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Topic: have anyone here experienced hard neptune aspects in synastry how did it work out?
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 130
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 15, 2014 12:26 PM
  
does this mean two people wont see each other in the "right" light or that it will be deceptive behaviour involved? can this also show two people that might have a hard time knowing where the other begins and where the other ends? IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
Knowflake Posts: 129
From: Philly
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted September 16, 2014 07:51 PM
I've never had any luck with hard aspects to neptune. My moon/venus/mars are all huddled up in pisces square my neptune (in the 8th no less)... and anytime I have a conjunction to those 3 ever so important planets, I end up super hurt. And the men that I truly fall for... those 3 planets are usually all square his neptune. It's a nightmare. Never know what's real. Feels like your drowning in a watery rabbit-hole. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2076
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 17, 2014 01:35 AM
The closest synastry aspect I have with my boyfriend is actually his sun square my neptune. And his neptune also square my mercury very closely. And I do think we can get all distorted and not really see each other clearly sometimes.
But the important thing here is just communication and we have been very good at this from the start (a double whammy sun conjunction mercury).
We also have sun-saturn double whammy, and I think this helps to see things clearly in a way too. But no matter WHAT happens he will always be my prince, and I don't care if he is not a prince, the important thing is just that I love him and believe in him and even though he is not perfect he is still the coolest person I've ever met <3 I think with a good portion of saturn on the side of this and mercury too, you'll be fine even with this hard aspect  BUT hey, I've only been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, this is NOTHING and I don't know what will come in the future for us, but I hope and wish for the best, and I'm always 100% honest with him, even if the truth will disappoint him I know, but it is more important that he won't get deceived And I can of course only hope that he will feel the same with me, and also be honest with me! IP: Logged |
Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 905
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 17, 2014 03:27 AM
As far back as I can remember (and of course, combined with the astrology knowledge I've gained), I have ONLY experienced hard Neptune aspects.It's not very calming and I never feel 100% at ease in a relationship. I've been cheated on or majorly lied to every single time with these hard Neptune aspects involved. My poor hubby (yet another hard Neptune aspect) probably gets tired of being on trial for crimes he likely didn't commit. I just can't relax because I often feel that it's a matter of time before I learn something he kept hidden from me. I also find myself setting unrealistically high expectations of people. ------------------
“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2076
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 17, 2014 03:35 AM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
My poor hubby (yet another hard Neptune aspect) probably gets tired of being on trial for crimes he likely didn't commit. I just can't relax because I often feel that it's a matter of time before I learn something he kept hidden from me.
I felt like this for a couple of days ago with my boyfriend actually! It was the exact same thing! But then I was honest and told him about my fear, and he instantly told me that it was not like that at all, that he only loves me and wants me, and I feel so relieved afterwards Now I feel totally safe again, but I also know that the fear will likely come up again at some point (because of our neptune aspect, but also his natal chart) but then I must just tell him again…. but I trust him 100% but still, I can get afraid with these aspect :/ IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1979
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted September 18, 2014 12:42 AM
We have hard neptune aspects, but we have more saturn aspects. They balance each other out. Neppy makes us more forgiving of each other's short comings, I think.His neptune conj my sun/merc, sextile my MC
Mine square his sun, trine his moon n NN quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
don't care if he is not a prince, the important thing is just that I love him and believe in him and even though he is not perfect he is still the coolest person I've ever met <3
This definitely sounds like neptune's work to me. I remember that a while back I wrote s.t like "I don't think he's perfect but I treat him as if he is". Lol that's pretty similar. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2076
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 18, 2014 02:47 PM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
This definitely sounds like neptune's work to me. I remember that a while back I wrote s.t like "I don't think he's perfect but I treat him as if he is". Lol that's pretty similar.
Yes exactly! We have had some situations where he disappointed me of course and vice versa, cause when you put a person this high, there is nothing they can do but disappoint you at some point.
It's about trying not to set too high expectations. But with neptune you can easily get all dreamy and romantic and think about "all the romantic stuff you are going to do together, and he is so perfect and he gives me everything just like in a fairytale" but come on, no one is like this 100%. BUT….STILL…. I love my boyfriend, and with neptune, a lot of saturn is a bliss, which we also have, thank god<3 IP: Logged |
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