posted September 12, 2014 04:41 PM            

The free color horoscope at astro.com perfectly describes the guy i work with:
"Your tendency towards abrupt mood swings and your high sensitivity to atmospheres repeatedly make life more difficult for you and those around you. As long as everything goes your way, you are in a good mood. But if something gets in your way, you can suddenly become sullen and behave like a capricious Prima Donna" -> soooo true

Unfortunately I don't have his birth time, so i set his chart for noon but even now we have an amazing amout of aspects independent from his birth time.
Pluto Conjunction Venus Orb 0°16'
Lilith Conjunction Sun
MC Opposite Venus Orb 0°29'
Moon Opposite Jupiter Orb 2°04'
Uranus Opposite Saturn Orb 5°33'
Lilith Square Jupiter Orb 3°30'
AS Square Venus Orb 3°30'
Venus Square Venus Orb 3°56'
Sun Square Venus Orb 6°56'
Moon Trine Sun Orb 1°40'
Mars Trine Venus Orb 2°10'
Sun Trine Neptune Orb 4°26'
Sun Sextile Saturn Orb 1°13'
Neptune Sextile Venus Orb 1°25'
Lilith Sextile Uranus Orb 2°02'
AS Sextile Saturn Orb 2°12'
Mercury Sextile Venus Orb 2°23'
Sun Sextile Pluto Orb 2°30'
Jupiter Sextile Venus Orb 2°43'
Sun Sextile Mercury Orb 2°45'
Lilith Sextile Moon Orb 3°16'
Pluto SemiSquare Sun Orb 0°40'
Venus SesquiQuadrate Neptune Orb 0°18'
Moon Inconjunction Neptune Orb 1°00'
Moon Inconjunction Mercury Orb 2°42'
Moon Inconjunction Pluto Orb 2°57'
Lilith Quintile Venus Orb 0°01'
Lilith Quintile Saturn Orb 0°16'
Neptune Quintile Uranus Orb 0°36'
Sun Quintile Uranus Orb 1°05'
Pluto BiQuintile Saturn Orb 0°01'
Chiron BiQuintile Uranus Orb 0°36'

They told me that he is nice to me - by his standards - but I have also been told that he his nice behaviour can turn to insults and screams within seconds. It hasn't happened yet.
What do you think about our synastry? I am the cancer asc

posted September 13, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
This is looking veery challenging to me, at first glance. This looks like a person that can blow up on you, and how. His Pluto on your Venus, his BML on your Sun, his Uranus-Chiron on your AC-DC axis AND then his Moon, ruler of his Sun and AC, in your H6. All of this shows us you're very sensitive to his moods at work. Try to be very, very careful with him. I'm not sure what to advise you but to try to take this as a learning experience. You'll see a lot of bad behaviour from him, try to learn from it.

Also, just asking out of curiosity, is this a strictly business relationship? Because it's looking kind of hot, in a, you know, bad way.

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Thank you, but it's my Pluto on his Venus and my BML on his Sun... So it's me who will behave bad

But he is the petty tyrant....hmmm...so he needs to be careful of me? Hmmm....I was asking because he is supposed to be the capricious, volatile, nasty and disrespectful as* who threads everyone like dirt.

Yes, it's a professional relationship only and I hope it's going to work.

posted September 13, 2014 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Thank you, but it's my Pluto on his Venus and my BML on his Sun... So it's me who will behave bad

But he is the petty tyrant....hmmm...so he needs to be careful of me? Hmmm....I was asking because he is supposed to be the capricious, volatile, nasty and disrespectful as* who threads everyone like dirt.

Yes, it's a professional relationship only and I hope it's going to work.

Does anyone else see alerts in here?

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posted September 13, 2014 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I see a rather smooth synastry here and if anyone gets nasty at some point, it would be you, not him Behave yourself!

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He threads me as if I were some kind of idiot (sometimes he's nice). I am even not sure if he can stand my presence

posted September 13, 2014 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
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that's exactly how it's like. When he writes me an email, he expects me to reply within seconds. And sometimes I just don't understand what he is saying

i can't have a plan, he's soooo erratic, incalculable, capricious and unpredictable

posted September 27, 2014 08:30 AM            

It worked quite well (he was very soft and gentle to me and he's almost never like that- i can feel honoured) for some time but a few days ago we had huge arguments- I am of the opinion that he needs a high five - in the face- with a chair.
He shouted at me, I shouted back and when he tried to call me, i did not pick up the phone. I broke off any communication. Normally I am not that stubborn but he really insulted me.

posted September 27, 2014 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
I am of the opinion that he needs a high five - in the face- with a chair.

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yeah, intense aspects between a man and a woman...if there's no sex, there will be chair throwing

posted September 27, 2014 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Okay, time for a feedback

It worked quite well (he was very soft and gentle to me and he's almost never like that- i can feel honoured) for some time but a few days ago we had huge arguments- I am of the opinion that he needs a high five - in the face- with a chair.
He shouted at me, I shouted back and when he tried to call me, i did not pick up the phone. I broke off any communication. Normally I am not that stubborn but he really insulted me.

Maybe that is what we can see in our synastry: His venus is hit a lot but my pluto on his venus, my lilith on his sun and probably my mars on his moon: He likes me (my moon, the ruler of my sun, venus and asc trines his sun and his venus is highly aspected) but on the other hand I drive him crazy, I can push his buttons

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Imo, his Cancer Sun on his AC, square Pluto, though wide, is what denotes a difficult personality. That's a lot of Water, in Cardinal Houses.

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

yeah, intense aspects between a man and a woman...if there's no sex, there will be chair throwing

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posted September 27, 2014 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

yeah, intense aspects between a man and a woman...if there's no sex, there will be chair throwing

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ah, but the 2 of us need to stay professional. Dilemma.... we can't have sex to escape the passion
I would have alreadys cratched his eyes ...really... but it's not a private environment. And it looks like that I keep on working in his enviroment...Urgh...

posted September 27, 2014 09:04 AM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:

Ouch. I hope it gets better between you two. This is a difficult synastry to stay professional. Hm, and his Mars opens your H8. Oh yes, lots of chair throwing potential. All that energy has to go somewhere.

Imo, his Cancer Sun on his AC, square Pluto, though wide, is what denotes a difficult personality. That's a lot of Water, in Cardinal Houses.

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yeah, intense aspects between a man and a woman...if there's no sex, there will be chair throwing

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Hey, I am the cancer sun/asc sq pluto and I am easy to handle no, just joking but my difficult personality is wee comparing to his personality. Everyone hates him or is afraid of him.