman as a bit dark and dangerous. However, his strong Sun with no aspects from you is hardly a good aspect in the long run.

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