posted September 16, 2014 09:53 PM            

I can't help but feel that there was something really powerful there between us but I also have a venus square neptune in my natal chart so maybe it was just me. Any insights on this would be much appreciated. Thank you.

Here's our synastry with my limited info on him. He's on the left.

posted September 16, 2014 10:53 PM            

The path to Extended Chart Selection is like this:

Free Horoscopes -- Horoscope Drawing and Calculations - Extended Chart Selection.

After you've saved in Photobucket, edit (crop) it to show just the image. Then copy the image link here. Only keep the text between the 'IMG' .That should show the image rather than show the link. Like i did here.

posted September 16, 2014 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Shespeaks1:
@ scropiojunkie85 Yeah, I've read that site a few times now. You've had two of these kind of relationships?? Dear lord. I can barely handle one.

How did you get over them?

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hahaha I haven't... the first one left me totally handicap and the second one, i'm currently in Saturn/Neptune conjunction under 2 degrees. Oh an did I mention my neptune is in the 8th house? It's haunting. If I didn't hear from them I just assumed something terrible had happened to them and it was the most irrational fear. I'm still digesting. This current one I'm in is actually more "potent" than the last in terms of that conjunction. The last one was full of saturn squares, oppositions and conjunctions on both ends. It was a nightmare.

If you find anything else, let me know! I need all the help I can get too...

posted September 16, 2014 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by scropiojunkie85:
Are you the inside or outside person in that chart. I'm an aquarius too... that venus sits nicely on my mercury and jupiter. lol and we have similar first names.

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Neptune in the 8th? Yikes. Sounds intense. So did you have saturn square neptune in both relationships or oppositions too? Seems like oppositions are more intense than squares.

posted September 17, 2014 03:54 AM            

That's my intense, heavy, haunting synastry with my Soulmate / Karmic Partner with whom I have some very dark, outstanding karmic debts and powerful soul contracts. I'll gladly show you what indicates this, as there are several patterns, configurations and aspects; certain things we look at to understand what's going on.

In our case, we've been former lovers, rivals, and just about anything under the sun that tests resolve and creates potent challenges to overcome. Now we're destined for a lifetime relationship as partners of some kind -- as we've tackled everything from creative projects to sex research together -- that's not surprising. We're better and more formidable as a team than apart.

posted September 17, 2014 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Shespeaks1:

chiron opposite pluto
lilith opposite moon
pluto opposite moon
pluto opposite venus
saturn opposite sun
pluto opposite sun
saturn opposite mc
saturn opposite venus
saturn square neptune*
node square pluto
saturn square saturn

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The above MIGHT be karmic aspects. SATURN square NEPTUNE is most definitely; one of the 'star-crossed lovers' aspects. PLUTO in hard aspect to VENUS can really kick, too. As well as when it's opposite the MOON in synastry.

Orbs matter, too. I prefer the tighter -- around 3°, but I'll expand to 6° in the case of most planets, and 9° at maximum.

You also ought to investigate KARMA (3811) and DESTINN (6583). ALMA (390) can be very illuminating, too.

posted September 17, 2014 04:08 AM            

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Originally posted by scropiojunkie85:
hahaha I haven't... the first one left me totally handicap and the second one, i'm currently in Saturn/Neptune conjunction under 2 degrees. Oh an did I mention my neptune is in the 8th house? It's haunting. If I didn't hear from them I just assumed something terrible had happened to them and it was the most irrational fear. I'm still digesting. This current one I'm in is actually more "potent" than the last in terms of that conjunction. The last one was full of saturn squares, oppositions and conjunctions on both ends. It was a nightmare.

If you find anything else, let me know! I need all the help I can get too...

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I married a 3° SATURN opposition to my NEPTUNE. I must be insane.

My Twin's NEPTUNE squares my SATURN, 1°, naturally.

Heh. My Guardian Soulmate (with whom I have the above synastry) and I have enough, fortunately, without that particular aspect. Our SATURNs are paralell, but there's no NEPTUNE/SATURN there.

posted September 17, 2014 08:22 PM            

Here's the updated chart with asteroids.

posted September 17, 2014 08:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Sometimes it helps to have a comparison.

That's my intense, heavy, haunting synastry with my Soulmate / Karmic Partner with whom I have some very dark, outstanding karmic debts and powerful soul contracts. I'll gladly show you what indicates this, as there are several patterns, configurations and aspects; certain things we look at to understand what's going on.

In our case, we've been former lovers, rivals, and just about anything under the sun that tests resolve and creates potent challenges to overcome. Now we're destined for a lifetime relationship as partners of some kind -- as we've tackled everything from creative projects to sex research together -- that's not surprising. We're better and more formidable as a team than apart.

Let me know if you're interested, and I'll give you the 101.

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posted September 17, 2014 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Shespeaks1:

Definitely super interested to learn all that I can about these types of relationships. Forgive me for not having much to say about your relationship, for I'm definitely still a newbie at this. Would love to learn about asteroids and how those play into this.

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No worries at all! And, bizarrely perfect timing.

posted September 17, 2014 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
So that's his NESSUS on your ASC? Just checking, since you don't have his TOB.

NESSUS is actually quite known for being sexually obsessive. I'm wondering if it goes both ways. But on someone's ASC -- whew, boy.

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Oh god, haha, what does that mean? That is his nessus btw.

posted September 18, 2014 12:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Shespeaks1:

Oh god, haha, what does that mean? That is his nessus btw.

Gonna go check out your link now.

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Well, I won't confuse the matter, given you're a newbie. But the gist of NESSUS is that it's definitely an obsessive influence. Well, he CAN be.

posted September 18, 2014 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Well, I won't confuse the matter, given you're a newbie. But the gist of NESSUS is that it's definitely an obsessive influence. Well, he CAN be.

But we're not seeing that from his end, so ... curious.

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posted September 19, 2014 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Shespeaks1:
I definitely get that Nessus isn't a very good thing. Lol. I've been reading about it but it seems hard to find info online about it in synastry. Weird about the obsession part, cause Im the obsessed one not him. Or at least if that's how he is, he hides it well.

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I've been doing more research on the matter. When it's angular, or aspecting an angle, I think it can be a toss up. For example, if a point isn't even expressing its energy, it COULD be activated by that point. Or it might be channelled by the other individual.

We could also read this as, 'the Ascendant activates Nessus themes in the native's life.'

Vertex, for instance, tends to colour the association by whatever point it touches -- expressed by VERTEX. Goofy, no? So, perhaps the ASC can do this, too. I'd never quite thought of it in those terms, but why not? Perhaps the ASC is keyed into NESSUS, and begins expressing its obsessive themes.